Catch your wife with another man

[babyblue Banned Find all posts View Profile Close babyblue]

I think I'm going to the bed now. I hope I won't find a guy on the top of my girl there.

take a gun, just in case.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

take a gun, just in case.

Yeah. If I catch him I'll take him as a hostage.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

I catched no one last night, but I was prepared and that's a good start.

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

It depends on whether he knew about me or not. I'll ask a few questions there and then (I couldn't care less if they were naked). If he did know she was a married woman or a girl involved with another man, then I'll dent his face in. If he didn't, it's not his fault. As for her, I hope I'm in her apartment so I can just pack my shit and leave. If she's in my apartment or we share a home together, then obviously it'll take a bit longer to settle everything, but her and I are done. No second chances with cheating. I'll find someone better.

Edit: And if he has a bigger dick than me (something which isn't really my concern but you asked so I'll answer), I'll rip it off and use that long flaccid length to choke him with it. Guess size isn't such a good thing after all, eh?

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

It depends on whether he knew about me or not. I'll ask a few questions there and then (I couldn't care less if they were naked). If he did know she was a married woman or a girl involved with another man, then I'll dent his face in. If he didn't, it's not his fault. As for her, I hope I'm in her apartment so I can just pack my shit and leave. If she's in my apartment or we share a home together, then obviously it'll take a bit longer to settle everything, but her and I are done. No second chances with cheating. I'll find someone better.

Edit: And if he has a bigger dick than me (something which isn't really my concern but you asked so I'll answer), I'll rip it off and use that long flaccid length to choke him with it. Guess size isn't such a good thing after all, eh?

What about he's someone you know very well, like your best buddy? You're not supposed to beat your buddy over a bitch, right?

[babyblue Banned Find all posts View Profile Close babyblue]

of course not! you gotta take him out for a beer.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

I mean if you catch your buddy thrusting your woman, don't try to break his nose. Don't be angry at him. He is in that moment your real best friend. The best friend you'll ever have. For god's sake, the man did you a favor of your life. He's got rid you of an false friend and an unfaithful woman. Isn't it 'as good as it gets'?

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

I don't think any one of us can predict what actions we would take until we're actually faced with this situation. I can say all day I would do X, but until I'm faced with it, I really don't know. I would love to think, first, that my hubby would never do this; second, that if I did find out/catch him, I'd pack up and leave, but sitting here thinking about it, I honestly don't know. I hope I never have to go through this but so many do on a daily basis, and I do wonder if how they thought they would handle the situation differed from what they actually did in the end. And what factors changed their decision to stay or walk away.

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

What about he's someone you know very well, like your best buddy? You're not supposed to beat your buddy over a bitch, right?

My best buddy? I probably wouldn't beat him then but that's it, both of them are out of my lives for good.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

I don't think any one of us can predict what actions we would take until we're actually faced with this situation. I can say all day I would do X, but until I'm faced with it, I really don't know. I would love to think, first, that my hubby would never do this; second, that if I did find out/catch him, I'd pack up and leave, but sitting here thinking about it, I honestly don't know. I hope I never have to go through this but so many do on a daily basis, and I do wonder if how they thought they would handle the situation differed from what they actually did in the end. And what factors changed their decision to stay or walk away.

I agree, but I've always been thrilled by those people who pretend not to see their partner's infidelity and try to live their lives intact by the cruel reality and the fact that their acquaintances and friends laugh behind their back or they just feel sorry about them.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

I agree, but I've always been thrilled by those people who pretend not to see their partner's infidelity and try to live their lives intact by the cruel reality and the fact that their acquaintances and friends laugh behind their back or they just feel sorry about them.

A lot of those(who may look to us to be pretending) truly are the last ones to realize that their partners are not being faithful. Some are well aware and instead of facing it, communicating with their spouse/partner would rather carry on with life as is, and those are the ones that I feel sorry for. They sacrifice their own happiness with their partner/or maybe even a future partner, for whatever fear is holding them from speaking up/facing the issues in their current relationship.

Also, there are some couples who are, unknown to us(as it's none of our business) in open relationships and that's their prerogative. So, while it may seem they are cheating/or getting cheated on, that clearly isn't the case.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

A lot of those(who may look to us to be pretending) truly are the last ones to realize that their partners are not being faithful. Some are well aware and instead of facing it, communicating with their spouse/partner would rather carry on with life as is, and those are the ones that I feel sorry for. They sacrifice their own happiness with their partner/or maybe even a future partner, for whatever fear is holding them from speaking up/facing the issues in their current relationship.

Also, there are some couples who are, unknown to us(as it's none of our business) in open relationships and that's their prerogative. So, while it may seem they are cheating/or getting cheated on, that clearly isn't the case.

I didn't mean on them.

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

I wanted to say how some people live in their lies most of their lives. Close their eyes and ears to things they don't want to see or hear.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

163 posts before this one and 62 belong to ivioca. Most of his posts are 'And Then' or a variation...

Wow!

[Nachos87 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nachos87]

He got an erection because his thread is noticed. So now he is doing his best to keep it alive in order to feel important.