Dunno what I would do, been cheated on many a time but never caught em red-handed if you know what I mean, also never been married, but I imagine it wouldn't be pretty.
The guy would more than likely catch a beatdown, and the verbal abuse to her would be equal.
It's your attitude and it's good to have one. Better to have one than none. Most people who have avoided this thread have an attitude on this issue but they are also afraid to openly say what they think about the situation that most of us consider very embarrassing. Some of them certainly do not want to participate in the debate because they think they have nothing to say or think that this could not possibly happen to them. (Some also think that thread sucks, and they have told me that in some way). Do they afraid to say their own opinion or they afraid of discussion, I do not know, but I know that it would be better if we were all more open and that through open discussion come to some sort of conclusion and maybe learn something new. Of course it would be nice to have more participation of those who have experienced this event, and although they could have found it very embarrassing, to share their stories with us. When you're online it's a lot easier to do it than in public, especially because we all have our identities protected and ensured by discretion.
It's your attitude and it's good to have one. Better to have one than none. Most people who have avoided this thread have an attitude on this issue but they are also afraid to openly say what they think about the situation that most of us consider very embarrassing. Some of them certainly do not want to participate in the debate because they think they have nothing to say or think that this could not possibly happen to them. (Some also think that thread sucks, and they have told me that in some way). Do they afraid to say their own opinion or they afraid of discussion, I do not know, but I know that it would be better if we were all more open and that through open discussion come to some sort of conclusion and maybe learn something new. Of course it would be nice to have more participation of those who have experienced this event, and although they could have found it very embarrassing, to share their stories with us. When you're online it's a lot easier to do it than in public, especially because we all have our identities protected and ensured by discretion.
Be thankful of the ones who have posted. The ones who haven't posted, it's not necessarily because of embarrassment, or any other reason you stated above. Remember, members aren't required to post on every thread, we do it if we wish, nothing more. Maybe if you wouldn't come at each member who has posted with extra hypothetical "what if" questions after they've taken time to respond to your thread, more would join in.
Like I said in my response to this thread, for me(never been in this situation/cheated on), I honestly don't know if what I think I would do if I were cheated on would match my actual actions should I find myself faced with this. And for the ones that have experienced this, who knows if they would react the same way twice. It's all a bunch of what if's.
Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
Be thankful of the ones who ha:ve posted. The ones who haven't posted, it's not necessarily because of embarrassment, or any other reason you stated above. Remember, members aren't required to post on every thread, we do it if we wish, nothing more. Maybe if you wouldn't come at each member who has posted with extra hypothetical "what if" questions after they've taken time to respond to your thread, more would join in.
Like I said in my response to this thread, for me(never been in this situation/cheated on), I honestly don't know if what I think I would do if I were cheated on would match my actual actions should I find myself faced with this. And for the ones that have experienced this, who knows if they would react the same way twice. It's all a bunch of what if's.
Most of us learned to let go of bad relationships. It affects the quality of your life and not worth fighting over.
Being decieved and cheated on usually snowballs to much worse implications.
Be thankful of the ones who have posted. The ones who haven't posted, it's not necessarily because of embarrassment, or any other reason you stated above. Remember, members aren't required to post on every thread, we do it if we wish, nothing more. Maybe if you wouldn't come at each member who has posted with extra hypothetical "what if" questions after they've taken time to respond to your thread, more would join in.
Like I said in my response to this thread, for me(never been in this situation/cheated on), I honestly don't know if what I think I would do if I were cheated on would match my actual actions should I find myself faced with this. And for the ones that have experienced this, who knows if they would react the same way twice. It's all a bunch of what if's.
Are you suggesting me to leave visitors alone and not to bother them with "what if", so they will more frequently visit this thread?
Nope, not suggesting that at all. Just offering you a "what if" that was a reason more members weren't commenting, as you were suggesting their reasons being: embarrassment, no knowledge on subject, an attitude, afraid, or not being open. The possibilities are endless.
Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
Nope, not suggesting that at all. Just offering you a "what if" that was a reason more members weren't commenting, as you were suggesting their reasons being: embarrassment, no knowledge on subject, an attitude, afraid, or not being open. The possibilities are endless.
Are you male or female? Those legs are confusing me.
Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
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