This is crazy

[Hiplainsdrifter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hiplainsdrifter]

I've been doing PE for 3-4 months now. I've grown a bit from 6.6 BPEL to 6.9-7.1 BPEL depending on erection quality. My girth has been around 5.6

Like many here, I still feel small. It really bothers me. My new wife always makes passing jokes about cock sizes. For example, "once you've had black"....you know the rest. It pisses me off. But, she says she loves my cock .

I've never had a problem hammering away and bottoming out during sex with her. Some days I feel big, others I feel small. This could be based on her time of the month, arousal, EQ, etc.

But lately, I feel bigger inside her. And last time, she felt super tight and i stopped because I could tell she was uncomfortable. She later confronted that I felt bigger and it was a little painful. This has happened a few times now. I've also hit her cervix a few times and in a prior post she has done very minor bleeding.

I now have to be very careful and fuck more slowly. This is crazy because I do not feel big. But, to all you guys out there with size anxiety, I can tell you that my woman jokes about a big dick, but I think she'd have a hard time taking anything bigger than my 6.5 NBPEL/7.00 BPEL. And, she doesn't have any medical issues.

Painful sex for her is a sure boner-killer for me.

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

Are you using enough lube? This is first thing that comes to mind. Swiss Navy lube is amazing and if you have more lube, you may be okay.

Also, are you making sure she is properly aroused so her vagina can tent properly? Lots of foreplay will help her to get ready and will prevent the "seizing" feeling.

[Hiplainsdrifter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hiplainsdrifter]

Yup, we use Astroglide all the time. And she's warmed up.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Are you using enough lube? This is first thing that comes to mind. Swiss Navy lube is amazing and if you have more lube, you may be okay.

Also, are you making sure she is properly aroused so her vagina can tent properly? Lots of foreplay will help her to get ready and will prevent the "seizing" feeling.

I have had guys bottom out when I've been plenty aroused. For many of us (maybe even most of us) there's a point where it's far enough that it's just plain painful. This is why I don't like being with guys with particularly big dicks. I like sex on the rough/hard side. Just plain slow and easy is boring to me. I like to really go at it, balls-deep, primal instinct kind of thing. With a guy that's too big - it doesn't matter how aroused I am he's going to bottom out, and it's going to hurt like hell, and I'm going to want sex to end ASAP. Not my idea of a fun time overall.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

But wait, I thought all women love huge dicks?

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

But wait, I thought all women love huge dicks?

I think he's got one, DAH?

[closed152 Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed152]

I feel your pain! my wife must have a reasonably deep vagina but she can't take me (and indeed none of my ex's could) with her legs elevated. I can go balls deep but I used to get frustrated to hell at not being able to with some of my other partners.

I am around the 8in mark btw so running out of space, I guess statistically is more likely...

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Yup, we use Astroglide all the time. And she's warmed up.

Astroglide does not work for my Bride and I, so we always use a Silicone lube as my girth has become an issue.


Be careful as Silicone in the shower turns it into a Skating Rink!

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

If she's feeling your growth in a negative way, slow down during sexual activities and take your time. It's going to take more preparation for her to physically accept your size.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

But wait, I thought all women love huge dicks?

L O N G Slender Ones . . .

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Ugh, that would be so annoying to hear your wife make dick size jokes. Obviously referencing the fact she has had bigger, or wants bigger. Once you go black...? I would say there is the door, go black and dont come back. Why would she even mention that. That's like you saying to her you have fucked hotter women that were better in bed.

Thankfully I've never had a girl joke about dick size. Just the other day, I said I like Vitamin D Chocolate Milk because of its thickness. Then my girl says she likes thick. But she also drools over my dick and I know I'm the best she has ever had I'm cool with it.

Its just these little comments that dig at you. She might not even realize it. The next time she comments about size, mention how tight your last girlfriend was that she could make you cum in 30 seconds. See how fast she closes her mouth.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Just want to point out I have nothing against black people. Its just a reference to the comment in the OP.

[Hiplainsdrifter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hiplainsdrifter]

Ugh, that would be so annoying to hear your wife make dick size jokes. Obviously referencing the fact she has had bigger, or wants bigger. Once you go black...? I would say there is the door, go black and dont come back. Why would she even mention that. That's like you saying to her you have fucked hotter women that were better in bed.

Thankfully I've never had a girl joke about dick size. Just the other day, I said I like Vitamin D Chocolate Milk because of its thickness. Then my girl says she likes thick. But she also drools over my dick and I know I'm the best she has ever had I'm cool with it.

Its just these little comments that dig at you. She might not even realize it. The next time she comments about size, mention how tight your last girlfriend was that she could make you cum in 30 seconds. See how fast she closes her mouth.

You're right. It pisses me off. She's just being goofy when she says it. I really think she likes my package ( she married me). She constantly touching me, saying I look great I jeans, whatever. But when she jokes like that, I just feel like shoving it in her ass and see how she likes it.

She can't take me fucking her hard for more than 10-15 mins, says she gets sore. Also says I'm too thick for bjs and is scared to take it on the back door.

Next time she says it, ll take your advice and show her the fucking door.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Next time she says it, ll take your advice and show her the fucking door.

I hope since you've only been married a few weeks, you're referring to the BEDROOM door...just sayin'...

[Ravenously Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ravenously]

Well remind her of all the other sayings:

Once you go white...you'll never be right.

Once you go hispanic... you're gonna be manic.

Once you go asian...your life will be blazing.

Ect...

(Note: all above comments are meant in jest and good humor. I am not now nor have ever been racist nor sexest, and will not tolerate either. Also, if you can't handle a joke, maybe you should checkout Cusp's thread on people not being able to take a joke.)