Still a virgin because of 5.7 inch dick?

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Im sorry, how is BPEL usable when u cant even see it? Not trying to spark a war here just kinda lost on that.

When you grind your pelvis into a female for maximum penetration, you are pushing past your 'visible' penis, and into your own fat pad. You are essentially pushing past what is visible normally.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Im sorry, how is BPEL usable when u cant even see it? Not trying to spark a war here just kinda lost on that.

random question...

just because you can't see it doesn't mean she can't feel it.

I've regularly heard "You're way bigger than you look"... "something is strange about it, it' just feels way bigger than it looks"

"Shocked me with that, it's huge."

My BPEL is 8.75, It's about 6.75-7" NBPEL depending on the day.

NBPEL is showing off, BPEL is usable length.

[blackscale Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blackscale]

I think this thread is great and informative about the reality of sex and dick size.

BPEL is usable, if you struggle to use your BPEL you're doing it wrong.

[Thenewguy2 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thenewguy2]

You can't really use all that BPEL though? I would say that your usable length is closer to your NBPEL than BPEL if you think about it? You gotta press in very hard to use a lot of the BPEL and in many positions this is not easy, also you might be hitting a bit hard if you're going quick and you wanna use as much as possible of the BPEL..

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

This is yet another sad story about a man who has allowed porn to influence his life to such a degree that he has frightened himself away from dating- despite his larger than average dimensions.

While this might be more of a rhetorical question, just what is it that one thinks a woman truly wants? An increasing number of men have "deified" women to such an extent that they feel that they have to be much more than average in every aspect to even be able to allow themselves the "privilege" of their company.

As stated earlier on some of these replies, the problem is much more rooted in low self-esteem and even self-loathing than in penis size.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

While this might be more of a rhetorical question, just what is it that one thinks a woman truly wants? An increasing number of men have "deified" women to such an extent that they feel that they have to be much more than average in every aspect to even be able to allow themselves the "privilege" of their company.

I find this especially true for myself. I know that I feel that being just average isn't enough, and not just because of porn or my penis, but in many other facets of my personality and life.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

C'mon man! You've got some wonderful advice above, and really your size is above average, even if you like to believe that bone pressed is not usable (albeit so wrong but suit yourself) 5.7" is average and your girth is too.

Now all you need to do is drop that below average self esteem and enlarge your confidence as it is what the ladies dig anyways, that and EQ, also pick around some knowledge and sex education from here and TPW's independent blog http://www.thepassionatewife.com but first and foremost, you need to get out, have fun, date, and get in a relationship, there's so much to it than size and yours is big.

[Thenewguy2 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thenewguy2]

I feel like I'm not good enough lol. Why would a woman want to be with me when 95% of the male population is better looking? Why would a woman want to be with me or spend the rest of her life with me and not someone else? I just don't see how my personality and I can out-weight for that. I don't know where I would put myself on the personality scale, I'm not very confident, I don't see why a woman would be with me instead of all the others with average or better personalities. I'm not a douchebag, I treat everyone with respect and I love women, but I'm pretty awkward in real life and I'm not interesting.

EXTRA: I mean think about your friends? What makes your personality better than theirs? They are all nice, they all treat women well.. Just look on the average guy at your work place or at your university. All intelligent, all know how to treat women, all know what they are doing...

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I find this especially true for myself. I know that I feel that being just average isn't enough, and not just because of porn or my penis, but in many other facets of my personality and life.

Take heart in the fact that you are far from alone in this type of thinking. IMO, there's a very strong cultural mechanism at work that has made men to feel as if they're inferior and disposable. At 40 years of age, I'm old enough to have experienced a time where this negative cultural meme wasn't quite as pervasive as it is today. Surely some of you gentlemen who are even older can relate to this better than I can.

Let it be known that this line of thinking isn't benefiting women- on the contrary- this false war of the sexes has been extremely damaging to both men and women, and each generation seems to suffer more than the last from the ill-effects of these destructive behaviors.

We can use the porn issue to show that the effects are not one-sided. How many women behave the way they do sexually because they feel that men have certain expectations of them due to the influence of porn? It would be too easy to lump the issue off on porn alone.

Here's a simple and interesting test: If you have a good eye, take a look at the covers of most women's modern magazines. Note the very clever positioning of texts in relation to the images/figures. Someone versed in marketing techniques can easily see the subliminal attempts at influence with these tactics. This is something that has been going on for a very long time, and has recently become so blatant that it's not even hidden anymore- but even embraced mostly by the young and easily influenced.

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

I feel like I'm not good enough lol. Why would a woman want to be with me when 95% of the male population is better looking? Why would a woman want to be with me or spend the rest of her life with me and not someone else? I just don't see how my personality and I can out-weight for that. I don't know where I would put myself on the personality scale, I'm not very confident, I don't see why a woman would be with me instead of all the others with average or better personalities. I'm not a douchebag, I treat everyone with respect and I love women, but I'm pretty awkward in real life and I'm not interesting.

I feel like I'm not good enough too and I still got a hot girl (yes, she is really hot) to marry me. I think many men are better looking than me, I'm shy and somewhat lacking in confidence, and I still wonder why in the world she is with me. So it is hard to banish these thoughts from your mind I know. There will be a woman, probably many who will love you and want to be with you. Give yourself more credit. Oh, and I seriously, SERIOUSLY doubt you are in the bottom 5% of the population in looks, I just think you have spent a lot of energy putting yourself down into the well of hopelessness and despair. It sounds quite familiar actually. Maybe something in this thread will help with your negative thoughts:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...f-blaming.html

If you need to, just fake the confidence with a new woman until you are actually comfortable with her, that's what I did. I think you can do it if you just try and I assure you that the first step is indeed the hardest.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I feel like I'm not good enough lol. Why would a woman want to be with me when 95% of the male population is better looking? Why would a woman want to be with me or spend the rest of her life with me and not someone else? I just don't see how my personality and I can out-weight for that. I don't know where I would put myself on the personality scale, I'm not very confident, I don't see why a woman would be with me instead of all the others with average or better personalities. I'm not a douchebag, I treat everyone with respect and I love women, but I'm pretty awkward in real life and I'm not interesting.

EXTRA: I mean think about your friends? What makes your personality better than theirs? They are all nice, they all treat women well.. Just look on the average guy at your work place or at your university. All intelligent, all know how to treat women, all know what they are doing...

No offense, but I think that you are quite disillusioned as to what women want. More than anything, women are drawn to confidence. You see yourself as inferior, lacking confidence, and as having nothing to offer, and women can usually pick up on that very easily. YOU have convinced yourself of these negative traits, so it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Even the false confidence known as cockiness is much preferred over obvious self-loathing.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

...If you need to, just fake the confidence with a new woman until you are actually comfortable with her, that's what I did. I think you can do it if you just try and I assure you that the first step is indeed the hardest.

There is something to this, and it involves visualization. You essentially act like the person that you wish to be (confident, strong, etc.) In time, you can actually become that person!

[6-Speed Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 6-Speed]

Ok guys! I'm 19 btw, someone asked me on first page. I'll just whip out my slightly average dick next time. How many guys do you think the average 18 year old (first year uni) has banged? IMO 3 for 5/10, and for hot girls 4-6 this realistic?

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

At 18 years of age, most guys don't have a whole lot of experience or a large number of women under their belt, unless they started having sex at a ridiculous age.

[HammerTime89 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HammerTime89]

I was around 18 women by the time I was 18, only one of them was a one night stand. The size of my penis had nothing to do with why women wanted me. I was confident, confidence is what women find sexy. Most women i know would rather be with a guy with a below average penis and confidence, than an above average penis with no confidence. Know what you want and go get it!