Dating a bisexual

[Frozenpeople Member Find all posts View Profile Close Frozenpeople]

Sorry she broke up with you. This gives you a chance to find someone that can connect with you. Keep up the Pe, because as you get bigger you will increase confidence and really wow the next girl. Keep us posted

Yeah it hurts... but I'll deal with it. Had trouble sleeping for the past 4 days and started drinking again, but stopped with that finally today... Apparently she really insists that we remain good friends -.- whatever is that supposed to mean.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

From my experience being good friends means that when she contacts you it is because she needs something and when you contact to do anything they are far too busy.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

She just broke up with me today, and I do feel very terrible, but I'll get over it. She was the first girl I actually really liked since my last break up which was a year ago (or even more). Its sad, but yeah... she is going through a "girl phase" now and apparently that means that she would be able to continue seeing me and stuff, but that would mean that we wouldnt be really even seeing each other (its not serious/committed) as one day she would flip and leave me. I guess its for the better.

From my experience being good friends means that when she contacts you it is because she needs something and when you contact to do anything they are far too busy.

I wish I would have seen this thread earlier, I guarantee I would have told you to run for the hills. The way you posted about feeling for her, and the way she answers your texts and just basically her whole "demeanor" regarding you, I'd say she was just trying to f*ck. I'd say you won in that you got a screw out of her. The only thing she was good for, at her age, is that. She hasn't figured out who she is, completely, and was really immature. You were looking for a relationship, she was just looking for fun. No need in getting dragged down.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

Yeah sorry man.. She is exploring her sexuality right now.. What I would do is suggest she explore it with you.. You may be hitting quite a few women if you handle this right..

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

She has many issues, be her freind and keep it there. It sounds like she could use a good freind but it wont be easy. Dont let her use you, she needs a real freind but she will try and take.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

She has many issues, be her freind and keep it there. It sounds like she could use a good freind but it wont be easy. Dont let her use you, she needs a real freind but she will try and take.

The difference between lifestyles I guess. I see this as an opportunity.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I cant say some thoughts didnt cross my mind, yeeehaw!

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I wish I would have seen this thread earlier, I guarantee I would have told you to run for the hills. The way you posted about feeling for her, and the way she answers your texts and just basically her whole "demeanor" regarding you, I'd say she was just trying to f*ck. I'd say you won in that you got a screw out of her. The only thing she was good for, at her age, is that. She hasn't figured out who she is, completely, and was really immature. You were looking for a relationship, she was just looking for fun. No need in getting dragged down.

Ah the way you worded that there .... it all makes a lot of sense now! I guess it was only about having and fu**ing around for her. Why couldn't I see this any sooner? And it makes sense now that she also broke it up very soon after we did it. Hah I guess I wasn't good enough or something must say she was quite wide down there as well.. surprised me. But I'll get over this and will def still stay friends, not sure tho what kind of friends as these things always end up getting awkward.

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Ah, never would have guessed that you are fairly new around here with 1,362 posts but yeah... what I forgot to mention is that this girl I'm seeing drinks a lot. She gets drunk and then usually loses control. This is partly why I'm worried. Plus, she seems to be one of those super feminist girls who wont accept the fact that they do depend on someone to take them home or take care of them in general. For instance, when I see her she kisses me and is really nice and we talk and communicate, but when it comes to phones, sms, facebook anything shes really emotionless. I cant even send her a <3 goodnight wish because she'll just say "gdnight" back to it which sounds cold to me.... Just now I took her home from a bar and she was drunk. I'm not going to be cocky and say anything like "oh she would have never made it home" but hey... she almost lost her purse on the way WITH ME THERE and i found it.

I probably sound like a such a miserable betamale to all of you I mean cmon... I care way too much.. Which is why I'm scared this will be a very one sided rs, as I'm a very emotional person and I just.. need communication/attention/care I guess? Oh why does life have to be so hard.

Her drinking to the point where control is lost AND her being a feminist??? Oh HELL no....you're better off. I'm sorry you got your heart broke but TRUST me, you wouldn't have wanted to deal with that. There are some deeply rooted issues there is she keeps drinking like that. That's not healthy at all.