Any tips to blow her mind :)

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

This is gonna seem like such a noob question - especially since I've given others on this forum advice on women and confidence elsewhere, lol. I'm just fishing for ideas really, and you guys are awesome - so I thought I'd ask.

I'm sort of seeing this girl at the moment. I'm moving away soon and there's no chance of a relationship or anything, so it's just sex. Good sex too, probably because of the whole unavailability thing, no ambiguity about what we're doing etc. She's pretty open minded, and I do really like her as it goes. Truth is, if I weren't moving away I'd probably try to develop it, but I am, so that's a moot point, and anyway if I were available, it would change the whole dynamic and it wouldn't be so goddamn sexy

So anyway I'm seeing her next weekend - all weekend - probably for the last time ever, and because I like her a lot I want to give her an experience to remember. It's a golden situation really. She seems to be really into me (each to their own etc ) and we're both looking forward to it, so obviously I'm starting the foreplay now via text messages/email etc - it's a pretty fun way to spend a week ... anticipation and all that, y'know. I've already set her some ... err.. challenges, so hopefully she's gonna be thinking about me all week anyway.

What I wanted to ask is if any of you guys (or ladies) had any dynamite tips to ..y'know .. really supercharge the whole thing, so it's not just another fling, it's something she'll never forget.

Whaddya think?

[Wazza Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wazza]

Sounds like you're in for a great time

Because you two are pretty much just in it for sex, I would advise avoiding anything overly romantic (thats probably obvious). I can't think of much I could really tell you that you wouldn't already know. I've read some of your posts on the forum and you seem pretty knowledgeable as is.

Maybe take a break from PE for the 2-3 days before the weekend to make sure your junk isn't tired. Perhaps you could even attempt giving yourself a warmup with a cloth and some stretches before you see her! That would make sure your EQ is stretched to the max.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Sounds like you're in for a great time

Because you two are pretty much just in it for sex, I would advise avoiding anything overly romantic (thats probably obvious). I can't think of much I could really tell you that you wouldn't already know. I've read some of your posts on the forum and you seem pretty knowledgeable as is.

Maybe take a break from PE for the 2-3 days before the weekend to make sure your junk isn't tired. Perhaps you could even attempt giving yourself a warmup with a cloth and some stretches before you see her! That would make sure your EQ is stretched to the max.

lol. I'm flattered Just sent her a filthy email... and I've banned her from wanking this week, lol. Good advice on my unit there, there's an extra half inch of penis in that last bit of EQ, right

[that one guy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close that one guy]

Maybe this isn't directed to sex directly but I'm really into staying in shape
So I advise to workout moderately the days prior to that and your body will FEEL harder and probably increase blood flow to your penis as well which I'm sure BOTH of you will enjoy

[Wazza Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wazza]

I agree with the above poster. Doing some core workouts (situps/crunches) a few days in advance will definitely make you feel sexier. Even if it is just a placebo effect, you can never say no to more sexy.

And in addition to what I mentioned before about the warming up and stretching before seeing her, you could also try doing some foreskin stretching throughout the week to loosen up the tunica. If anything, this will give extra space for the improved EQ to stretch and lower the risk of having a sensitivity increase.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I have one word for you: lube. Get some of the tasty stuff, or some of the warming kind (or both). Then get creative. Neither of you will ever forget it!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

then take some baby oil and throw throw the shower curtain on the bed, squirt the baby oil on it and walla, adult slip and slide. might wanna put the mattress on the floor, what ever you decide, have a great weekend

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Why not take her out to a very nice dinner before hand and spend a few bucks. Make the whole thing something to remember.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Why not take her out to a very nice dinner before hand and spend a few bucks. Make the whole thing something to remember.

Haha, you're priceless - I'm trying to destroy her, not marry her!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I would like to point out that many of these suggestions are not mutually exclusive!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I'm a collectable; sort of like a hummel. Well at least get her a burger!

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Oh she'll be treated. Don't worry about that.


In all seriousness, she will have been taken out for dinner loads of times before. Maybe if she pretends not to know me already and meets me at the hotel bar wearing a very short skirt and no underwear, and her (imaginary) husband could turn up at any moment.. then we could be talking.

Flavoured lube is definitely on the shopping list

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

Ummmm. Cinnamon is MY favorite. (jP

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Have a great time ( and tell us all the details when you get back!) And don't get cinnamon; many people have allegic reactions to it!

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

lol.. until five minutes ago I didn't even know you could *get* flavoured lube!