Voluntary celibacy

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

I find all people to be this way, not just women. Though it appears that people speak more truthfully when they feel safe, like on the internet. The pseudo anonymity and not being face to face allows for more in depth expression of thoughts. If I were to hold a gun to someones head and tell them they are about to disappear, I doubt relationships and penis size would be in their immediate thought process!

Oh yea, I agree, 99% of dudes are the same way. I just don't care about the guys

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

I'm sorry, BUT YES YOU DO! Shit happens to everyone amiok.......you act like you're the only one out there who has shit to deal with. It's all in how you personally choose to handle said shit. You can let it get you down which apparently you seem to do or you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and you keep moving forward.

And I guess I'm just crazy.......

The amount of times I've been knocked down, they'd have called the fight years ago.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

No they're not

I love your dedication.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

I love your dedication.

Because I speak the truth. Most people, men AND women, are awful.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

You know what pisses me off? Having a fucking sex dream last night. And it wasn't a random person.....

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

*shrugs* And why do sex and awful people matter to you?

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

*shrugs* And why do sex and awful people matter to you?

Awful people don't matter to me.

Sex matters because it's something some of us can't have. Every fucking one else is getting laid all the time and having fun.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Awful people don't matter to me.

Sex matters because it's something some of us can't have. Every fucking one else is getting laid all the time and having fun.

Fun fact: Not everyone having sex earned it and if you read up on some statistics, sex isn't as fun for many people, resulting in a waste of time and energy. (I guess this will be homework for you).
I know you don't like the idea of having a hooker. Correct me if I am wrong but you want to lay a woman on your own merit, don't you?

I suppose the main thing here is that you don't like yourself.

If you really have tried everything, try these two things:
1) Become like Batman - get your body up to shape, like if shit were to hit the fan and things went medieval, you'd be the kind of guy that survives and dominates. Really, try it, train in the mountains with monks or whatever. Let your body become what it was meant to be. Forget abs or biceps, it's the real strength I am talking about.
As for the brain part - learn some new skills and knowledge. For your OWN sake (and ego).

2) Take all your negative feelings and turn them into bitter-sweet, humorous material, and do a stand up. We'll help you. Find people who could help you, too. Give it a shot at open mic. Won't make your dick bigger but it will work wonders for your confidence and patience.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

This isn't even voluntary celibacy ... it's voluntary opression of your feelings and your ability to discover your true self and living your life.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Fun fact: Not everyone having sex earned it and if you read up on some statistics, sex isn't as fun for many people, resulting in a waste of time and energy. (I guess this will be homework for you).
I know you don't like the idea of having a hooker. Correct me if I am wrong but you want to lay a woman on your own merit, don't you?

I suppose the main thing here is that you don't like yourself.

If you really have tried everything, try these two things:
1) Become like Batman - get your body up to shape, like if shit were to hit the fan and things went medieval, you'd be the kind of guy that survives and dominates. Really, try it, train in the mountains with monks or whatever. Let your body become what it was meant to be. Forget abs or biceps, it's the real strength I am talking about.
As for the brain part - learn some new skills and knowledge. For your OWN sake (and ego).

2) Take all your negative feelings and turn them into bitter-sweet, humorous material, and do a stand up. We'll help you. Find people who could help you, too. Give it a shot at open mic. Won't make your dick bigger but it will work wonders for your confidence and patience.

I have thought of being a stand up. I am terrible at public speaking

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

I have thought of being a stand up. I am terrible at public speaking

Practice dude, practice. Look around for people who can help you, maybe?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

The amount of times I've been knocked down, they'd have called the fight years ago.

And your philosophy is stay down in the fetal position and call it a day? Life is about challenge my friend......you either get back up and try again or you go down in defeit.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

And your philosophy is stay down in the fetal position and call it a day? Life is about challenge my friend......you either get back up and try again or you go down in defeit.

MBD, after a while the feeling of failing every challenge thrown your way just beats you down.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

MBD, after a while the feeling of failing every challenge thrown your way just beats you down.

How old are you amiok?

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

MBD, after a while the feeling of failing every challenge thrown your way just beats you down.

I understand that feeling, pretty much the way I lived my entire life. Nowadays I am trying to change that though.