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David.K003 is one of our local "adopted children". We know him personally, not just over the internet. We do however have other adopted internet children that we care for as well.Bondage.
Some people call it domestic violence.
We call it foreplay.
Got cuffs? GAME ON!
My routine and gains.
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Weird...but not as weird as I was originally thinking...goodOriginally posted by Looking4more View PostMarch '13 - BPEL 6.0' EG 4.5' (length is an approximation)
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I think it's a great idea if you want the entire basis of your relationship to be on the physical side of things. However, if you want to really get to know one another for the purpose of forming a serious commitment to one another, then I'd highly discourage 1st date sex............and I speak from personal experience.........I did that more or less with not one but two different women and BOTH relationships ended badly.............Originally posted by David.K003 View PostHello guys, I'm curious of what you guys think about having sex on the first date with someone you like
What's usually the outcome? Is it something bad?
give me your opinions
Thanks
After reading the posts in this thread, I appear to be the only one who thinks it's a bad idea........you can't POSSIBLY know someone well enough having sex on a first date. Sex forms an emotional attachment to the other person,whether or not you two are "hot" for each other at the onset isn't the issue. You have sex and she figures out he's a stalker or he figures out she's a bipolar nutjob but you two have already done the deed so now you've got that emotional connection that sex tends to bring about.......JMOLast edited by MrBigDick; 04-07-2013, 08:08 PM.It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)Comment
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I had sex with this one girl on the first date and we dated for about two and a half months. I'm not trying to be cynical and she was nice, but she ended up being absolutely crazy!! I mean like sociopathic and plus she was kind of slutty. So from my experience I would say wait till the second date.Comment
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Case and point....Originally posted by long View PostIt's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)Comment
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doesnt matter. I had sex with my current BEST FRIEND the first time we met, we both got drunk and had sex outside. She is my best friend for 3 years and running and we have a long time to go. having sex strengthened our bond. It is truly what you make it.Originally posted by long View PostI have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.
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Different people, different situations, and different outcomes... Theres no one answer. There are some good suggestions and points of view. Take them into consideration, but you need to make the choice based on your intellect, not others.
Dont get me wrong, a second/outside opinion is always helpful.
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truthOriginally posted by Revolved View PostI have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.
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I think the key thing to consider here is whether or not you want a long term relationship. Yes there are exceptions, I'd happily concede that point, but overall having sex straight away tends to keep relationships shallow.
For the most part I wouldn't consider a girl I had a one-night-stand with as a potential girlfriend and I know some women that feel the same way.
The one time I 'broke' my rule was with this gorgeous German girl who completely rocked my world. I totally thought we made a connection. When I asked her if we could get more serious she basically told me that this was just a fling and she couldn't have a real relationship with me because to that point it had been totally based on sex. I honestly hadn't been expecting that, in my experiences prior to and after this I've found that once you sleep with a woman they tend to 'latch on.'March '13 - BPEL 6.0' EG 4.5' (length is an approximation)
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Ok but think about how much you just contradicted yourself. Isnt that german girl proof? Her mind had you completely set on just having sex, so thats all you ever were with her... You didn't have the other girls in your mind as completely sex, so you tried for more with them.....Originally posted by Whiteboy16 View PostI have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.
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Yes, I have contradicted myself. As I said I accept there are exceptions, and I provided and example of one. But in my experience the norm is that when relationships begin with sex they don't evolve into much more, as in the case with the German girl, unfortunately.Originally posted by faithandhope View PostMarch '13 - BPEL 6.0' EG 4.5' (length is an approximation)
April '13 - BPEL 6.75' EG 4.6'
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Yes, I think the TRUE answer to this question is that their really is NO answer. Everybody is different. We are all unique.Originally posted by Whiteboy16 View PostI have no problem being with just one woman, but I can't not eat all the donuts.
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Yep, this is probably the best way to put it.Originally posted by faithandhope View PostMarch '13 - BPEL 6.0' EG 4.5' (length is an approximation)
April '13 - BPEL 6.75' EG 4.6'
Short term goal - BPEL 7' EG 5.0'
Long term goal - who knows?Comment
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