Virgin problems

[Dophan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dophan]

I'm an 18 year old virgin. But I don't think it is due to the problems most people would attribute it to. I'm a very confident and fairly social person with plenty of female friends. However, very few of my female friends are sexually active and so are few of my male friends. I think the problem may be due to the people I hang out with. Should I just go out of my way to make new, sexually active friends or maybe it's a problem that'll sort itself out. We're all on our way to college so most of us feel that we'll become very sexually active in college but I'm sort of impatient in the area.

[Closed054 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed054]

Wait a while. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. You are very young. Find a young lady that you really enjoy being with before having sex with her. Remeber to use protection. Std,s are sometimes incurable as well as deadly.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Take a nice gal to dinner, give her a kiss, and see what happens when you aren't in a group.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Nothing wrong with being 18 and still a virgin. Try not to force the issue otherwise you'll just create anxiety...it will happen given time. You don't have to look for sexually active girls either...might just happen naturally when you least expect it!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I say dump your friends; who needs them. Hell it's more important to get laid than to have good friends. Hell you can get friends anytime you want; they grow on trees but getting laid, well that's much different. I wonder if they would ask the same question if they were here about you? ( I really hope this guy understands sarcasm)

[sidneycrosby Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close sidneycrosby]

I know maybe a handful of people who CAN NOT get laid. It's quite easy, just don't be desperate or pushy. Which is where the people I know fail.
Also, what CUSP said.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I'm an 18 year old virgin. But I don't think it is due to the problems most people would attribute it to. I'm a very confident and fairly social person with plenty of female friends. However, very few of my female friends are sexually active and so are few of my male friends. I think the problem may be due to the people I hang out with. Should I just go out of my way to make new, sexually active friends or maybe it's a problem that'll sort itself out. We're all on our way to college so most of us feel that we'll become very sexually active in college but I'm sort of impatient in the area.

I was horny as hell at 18, yes you are too. But I never ever worried about getting laid. Figured it happen when it happened. Most of my Buds were fuckin but never brought their gals along on our men days. I was the youngest of the group and there were opportinuitys for me to hook up but it would screw up the flow of the Party. Beach days, drinking days, concert days, hanging out days, Bears Days 1985, basketball days, football days, Workin on cars day, cranking the latest new album days, smokin dope days, followed by a visit to Denny's at 3 am days,.... On and on.... I was a virgin going into college, lost it two months into first semester, ironically, to my wife, she's my one and only, thank God. Relax. Good Luck my friend

[Dophan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dophan]

Thanks for the advice. I'll try to stay patient and easygoing about it.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

I didn't lose my V-card 'til I was 20. I was busy. And I was pulled by a girl. It'll happen. Contrary to what people would like to think, women are often just as, if not more horny than guys, and they're better at separating "just sex" from "meaningful and important". Hanging around friends hoping for something to change will get you nowhere but long nights alone. Leave them alone. If you just want to get laid, meet people casually. Be available, comfortable, and ready without fear. Because it's just a fun thing to do, not a big deal at all. Once you'v e lost your V-card, getting laid again is as trivial as going for a beer. Behave that way now. Flirt. Be cheeky and fun. It'll come to you. And if an of your female friends see you being successful with other women, whether that goes any further or not, you'll be an option if they're horny.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Thanks for the advice. I'll try to stay patient and easygoing about it.

You are good dude. Here's a pointer, the first time you will suck at it, but that's ok too. I was terrible for a long time and she stayed with me, so relax. Keep in touch , PM me if ya want, consider me your 53 year old dorm room mate, LOL. I wish I had had one. Oh and remember why you are there, education! So put the X box down and tell Rosey to take a rest. You start makin big money you can have any gal in the room. Apologizes to you lady members, but.......

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Don't stress, you'll lose your v-card most likely when you least expect it. I did! When I was 16, I stayed late after swim practice just doin' some extra laps in the pool. A senior cheerleader who was dating a senior guy I played football with was hangin' around the pool after cheer practice, when I got out and went to take a shower. All the other guys had already showered and left. I didn't even think she noticed me doin' laps, but after I was out of the showers drying off, she walked into the guy's locker room! I'm buck-ass naked and she just says " You're cute, & i'm gonna give you a BJ"! Holy shit! I was sittin' down drying my feet and she just spread my legs and went after me! Now I'd had a BJ or two, but this girl was GOOD! Had me rock-hard in minutes! I took her behind the last row of lockers, stripped her down and balled her on a bench! Not exactly what I'd envisioned for my "first time" (in a sweaty, guy's locker room), but you never know when opportunity will knock! We had sex several more times too, before she graduated in the Spring, so be prepared! Keep a fresh condom with you, and It'll happen when you least expect it! It did for me, and I never looked back!

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

You start makin big money you can have any gal in the room. Apologizes to you lady members, but.......

I don't think it's money, I think it's freedom and being carefree, not desperate for a purpose, take it or leave it. And as such, hard to get. Sure, some women want to be seen in fast expensive cars and receive expensive gifts, but they're a shallow minority. It's all psychology, people (men and women) want what they can't have and are disinterested by that which falls in their lap.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I am always very interested in anyone who falls in my lap.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I am always very interested in anyone who falls in my lap.

Gee, Wishful, with that 10 X 8 in your lap, it's a "chin-up" bar! So I doubt you suffer from any lack of interest from Wishfilled!

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

She does tend to end up in my lap quite often. I guess that makes her the most interesting person in the world. To me anyway