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    Anyone ever heard of someone doing this? Just pretty much deciding that they are going to abstain from sexual contact with the opposite sex.
    Start : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 5 MEG
    Now : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 4.75ish MEG

  • #2
    Somehow it just never seemed to work for me!
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      Not including those who do it for religious reasons haha.

      Cuspie: Man they probably said they had cookies and then trapped you lol
      Start : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 5 MEG
      Now : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 4.75ish MEG

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      • #4
        I did for a while... I did it because sex became a chore for me. I would pass on opportunities and never looked for it. I think that mixed with being bored with women at the time caused me to get used to myself. being unable to ejaculate with the women then having myself to myself for however long i had me to myself. made me program myself to believe it was okay to be alone.

        I'm reprogramming. It's good to have sex every now and then. You've had it so you're good. just get it when you can to keep your mind registered with reality.

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        • #5
          I am in the opposite side of the spectrum and I am fighting this thing off

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          • #6
            Voluntary celibacy makes perfect sense to me if you don't have someone in your life that you are sexually attracted to, and care about. It makes no sense to me if it means that you purposefully avoid ever finding the right mate.

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            • #7
              I am now celibate because my gf is a virgin and said she wanted to wait a while when we first got together... She changed her mind and wants it really bad so now celibacy is my choice, we do have oral sex but I'm waiting this out for now. I am crazy about this girl and we talk about wanting sex all the time. She is really scared of the pain to come, but all this talking about it and turning eachother on is really building up to it so I believe it will be great and we'll know when the time comes.

              07/25/2011
              BPEL 8.5"
              NPBEL 6.5"
              EG 5.49"
              Goal 09/27/2011
              BPEL 8.5"
              NBPEL 7"
              EG 5.6
              Current as of 09/27/2011
              BPEL 8.66" 22cm
              NBPEL 6.3" :(
              EG 5.65 =)
              New Goal 12/31/2011
              BPEL 8.66"
              NBPEL 7" let's try again
              EG 5.75"

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              • #8
                SBE: Yea i here ya. But if you can somehow make yourself happy alone, aren't you then truly happy?

                BW: I understand where you come from too. I dunno though, for some people it probably does work out better than whatever heartache etc comes from trying.

                And for all, this is just a thought. I DO want relationships and all, just thinking.
                Start : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 5 MEG
                Now : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 4.75ish MEG

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by MurphKitty View Post
                  I am now celibate because my gf is a virgin and said she wanted to wait a while when we first got together... She changed her mind and wants it really bad so now celibacy is my choice, we do have oral sex but I'm waiting this out for now. I am crazy about this girl and we talk about wanting sex all the time. She is really scared of the pain to come, but all this talking about it and turning eachother on is really building up to it so I believe it will be great and we'll know when the time comes.
                  Are you really celibate if you are having oral? I consider oral to be the moral and physical equivalent of vaginal/anal sex. Maybe that's because I've never had good opportunities for oral.

                  On a more serious note, I spent 3 nights in a monastery out west a few weeks ago. All the guys were celibate and seemed to be very comfortable with it.
                  BPEL 7.0 +1 1/8"
                  EG 5.6 +.6 (average of girth measures)
                  Midshaft EG: 5.75 +.75
                  Base EG: 6 +.75
                  Top EG 5 +.5
                  NBPEL 6.2. +.2
                  BPSFL 7.3 +1.3

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by mvergasioin View Post
                    Are you really celibate if you are having oral? I consider oral to be the moral and physical equivalent of vaginal/anal sex. Maybe that's because I've never had good opportunities for oral.
                    Yea still having someone else get you off haha
                    Start : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 5 MEG
                    Now : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 4.75ish MEG

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                    • #11
                      What would be the purpose for a male of voluntarily abstain from sex if it's a good thing in every single aspect?

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Jackxxx View Post
                        What would be the purpose for a male of voluntarily abstain from sex if it's a good thing in every single aspect?
                        It's not really the sex. It's all the bs that comes along with trying to have sex and relationships etc. That way you can't get hurt.
                        Start : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 5 MEG
                        Now : 5.5 BP/4.5 NBP x 4.75ish MEG

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by amiok View Post
                          It's not really the sex. It's all the bs that comes along with trying to have sex and relationships etc. That way you can't get hurt.
                          Let me give you an example to show that this is a horrible idea,

                          I played football in highschool and there was a lot of pain and suffering, getting done a game and reaching for biofreeze and advil.
                          I also had a ton of fun both on and off the field and had a huge group of friends to help me out.

                          Apply this to relationships,

                          Sometimes you will get rejected, insulted, slapped (if you try really hard, it takes effort trust me), lied to, laughed at, embarrassed, honestly ran out of ideas at this point but I'm sure theres more.

                          However you will also get sex, sex, more sex, occasionally you'll probably be in love, sex, cuddling, sex, spooning, sex, romantic walks on the beach... followed by sex, laughs, sex, laughing while having sex, sex. You see my point, theres a lot of good mixed in with the hurt, like sex for example.

                          Now in all seriousness I dated a bunch of girls I thought I cared A LOT about, now looking back I had lots of fun, they were great to be with and it hurt like hell when what we had going went wrong, a few of them hurt me purposefully, others I drifted apart from but I still had lots of fun with them and it outwieghs the bad by A LOT.

                          Regards
                          Cdn

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                          • #14
                            couldnt do it... volunteer myself to not get myslef laid... WTF???

                            man i only have to look down and i cant help but think about pussy... just today my mate was laughing at me because i got hard looking at the newspaper nudes... he thought it was really funny... the way he looked at me i thought he was about to throw me out of the car... lol
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Cdn View Post
                              Apply this to relationships,

                              Sometimes you will get rejected, insulted, slapped (if you try really hard, it takes effort trust me), lied to, laughed at, embarrassed, honestly ran out of ideas at this point but I'm sure theres more.

                              However you will also get sex, sex, more sex, occasionally you'll probably be in love, sex, cuddling, sex, spooning, sex, romantic walks on the beach... followed by sex, laughs, sex, laughing while having sex, sex. You see my point, theres a lot of good mixed in with the hurt, like sex for example.

                              Now in all seriousness I dated a bunch of girls I thought I cared A LOT about, now looking back I had lots of fun, they were great to be with and it hurt like hell when what we had going went wrong, a few of them hurt me purposefully, others I drifted apart from but I still had lots of fun with them and it outwieghs the bad by A LOT.

                              Regards
                              Cdn
                              i like this... repped..
                              When your the inventor of the three "ooks" you just know you got it going on...

                              Dont forget to REP if you like my posts....

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