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So, Im having sex with a girl for the first time (with her) tonight and the first time for me in a while. I think Im having some anxiety about it. Of course, Im worried if Im gonna be big enough and so forth. Which sucks any last minute tips??
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Start 2013: NBPEL: 5.75 BPEL: 6.7
EG: 5.3
Goal: NBPEL: 7-7.5 BPEL: 8 (Gain 1.25)
EG: 5.5 to 5.75 (Gain .2 in) -
You're much larger than average. What are you worried about? -
I guess I should note that my new size is closer to 6x 5.5 due to EQ workStart 2013: NBPEL: 5.75 BPEL: 6.7
EG: 5.3
Goal: NBPEL: 7-7.5 BPEL: 8 (Gain 1.25)
EG: 5.5 to 5.75 (Gain .2 in)Comment
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I think its the fact that I hvent had sex in a while, and while Im still larger than average, i feel like it might not be enough if that makes sense.Originally posted by TeddyBear View PostStart 2013: NBPEL: 5.75 BPEL: 6.7
EG: 5.3
Goal: NBPEL: 7-7.5 BPEL: 8 (Gain 1.25)
EG: 5.5 to 5.75 (Gain .2 in)Comment
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Dude, here I go again! :-)
I would contend that women are going to be more interested in how hard you get and how hard you stay than how long it it | how thick it is. Now, they will def like thickness. You are a little thicker than I am and I will tell you that the ladies do love my thickness. But what they really notice is how hard I get and how hard I stay.
Be confident. Just have fun and enjoy. It is all about the fun and the pleasure....not how many minutes go by. I would suggest that most folks are more concerned about how long they can go vs. how much fun they have. I mean, she is going to hang out with you tonight, right? She made up her mind to have sex with you long ago and nothing has changed her mind. So, you are in!
I would suggest that you engage in a lot of foreplay (assuming that she is into that) and that you do oral on her (give her a couple of clitoral orgasms) and then let your fingers do the walking (remember, middle finger and ring finger are the two fingers to use....chicks - if you were to ask them - would tell you that guys get this wrong when they use their index finger and middle finger...I mean, do your thing your way...but consider using middle finger and ring finger instead...) and give her a couple of g-spot orgasms. If you do that....she is going to absolutely want more time with you. I am not as long as you and I really have never had any complaints (pretty much every woman I have been with has told me that I was probably the shortest they have ever been with....but that has never stopped them from coming back for more...and more...and more...and then some more, again!).
Dude, be strong...be confident. Just have fun. Get her laughing and smiling and take it from there. Spend lots of time teasing her, too. Don't go right for the nipples....don't go right for the kitty. Tease her. Make her want you. Just remember, though, that there is a fine line between anticipation and frustration. :-)Start: August, 2017
Start: 5.50inches BPEL x 5.125inches MEG
Goal: 7.0inches BPEL x 6.0inches MEG
Focus: AMAZING EQ! A strong and balanced Pelvic Floor!! Awesome Hip Flexibility!!!Comment
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Well you can be the best with your mouth she has ever had
After you are finished with your mouth, slowly go inside herBPEL = 7.28"Comment
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Your BPEL is almost 7 inches ... you have a huge dong. You'll be fine. The size of your junk isn't what pleases a woman anyway. Just have fun.Originally posted by 372kid View PostComment
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Hey, if you nut "quickly" then be confident in that. Tell her that she turns you on so much that you could not help it. Dude, women have an ego. Believe that. If she makes you nut quickly, and then you do the foreplay thing and then go for round two and it is longer (again, don't get caught up in the number of minutes you can go....who cares if you both have a great time, right?) then she will tell her girl friends....and it will be a very positive conversation.
The women I am with always tell their girl friends about how hard I get....and how I throb in their hands and in their mouths (not trying to be graphic....). Not sure if they mention that I am a little bit below 6".....but their friends do make comments about "...making my man as hard as she makes you..." and "...wish my man would throb in my mouth like you do in her's...".
Dude, enjoy and stop worrying. You are getting kitty tonight. Yippee! I mean, hawt dang!Start: August, 2017
Start: 5.50inches BPEL x 5.125inches MEG
Goal: 7.0inches BPEL x 6.0inches MEG
Focus: AMAZING EQ! A strong and balanced Pelvic Floor!! Awesome Hip Flexibility!!!Comment
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Like what you did there.Originally posted by 372kid View PostA Game of Bones. A Stretch With Rice And Fire.
Start1/04/15:BPEL:7.1 MEG:5.2 -1/07/15:BPEL:7.2 MEG:5.4
Edging For Premature Ejaculation./
Pelvic Floor Balance./
Minute Man'snKegel Master List./ Reverse Kegels./
JP90 Routine./ Conditioning Your Wang.Comment
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I feel you. I think I need to just have more sex. My last encounter was with my ex who cheated, and she cheated a lot, so it kinda tore into my confidence more than I thought at first. Thanks. Now that I think about it, I definitely dont wanna go into it freaking out. That'll definitely make things worse.Originally posted by TeddyBear View PostStart 2013: NBPEL: 5.75 BPEL: 6.7
EG: 5.3
Goal: NBPEL: 7-7.5 BPEL: 8 (Gain 1.25)
EG: 5.5 to 5.75 (Gain .2 in)Comment
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Trust me ... I've been there myself. I know the horrid feeling. Once you get back into having sex again it will restore your confidence. Try not to think too much and just have fun and you'll be okay.Originally posted by 372kid View PostComment
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Wish I was!Originally posted by AverageDude48 View Post
The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".
Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!Comment
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That out a lot into perspective bro, thank you.Originally posted by AverageDude48 View PostStart 2013: NBPEL: 5.75 BPEL: 6.7
EG: 5.3
Goal: NBPEL: 7-7.5 BPEL: 8 (Gain 1.25)
EG: 5.5 to 5.75 (Gain .2 in)Comment
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Yup....if you think that you can, then you can. But, if you think that you can't, then you can't!
Women are totally into mind games (not saying that we men don't dabble in that arena, either) and the size of our dicks is always first and foremost. Like I said before....every woman I have been with has stated that I am the shortest that they have ever been with. So? All I really need to three inches, anyway! Right? I have that and then some. And, funny how they always came back for more....and more and more and more!
But I do totally understand the whole "she cheated and that killed my confidence". When I got separated it killed my man confidence. I was a mess. And it was evident. I would be the worst lay in the country. No doubt. That changed with time and confidence. I would suggest that the issue is with her, not with you. The fact that she cheated speaks to her, not to you. And speaks about her, not about you.
Go and have fun and do your thing! Enjoy!Start: August, 2017
Start: 5.50inches BPEL x 5.125inches MEG
Goal: 7.0inches BPEL x 6.0inches MEG
Focus: AMAZING EQ! A strong and balanced Pelvic Floor!! Awesome Hip Flexibility!!!Comment
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Just remember to settle your nerves, concentrate and focus on giving that kitty a bath! Nasty kitty needs a bath before "feeding It" always! (LOL)! You'll get more comfortable with the impending "event" (for you), she'll get off in the meantime (if you focus on that kitty clit and her G spot, "beckoning that kitty" to "cum to dinner") and you'll be able to "turn the cat out" and serve up some warm 'MILK' THAT WILL MAKE THE KITTY PURRR! It'll be a "cat fight NIGHT", my man! SPANK that BAD KITTY, too (second round)!
Have FUN!
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