Hi, I am looking for some real life experience and stories of people who have successfully done anal. I have been in a relationship for over a year, and recently just attempted anal. I am quite big (7.8x6.1) and my girlfriend is really small. Vaginal sex can hurt her even after a year (probably down to my pe!) and she has never done or been that interested in anal. When we tried, I started off giving her a massage, then we had sex and I gave her an orgasm to help her relax. I started to play with her bum and used my mouth and a finger but after a minute she said the finger is too sore so just try now (destined to fail I know). I got about 0.5cm in and she said it was too sore. I understand its a slow process and I am not trying to rush it, but what does everyone suggest? I hadnt used my fingers before this either so do you reckon get her comfortable with that before the next attempt?
Best regards,
Gooner4life
Best regards,
Gooner4life
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