For those who are obsessed with their size, any idea where it comes from?

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Not necessarily; if your current size hits the "button" when it's "balls-deep", then any bigger and you might start missing it. You could be the perfect length for her!



You was thirteen, your penis had another six years of growing. Girls can play cruel games sometimes, you were probably going to be told that regardless, along with the other 30 lads that they rubbed up and told the same thing, then joked about it in the toilets together. Time to move on bro.

Yet............

I agree with your desire to do PE, never quit PE because a woman tells you to, but she may also be feeling a little insecure, you're married, why now all of a sudden do you want a healthier dick? Explain to her the reasons, and she'll most likely be very encouraging and supportive. (She might even help you out with your edging).

If she is satisfied she's satisfied, the most important thing is communication...it's very obvious you two work together very well - so at this point I'm not sure why you are so concerned...it probably is obsessive, but tbh, you should appreciate what you have or work on p.e exercises if it really bothers you that much...but do in humility and not in vain.

Confidence my friend...5.5 ain't that bad...some are starting out at less, some of us more.
If I really wanted to I could obsess on how to get my 7 in to 8 in lmao.
But there's no point in worrying about it....you do it in clarity...and focus...not anxeity...and women sense this type of anxiety from a mile away...your better off cherishing what you have...and again, it doesn't seem like she is dis satisfied bro.

[Greentaboo Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Greentaboo]

Well, I avoided sex and relationships in altogether during high school because I felt like I was small and didn't want to deal with it. Which made me really depressed. I had my first few(and only) sexual experiences with a girl at 19. Those handful of times were terrible and she told me I had a thin dick. This renewed my obsession.

I guess my obsession with penis size is fueled by depression and feelings of inadequacy. Not only do I feel like I'm inadequate to really please a women but I feel like I'm inadequate for myself, if that makes sense.

[mannakonda Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mannakonda]

Well, I avoided sex and relationships in altogether during high school because I felt like I was small and didn't want to deal with it. Which made me really depressed. I had my first few(and only) sexual experiences with a girl at 19. Those handful of times were terrible and she told me I had a thin dick. This renewed my obsession.

I guess my obsession with penis size is fueled by depression and feelings of inadequacy. Not only do I feel like I'm inadequate to really please a women but I feel like I'm inadequate for myself, if that makes sense.

Use that as motivation growing a bigger dick!

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Call it the competitive side of me...although I'll never know in 99% of cases, but I want to be the biggest (or one of the biggest) and best a girl has had. Also blame it on porn and my ego, but I want girls to have a slight problem taking it at first (until they are warmed up), and to comment on my size from time to time. I also don't feel big in my own eyes/mind, but every bit I gain makes it seem more and more like a reality, and every gain makes me want to gain more and more.

To the OP/Ender, don't sell yourself short you are in fact 6.5x5.25 which believe it or not is above average. I know it feels like cheating given the difference in BPEL and NBPEL and I'm the same way. Just keep PE'ing until your new NBPEL is your old BPEL...if you can achieve that, then there should be no doubt in your mind where you actually stand with what's out there. Gains of 1x0.5 don't seem to be that uncommon if you put in the time and effort your body requires to get there.