Ladies advice on helping my gf squirt

[snakebites23 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close snakebites23]

Hey, I would like a woman's advice on helping me get my girlfriend to squirt. She has only done it two or three times but never during sex or with me present. Now I know I satisfy her and got her on the threshold a few times making her cry because she felt like it was supposed to happen but didn't. I don't put pressure on her to do it and she knows I'm ok with messes. Also she tells me it's not the penetration that gets her there. When she did squirt, it was her using her multi speed vibrator on her clit for a half hour straight. And all she does is drip small puddles when it happens. If you need any more info, let me know

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

The big question is does she WANT to be doing that? If she doesn't, then don't put pressure on her to do it.

Also you might want to be aware that there's a difference between female ejaculation, which produces small amounts of fluid, and the "squirting" that's commonly seen in porn.
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality. - PubMed - NCBI

"CONCLUSIONS: "The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists."

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

The big question is does she WANT to be doing that? If she doesn't, then don't put pressure on her to do it.

Also you might want to be aware that there's a difference between female ejaculation, which produces small amounts of fluid, and the "squirting" that's commonly seen in porn.
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality. - PubMed - NCBI

"CONCLUSIONS: "The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists."

"Golden Showers",... anyone??

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

The big question is does she WANT to be doing that? If she doesn't, then don't put pressure on her to do it.

Also you might want to be aware that there's a difference between female ejaculation, which produces small amounts of fluid, and the "squirting" that's commonly seen in porn.
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality. - PubMed - NCBI

"CONCLUSIONS: "The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists."

Prostatic secretions?

Okay, either PubMed needs its meds or I'm going crazy. I thought only men had prostates?

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Prostatic secretions?

Okay, either PubMed needs its meds or I'm going crazy. I thought only men had prostates?

Found this...must be what they're referring to.

Skene's gland, also known as the paraurethral gland, found in females, is homologous to the prostate gland in males. However, anatomically, the uterus is in the same position as the prostate gland.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Yep, I believe this is what it was in reference to:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland

[rippem Banned Find all posts View Profile Close rippem]

Not all woman are squirter's, some just make a puddle. The wife and I have different woman over at least twice a month, and I found the ones that keggel hard and hold there orgasam as long as they could then keggel out are the ones that seem to squirter more. Like there trying to pee on you. I don't know if this is true, but the hard keggelers seem to do it..much like us when we keggel and hold it then keggel out it seems to create more pressure..

[rippem Banned Find all posts View Profile Close rippem]

And it's definitely not pee. Lol. You know the taste difference.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

The big question is does she WANT to be doing that? If she doesn't, then don't put pressure on her to do it.

Also you might want to be aware that there's a difference between female ejaculation, which produces small amounts of fluid, and the "squirting" that's commonly seen in porn.
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality. - PubMed - NCBI

"CONCLUSIONS: "The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists."

Yes, my wife can "squirt"but it's more like an ooze. Happens when I'm going down on her clit while I penetrate her with her favorite vibrater. And it is not urine, it's from the skeins glad and while it tastes terrible, I love it every time

[Ravenously Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ravenously]

There are quite a few threads on this here already. Use the search function.

[Adecm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Adecm]

The big question is does she WANT to be doing that? If she doesn't, then don't put pressure on her

^ Best advice

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[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

And it's definitely not pee. Lol. You know the taste difference.

Ok that's questionable . . . as I have never tasted PEE!

All the Gals I have had the Pleasure to Pleasure Squirt!

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[AlpineNewt Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close AlpineNewt]

I've got to ask, why is it important to you? Not all girls squirt, I was very surprised the first time I got squirted because I didn't know it was a thing that happened, I thought she had wet the bed! Serious! I now kbnow it's great but it's not that important, women cum without squirting. True fact.

[Adecm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Adecm]

I I now know it's great but it's not that important, women cum without squirting. True fact.

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[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Yeah, I can do without the squirting. It's a bit of a mess.