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I saw a YouTube video, it said it takes 30 minutes for women to get warmed up.
What do they mean, "warm up" and how does one "warm them up".
What do they mean, "warm up" and how does one "warm them up".
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So the 30 minutes fact is true?Comment
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Actually it varies greatly from woman to woman . There is no stopwatch method.
On average I am told they take longer than men but then I have had them tell me to get on with it . Ahh if only life were simple ,but perhaps the complexity of women is there for us to enjoy .Comment
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Agreed. Some women can need "all day" foreplay while others can be in the bed before the door has even shut.22 Oct 2016 (Start)
BPFL: 4 FG: 3.75 BPEL: 5.25 EG: 4.75
Current: 23 Jan 2017
BPFL: 4.5 (+.5) FG: 4.25BPEL: 5.3 (+.05) EG: 4.75
Goal:
BPEL: 6.25 EG: 5.5
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From being married for 14 years (going on 15 years this October), I would agree that my woman is a puzzle. Each piece needs to be in place before she gets warmed up. She has to be 110% focused on what is going on and not have her mind wandering about dishes, our daughter's homework, financial issues, etc.
I have learned to value massage, accupressure, and aromatherapy as tools to help her warm up, too.How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than wine! and the smell of thine ointments than all spices! ~ Song of Solomon 4:10
“For things to change, you have to change.” - Jim Rohn, The Art of Exceptional LivingComment
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Man, as I say with us guys, everyone is different. Some women just wanna get right to it. No foreplay, "just put that damned thing in me and go" and like it hard and fast.
Others want only "foreplay" and it takes forever before they will want to have penetration. So, fingers and oral will be the only thing that they want from you for a good long time. So, that is all "foreplay" (whatever the hell that word means....it is all "sex" to me). And some women take three minutes to reach their first orgasm and can orgasm every two minutes or so after that and other women take 20 minutes to reach their first orgasm and want only that one.
While still others want to make sure that they are wet before you try to put it in....so, whatever that means. Here, I mean that they just don't want you to "stick it in" before they are ready. Whatever that might mean!
Now, keep in mind - if I might interject here - that men and women are very different. For a man, we see a woman with a nice body (yep, she goes to the gym!) who is dressed well and BAM! we are ready....
For a woman, however, it is totally different. Her mind is where this 'game' goes on. We men need to do a much better job or recognizing this (again, all folks are different....so that dude might be with a woman where this does not apply at all or this dude might be with a woman where this is maybe/sometimes true) and re-learn the art of seduction. Send her that flirty text when she is at work or out with her girlfriends. Make the opportunity for physical contact to happen...and then keep that contact a split second longer than 'normal'. Make and keep eye contact with her from across the room.....keep it a bit more focused a bit longer than 'normal'.
Someone said it really well with the massages and aromatherapy. Give her non-sexual massages....my all time favorite is to take a bath with her and to bathe her and to wash her hair. That can be an innocent, non-sexual thing and if you do it right.....man, if you do it right, holy cow!
For a woman sex does not start when the clothes start coming off. It started yesterday afternoon......guide her down that path (with the flirty text or mid-afternoon phone call - "Baby, I cant wait for you to get home tonight" and then maybe a couple hours later - "Girl, you are in trouble tonight!!!!!") and by the time the clothes do start coming off she is going to be so wet in desire and anticipation you might not need "foreplay". You *HAVE* been engaged in "foreplay" for the last 36 hours.....
Does that make any sense?
The key is to figure out what your woman likes and needs and wants and make sure that you provide all those things - and then some!Start: August, 2017
Start: 5.50inches BPEL x 5.125inches MEG
Goal: 7.0inches BPEL x 6.0inches MEG
Focus: AMAZING EQ! A strong and balanced Pelvic Floor!! Awesome Hip Flexibility!!!Comment
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Erogenous Zones....
I've double parked in erogenous zones many times
, and the "fine" part CUMS when I realize my "driver" is near her "meater limit"!
...then it's time to un-curb your wheels, rev the engine, and achieve maximum thrust & torque toward the finish line!
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Don't burn the rubber Jock.ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!Comment
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Some women just wanna get right to it. No foreplay, "just put that damned thing in me and go" and like it hard and fast^What I meant, but much better put.For a woman sex does not start when the clothes start coming off. It started yesterday afternoon......guide her down that path (with the flirty text or mid-afternoon phone call - "Baby, I cant wait for you to get home tonight" and then maybe a couple hours later - "Girl, you are in trouble tonight!!!!!") and by the time the clothes do start coming off she is going to be so wet in desire and anticipation you might not need "foreplay". You *HAVE* been engaged in "foreplay" for the last 36 hours.....22 Oct 2016 (Start)
BPFL: 4 FG: 3.75 BPEL: 5.25 EG: 4.75
Current: 23 Jan 2017
BPFL: 4.5 (+.5) FG: 4.25BPEL: 5.3 (+.05) EG: 4.75
Goal:
BPEL: 6.25 EG: 5.5
That guy's logbookComment
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Since a lot of women can't orgasm thru POV sex, foreplay can be her only chance to orgasm. Of course all of us are sex Gods so our ladies can always orgasm with our dicks, each and every time, no doubts about it. Buuuut? Just in case give her a half hour of tongue.A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.Comment
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Every woman is different. My wife likes 1 or 2 minutes of forplay max! If I start fingering her or eating her pussy she can't hardly stand to not have my dick in her. I wish I could get 5 to 10 minutes of forplay in sometimes but it will never happen with her.start feb 2016 bpel 6.0 x 4.8 eg
now bpel 7.0625 x 5.2 eg
goal: hit bottom :)Comment
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I'm the same as Mavric's wife... couple of minutes max of foreplay then get to the good stuff!!Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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