Yeast infection smell

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

How do I tell her she's got a nasty smell down there? I don't want to hurt her feelings but I'm loosing my erection due to the smell.
It's either yeast or bacterial vaginitis. She really seems like she dosent notice it.
So should I just tell her and hope she takes it well? I'm going to tell her on our next meeting. Any advice would be very helpful.
And how does she not notice the smell?

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

She might notice it but doesn't think anything's abnormal about it.

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

She might notice it but doesn't think anything's abnormal about it.

I've been sexually active with her for a little less than a year now. It's never smelled like this before. I'm just gonna have a talk with her and hope for the best. I feel like I have to. I just hope she takes it well.

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

I've been sexually active with her for a little less than a year now. It's never smelled like this before. I'm just gonna have a talk with her and hope for the best. I feel like I have to. I just hope she takes it well.

Maybe you can trick her into seeing a gynecologist. Tell her you read an article about women not getting enough check-ups and you're concerned about her health. If you can get her to go, it's almost a sure bet the doc is going to bring it up.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

I'm sure she'd want you to tell her. It's a bit like kissing someone with dog breath and subtly buying them chewing gum.

There's ways of going about telling her without hurting her feelings...to me it shows you care.

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

I'm absolutely going to have to just tell her. I'm not usually shy about things like this but I really have feelings for this girl.
How she handles this might really put things in perspective.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Well...things can't carry on the way they are can they? You don't like it and neither does your todger!

You've been with her almost a year...you should be able to talk about stuff like this. It's not like you're gonna tell her she stinks.

If she never had this problem before she obviously can't help it...it's just one of those things. Anyone can get a yeast infection and whatnot. Is she run down?

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

If your dick had a nasty smell to it that bothered her don't you think you would want her to let you know so you can do something about it? I'm sure she will handle it just fine.

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

Well...things can't carry on the way they are can they? You don't like it and neither does your todger!

You've been with her almost a year...you should be able to talk about stuff like this. It's not like you're gonna tell her she stinks.

If she never had this problem before she obviously can't help it...it's just one of those things. Anyone can get a yeast infection and whatnot. Is she run down?

I'm not blaming her or anything like that. These things do happen. It's just a touchy subject that I want to handle properly.
She is dealing with a little extra stress if that's what you are meaning by "run down."
I've talked with her about plenty of things and will talk to her about this. I'm kicking myself for not doing it when we were together last. I didn't want to spoil an amazing day we spent together.
I have worked a lot on my communication after my last failed relationship. I see this as an opportunity to progress further.

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

If your dick had a nasty smell to it that bothered her don't you think you would want her to let you know so you can do something about it? I'm sure she will handle it just fine.

100% right on this one

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Just handle it with diplomacy. If you're intimate with her you should be able to discuss intimate things.

After all...it's her health we're talking about.

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

Just handle it with diplomacy. If you're intimate with her you should be able to discuss intimate things.

After all...it's her health we're talking about.

That's the plan

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Just tell her that you're worried about her and that with the stress she's been under it seems like her system might be a little out of whack. It might be something that she can correct with diet/OTC stuff, or it might be something that she has to see a doc about. Just try not to make it seem like "OOOHHH girl you NASTY down there!!" or she'll get really self-conscious. Just make it seem like something is *a little* out of the ordinary and you're worried about her well-being and don't want it leading to/becoming something worse.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

A healthy douche might be all she needs. It can be an intimate and a "fun" pre-sexual thing you'll both enjoy! While you're at it, you can also both enjoy an enema as well, making you clean both inside and out after a shower, pre-sex! Offer up reciprocal "rim-jobs" & anal sex for her, and BOTH have some FUN!

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

Just tell her that you're worried about her and that with the stress she's been under it seems like her system might be a little out of whack. It might be something that she can correct with diet/OTC stuff, or it might be something that she has to see a doc about. Just try not to make it seem like "OOOHHH girl you NASTY down there!!" or she'll get really self-conscious. Just make it seem like something is *a little* out of the ordinary and you're worried about her well-being and don't want it leading to/becoming something worse.

Thank you for the input. This is exactly what I was looking for. I do care about her health, I just didn't know how to put it. This is really helpful.