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Wow this is interesting.
The OP goes out of town a lot which will lead the women to create her own life day to day without him. I live near a few military bases and I have seen that many times. Especially the younger women, the older ones tend to be officers wives first off which has it's own rules but they have a whole world going on without the husband so when he is gone their is not big vacuum in their lives. The younger ones tend to keep their single life going on a little to long in my opinion. That might be going on here if the OP and or his wife travel away from each other many nights a year.
On the old boy friend part. Like it's been said they might just have had a totally different relationship and he was clearly in command or he tried to be and they fought all the time. I've seen that both ways where either the women or the man was running the show. A lady down the street runs her house, all the finance, projects, parties etc. Her husband basically just says yes honey and doesn't really want to make the decisions. He likes it that way and he's not some pussy whipped guy. That would drive me nuts. Happens we get along very well together 98% of the time but once in a while let the fighting begin. We're neighbors so it's not like all out battles but she does things to fuck with me just as a power play I think. She does cute things like pat my belly if I'm on the fat side at the moment, she stays in shape always. She doesn't mean it in a playful way she's calling me out. LOL. In the end left on on island by ourselves we would be banging each other then fighting over dinner or something else later on. Next day repeat.
Conclusion of these rumblings is I don't think the OP and his wife spend that much time together so she is kind of half in her single world and half in married. A child shows up and things will come to a drastic end. As far the guy she texts, they just had a different relationship. The sorry thing makes me think they were both trying to be lead dog and fought a lot. If she said she was sorry over something either she said something really bad or she is just being really dominated by that guy. Either way I would say that guy needs to move on.
PS just thought about it. That lady down the street I guarantee gives great BJ's because it's a control thing. Bet the bitch would want to be on top all the time. If nothing else just for the control factor.
The OP goes out of town a lot which will lead the women to create her own life day to day without him. I live near a few military bases and I have seen that many times. Especially the younger women, the older ones tend to be officers wives first off which has it's own rules but they have a whole world going on without the husband so when he is gone their is not big vacuum in their lives. The younger ones tend to keep their single life going on a little to long in my opinion. That might be going on here if the OP and or his wife travel away from each other many nights a year.
On the old boy friend part. Like it's been said they might just have had a totally different relationship and he was clearly in command or he tried to be and they fought all the time. I've seen that both ways where either the women or the man was running the show. A lady down the street runs her house, all the finance, projects, parties etc. Her husband basically just says yes honey and doesn't really want to make the decisions. He likes it that way and he's not some pussy whipped guy. That would drive me nuts. Happens we get along very well together 98% of the time but once in a while let the fighting begin. We're neighbors so it's not like all out battles but she does things to fuck with me just as a power play I think. She does cute things like pat my belly if I'm on the fat side at the moment, she stays in shape always. She doesn't mean it in a playful way she's calling me out. LOL. In the end left on on island by ourselves we would be banging each other then fighting over dinner or something else later on. Next day repeat.
Conclusion of these rumblings is I don't think the OP and his wife spend that much time together so she is kind of half in her single world and half in married. A child shows up and things will come to a drastic end. As far the guy she texts, they just had a different relationship. The sorry thing makes me think they were both trying to be lead dog and fought a lot. If she said she was sorry over something either she said something really bad or she is just being really dominated by that guy. Either way I would say that guy needs to move on.
PS just thought about it. That lady down the street I guarantee gives great BJ's because it's a control thing. Bet the bitch would want to be on top all the time. If nothing else just for the control factor.
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