The BatLocker: Women and sex toys

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

I enjoy bringing her to orgasm with a toy while I am inside of her not moving. That way I can concentrate of feeling exactly how her body is responding without getting overwhelmed by the way my body responds.
Yum.
Er, I mean Yarrrr!

Mm, this is good too - though normally she's the one holding the vibrator, as she knows *exactly* where to put it.

OTOH, it's also great when I say "no touching, now" and just got for it, until she has no choice but to come.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

There are times for seriousness and depth and passion.... and times for laughing and giggling and silliness.
And all of those things can go very well with sex!
The key is keeping in sync with your partner in terms of mood.
But sex without fun is.... not fun, in the long run at least.

We do not use any sex toys. We have talked about them but have never pursued them any further than talking about them. Lastnight we were kids free. I was tired she was somewhat aggravated from the day. Neither of us were "in the mood". We had gone out to eat then came home. Well one thing led to another and well things just happen. It started out playfully, then seriously then we laughed and were silly. Like you said BW its about keeping in sync. Just knowing when to change the mood or in some cases follow the mood change is key. We were able to be loud and didn't need to warry about a knock on the bedroom door. It was a fun and unpreassured night of love making. Something that hasn't happened in awhile.

[Iwannabe9 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Iwannabe9]

When I was 18-22 I said I'd never use any sex toys on my girl...and if she wanted too she must not be satisfied with me. As I aged...my sex drive increased and my freaky factor was kicked up several notches. I bought my girl a vibrator and a lot of other stuff. I personally find it fun to use a vibrator on my girl or if i'm pounding her...and she uses her bullet vibrating on her clit...if you've never seen a powerful orgasm, one that makes a woman black out, then try it...My girl loves when i unlock the bag of tricks...our sex life is great and I'm glad I experimented with them.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Resurrecting this thread to say:

Don't remember who mentioned a glass wand but I purchased one last weekend on my little shopping trip I had

Finally got to use it last night, and oh my........Cost around 40-45 bucks and well worth it.

Love the temperature aspect: you can cool it or warm it up. Nice

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I hear it stirs pancake batter so well you don't get any lumps.

[KungFuJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close KungFuJoe]

I hear it stirs pancake batter so well you don't get any lumps.

You, of all people, should know that you never stir pancake batter until ALL the lumps are gone. That makes em tough when you fry em!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I believe that I was the one who mentioned the glass wand. Love it! Glad you are enjoying yours, SLU.
My guy loves it too, both giving and receiving.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Makes good pancakes does it?

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I wouldn't know, Cusp.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Well, when I'm 80, I'll start using it to mix pancake batter, Cusp





No, I take that back. Hopefully, I'll still be using it for it's intended purpose

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I think Cusp is afraid to think about it's intended purpose! (you know those old guys and heart attacks....)

[larrypinball Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close larrypinball]

I am a recent convert to the pleasures of sex toys, both for solo play and with my partner. I am curious about what experiences and thoughts you guys have on this subject.

Me and my wife are, every now and then, fascinated by exploring the world of sex toys for our mutual enjoyment and pleasure. The ones that have been around the longest are the LELO toys – Gigi and Billy... Google them, serious quality, design and pleasure – for both her and me... When it comes to me, having my G-spot massaged during sex (with the right toy) and eventually orgasm is mind blowing. Have your man try that.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

I think Cusp is afraid to think about it's intended purpose! (you know those old guys and heart attacks....)

Although if Cusp would give more thought to our toys and spend less time talking about food, it could be of benefit to his overall health. Might even open up some of those clogged arteries from those bacon lube sandwiches he's been eating

We're only trying to help you Cusp

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I am, and have always been, beyond help! You mean you couldn't have figured that out by now? I'm shocked!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I just acquired a new toy -- a Salsa vibrator (made by the Wi-Vibe folks). About the size of a finger, it is VERY powerful and has several settings. I have yet to try it out but it looks quite promising!

Just a little update on this. I am very pleased with my Salsa. It is amazingly powerful and I like the different settings for different patterns of vibe intensity. One fun thing we have discovered is that if I press it against my pubic bone, the vibes are so strong that he can feel them almost as much as I can. A big turn on for both of us!