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  • #91
    Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
    I'm bumping this because I'd like some of the guys posting in this forum to read it....
    Also, Redpill Reddit and TheRationalMale are some other great places to find some great info.
    I been seeing a lot of messages on the forum about women problems, so here you guys go. All the advice, real advice, not advice from wannabe's and know it all's .... Check out those pages and please read the book of pook!!!!!
    Lastly, STOP ASKING WOMEN FOR ADVICE ON A RELATIONSHIP>>>>>>>>>>
    IMO, and many others, that's the absolute worse thing you can do... Nice guy blah blah blah. Wait for a nice girl, blah blah blah.
    Hope someone out there reads this and it helps them... It did for me!
    I'll second. And I recommend ROK also. I think younger males will especially benefit from this perspective. Read and decide for yourself.... Simply disregard and move on if you feel uncomfortable with the information.
    trepan
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    Last edited by trepan; 03-13-2014, 08:14 PM.

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    • #92
      I forgot about ROK(Return of Kings)... Great site, and they just implemented a policy about not letting anyone reply to women or homosexuals comments. A plus IMO! That way you don't get caught up reading all the nonsense and arguing in the comment section from the haters. Thanks Trepan....

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      • #93
        Okay... while sites like theredpill make good points about the basic laws of attraction, but they generalize and treat women like garbage. I don't know if you can have a fulfilling relationship with such a mindset.

        Look at the comments below here:
        What American Women Watch On Netflix

        What do you feel about them?

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        • #94
          Spitting out the red pill because some of the people offend you or have different goals than you, is like skipping the gym because some guys there are douches.

          Plenty of men (and women) who have taken the red pill want quality relationships, which is why they took it. The red pill is the absence of lies. Want a good relationship ? Strip away all the BS that doesn't and hasn't worked and deal with reality as it is.

          As far as "how I feel about them" concerning comments on the internet, I'm a man, I don't "feel" shit about comments on the internet, I'm not on forums for my feelings.

          The red pill does not treat women like garbage, they treat people who value themselves like garbage as garbage, be they man or woman. If a woman devalues herself, so be it. Want to be a whore and also demand being treated like a princess ? TRP says no, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

          There is also a red pill women site on reddit.

          To the OP here and others in the thread, I was surprised when I found this site that given it's reason for existence, it's completely blue pill. So be it, I'll take what I can from it concerning PE, EQ, etc but that's it. Remember you can't make someone take the red pill, and in fact if you do try they will spit it out AND you'll be hated. No one wants their reality changed by force.

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          • #95
            Originally posted by INS View Post
            Okay... while sites like theredpill make good points about the basic laws of attraction, but they generalize and treat women like garbage. I don't know if you can have a fulfilling relationship with such a mindset.

            Look at the comments below here:
            What American Women Watch On Netflix

            What do you feel about them?
            What American women watch on Netflix?....

            The author of the article admitted it was his ex-girlfriend and her two friends. The author stated she was a selfish unmoral person to paraphrase.

            So now all American women can be judged by the actions of 3 immature 20 somethings....Really? This is the site educating boys on how to be men?

            I'm not trying to pick a fight by any means, but lumping all women into one group is sad and irresponsible. A 19 year old boy versus a 35 year old man will use this information differently. We have a moral obligation when we post to remember this.

            Very sad day....Thank you to all the great men on this site. Men with balls...Men with pride...Men who stand up for what they believe in and do not propagate the hate and sexiest views of the few.

            "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing."
            Edmund Burke
            Frog
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            Last edited by Frog; 03-15-2014, 10:30 AM.
            "A negative mind will never get you a positive life.”

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            • #96
              It all seems very immature to me, but what do I know? If you're seriously this jaded, then you've already lost whatever supposed battle you think you're winning.

              <puts on flame retardant suit>
              My Log: EQ | Foreskin Restoration w TLC Tugger

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              1. Maintain Optimal EQ (10 / 10)
              2. Full Foreskin Restoration (100% flaccid coverage)

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              • #97
                I only started this thread to give guys a different option than this site, for discovering the real reasons behind their relationship problems. Too many men these days are scared of their own masculinity. And yes, I was one of them. 99% of guys have never heard of hypergamy or LJBF or the RED PILL or anything associated with MGTOW.... And of course, the dreaded White Knightery!!!! Which is already taking place in this thread...

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                • #98
                  Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
                  I only started this thread to give guys a different option than this site, for discovering the real reasons behind their relationship problems. Too many men these days are scared of their own masculinity. And yes, I was one of them. 99% of guys have never heard of hypergamy or LJBF or the RED PILL or anything associated with MGTOW.... And of course, the dreaded White Knightery!!!! Which is already taking place in this thread...
                  Define masculinity!
                  A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                  • #99
                    No thanks MrB8 ... I won't even go there...
                    I will define White Knightery though, if you want.... Can you send me your life story and I'll copy and paste it!
                    Lol..............................
                    Just kidding Bro...All in good fun right?

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                    • Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
                      No thanks MrB8 ... I won't even go there...
                      I will define White Knightery though, if you want.... Can you send me your life story and I'll copy and paste it!
                      Lol..............................
                      Just kidding Bro...All in good fun right?
                      Yeah, okay, its just that IMO there are a lot of mix-ups in that post (the whole subject, to be honest) and I thought its beneficial to all if that whole thing is cleared up.

                      Personally, I believe that masculinity promotes civility and being humane, to love and care for your others, especially your partner, it promotes good things, that are usually misunderstood or misused by some who brought a negative stereotype to values such as being nice, or chivalry.

                      Anyways, to each their own, we have different ways of thinking, and I sincerely wish everyone to find happiness in their lives, with someone special, just for them.


                      I love this quote. --v--
                      Originally posted by workin_4_it
                      Happiness is a choice, and positivity is all about perspective. Change your outlook, and you change your outcome.
                      A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                      • Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
                        99% of guys have never heard of hypergamy or LJBF or the RED PILL or anything associated with MGTOW....
                        Never heard of any of it. I get the red pill allusion to The Matrix.
                        My Log: EQ | Foreskin Restoration w TLC Tugger

                        Overall Goals
                        1. Maintain Optimal EQ (10 / 10)
                        2. Full Foreskin Restoration (100% flaccid coverage)

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                        • Ok, looked it up

                          Men/Man Going Their Own Way.

                          MGTOW is basically the statement of self-ownership and saying that only you have the right to decide what your goals in life should be.
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                          My Log: EQ | Foreskin Restoration w TLC Tugger

                          Overall Goals
                          1. Maintain Optimal EQ (10 / 10)
                          2. Full Foreskin Restoration (100% flaccid coverage)

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                          • Chivalry... Lol
                            Do you even know what chivalry means?
                            The Concept Of Chivalry Has Been Distorted To Create Subservient Men

                            Read this MrB8.. I can't wait to hear what you think about this!

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                            • Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
                              Chivalry... Lol
                              Do you even know what chivalry means?
                              The Concept Of Chivalry Has Been Distorted To Create Subservient Men

                              Read this MrB8.. I can't wait to hear what you think about this!
                              Yeah, lol!

                              Seriously!

                              I prefer the following definition, nothing about being subservient here.

                              The qualities idealized by knighthood, such as bravery, courtesy, honor, and gallantry toward women.
                              The combination of qualities expected of a knight, including courage, generosity, and courtesy.
                              And just because there is no knighthood these days, it doesn't mean that the good qualities should vanish as well.

                              I am highly against one gender being subservient to the other, or under the other, I believe in equality and no discrimination.

                              A man is man, has his role, and duties, he is not in a higher place than a woman.

                              Also women are not to be discriminated against, nor are they superior nor inferior to men, again, we are all equal.

                              I don't see any contradiction between having a balanced relationship, without all that nonsense power play, and masculinity, being a man, means that you look after your partner, respect them, and love them, its not about being above them.

                              I am not promoting feminism (not in the sense that you are aware of), and I am against caveman behavior and outlook, whats so hard about that?


                              One more thing, don't change yourself to be liked by others, you are who you are, be yourself and the right people for you will like you.

                              No games, no play, if someone thinks that if they act nice they will get something more, then they are wrong, and they dont deserve more, if they think that acting like an AH will get them more, again they are only an AH, and shouldn't get what they are looking for.

                              I really don't understand why is it so hard to understand (well, I am truly TERRIBLE at getting any point through, but I should probably start a thread about that, not to derail yours), all I want is that people don't hurt each other, lets help one another so that life gets less cruel, not make it worse.
                              A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                              • Originally posted by slikkmeister View Post
                                Chivalry... Lol
                                Do you even know what chivalry means?
                                The Concept Of Chivalry Has Been Distorted To Create Subservient Men

                                Read this MrB8.. I can't wait to hear what you think about this!
                                If you go through life picking and choosing when to be kind, when to be chivalrous and when to be a prick, you will miss out on the beauty of life.

                                I choose to be me..." To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man." S.P

                                If you pick and choose how to act depending on the person you are with, then you are denying your true identity and will never find happiness. Never let anyone effect or change your core or your soul. If someone takes advantage of your kindness or chivalrous nature, don't stop being who you are because of the selfish actions of one. Just don't give them the opportunity to do it again.

                                "Like attracts like" This is the law of attraction. If you are attracting someone you deem to be unworthy, look in the mirror. What kind of "energy" is your body emitting to the world? We can not blame others for our unhappy lives. Blaming is giving complete control to the other person.




                                Frog
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                                "A negative mind will never get you a positive life.”

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