Completely Discouraged

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

@Sky Runner

I started after I met her because all of the guys she had been with before were much larger than me (or so she says, she's not very good with estimating length). Since I knew this, I resorted to PE to improve what I had. She's made jokes in the past but I never got offended because I even make jokes about myself sometimes. This was no joke however. Even worse is that she lied about being satisfied for all this time.

@Danny A

Somewhere around 6". I'm not small by any means, but I'm still not big either.

Size is irrelevant. Just trust me for now.

If I may ... how long have you've been together and about how old are y'all. I'd like to offer some advice, I just want to get a couple more details. Thanks.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

I would of left her, why? Someone who loves you does not say that.

Leave this bitch, get a new one that you are sexually compatible with .

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

I would of left her, why? Someone who loves you does not say that.

Leave this bitch, get a new one that you are sexually compatible with .

Easy tough guy! Do you want your woman to leave you every time you act like an asshole? Relationships ought to be strong enough to withstand common shit like this. I think it is mostly a communication break-down. We are only getting 1/2 of the story.

[mission9inches Member Find all posts View Profile Close mission9inches]

I love when someone says if they love you they wouldn't said those harsh word... lol I guess you haven't been in a serious hardcore argument with you gf/wife. She lashed out because she felt offended, they taljing to her and let her know those words hurt and explain to her what you meant about trying something new. Obviously if you haven't broken up with her at this point you truly care about her, take the advice of everyone and make the effort to show and introduce the new things in a neutral settings.

And old saying I like saying, "you can get more out a spoonful of sugar than a barrel of vinegar"

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

I love when someone says if they love you they wouldn't said those harsh word... lol I guess you haven't been in a serious hardcore argument with you gf/wife. She lashed out because she felt offended, they taljing to her and let her know those words hurt and explain to her what you meant about trying something new. Obviously if you haven't broken up with her at this point you truly care about her, take the advice of everyone and make the effort to show and introduce the new things in a neutral settings.

And old saying I like saying, "you can get more out a spoonful of sugar than a barrel of vinegar"

I was saying if your significant other normally issues cutting remarks that to me its not worth it, because they accumulate. Tell her what she did and allow her to sooth you and say she probably shouldn't have said it like that.

[mission9inches Member Find all posts View Profile Close mission9inches]

I was saying if your significant other normally issues cutting remarks that to me its not worth it, because they accumulate. Tell her what she did and allow her to sooth you and say she probably shouldn't have said it like that.

Yes verbal abuse is not worth it but from the OP this seems to be the first time she's lashed out.

[wurzbach Member Find all posts View Profile Close wurzbach]

If you keep jumping the gun and ending things because of conflict you will never get anywhere in a relationship. If it becomes habitual then it is a problem.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Totally not cool what she said. If this is going to be your wife, I'd say reconsider, because these are all red flags. stuff will go downhill fast over the years.
It kinda depends on how long you have been together and how old are you. If you are young and its just a girlfriend I'd move on.
If you have been together for a long time and stuff, and you totally love her, maybe you can still salvage it. Like what Qarzan said in the 4th post or so.

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

Man I really feel sorry for you! And yes it was not right of her to tell you that!

If anyone have read my other posts, I always vote for "stay and make her happy". But, I'm actually a little confused about this one. Are all the other things fine except the sex? I think there might be some other problems in your relationship too, maybe?

I made a good post a while ago, take a look. maybe you should consider doing something like this? I know it might be hard for you to actually stay calm and fight for her. But, do you love her? If so, fight for her! How long have you been together? Wouldn't it be a shame to leave it all behind? All the memories?

As you can see I'm trying to make you to think about all the good times you have with her. When you come home from work, and she have just made up dinner for you. And on the evenings when you are tired and go to bed, she follows you. Think about all the good stuff, and I'll promise you that, if you do good stuff to her for a week, she'll start doing nice stuff back to you.

Cmon brother! Don't blow this chance!