Girth Conundrum

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Ladies & Gents....



The Girth Conundrum.


I call it a conundrum because while most ladies seem to enjoy a bit more girth for vaginal intercourse, more girth also often leads to fewer opportunities for oral and anal sex.


I'm about 5.3" MEG these days and my recent girlfriend frequently told me that she didn't enjoy going down on me because I was too thick. Seriously a bummer. She also admitted that she was interested in trying anal, just not with what I was bringing to the table.


So, in your experience, what's the ideal girth to get the best of both worlds? Obviously you're not taking out a tailors tape measure before you go down on your man, but I'm curious if there's any general advice on this topic? I'm debating whether I should stop V-Jelqs altogether for the sake of still enjoying things like oral/anal, but honestly I don't feel big when I look at myself and personally want more size.

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Uh, I never had that problem at 4.7.... I honestly don't care though lol I want to be 5.5 so bad! I'd say the best girth is prob 5 inches. Oh, and advice I'd say keep trying to get anal, any chick can take you just need to do lots of foreplay get her in the mood and eventually she will wanna take you! That's how I got chicks to want to try anal who didn't like the idea of it at all

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I tried to have an open dialogue about anal with my partner and she laughed and said she literally feared for her life if we did any more than the tip (which we had tried before).

Not sure if she's a member of your "any chick" group lol

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I would say 5 girth is perfect for oral, vag and anal sex.

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I would say 5 girth is perfect for oral, bag and anal sex.

Does this mean we're not getting married?

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Does this mean we're not getting married?

Nope I like challenges, I would find solutions 😊

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Btw what does P.I.E stand for? It's doing my head in.

I was thinking it must be penis in ....

Evolution?

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Btw what does P.I.E stand for? It's doing my head in.

I was thinking it must be penis in ....

Evolution?

Bottom of my signature

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+ I like pie

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+ I like pie

Who doesn't 😘

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It depends upon how important anal is to the BOTH of you. If BOTH LIKE it, then she can be "trained" using butt plugs in progressively larger sizes to stretch her anal ring (sphincter) allowing her to accommodate more girth over time. RELAXATION is the #1 "problem" in penetration, generally. Learning proper technique and taking it very gently and slowly is VERY important to avoid tearing the rectum and causing injury which can be serious, due to infections.

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I mean....I don't know how important it is either. It's not like a deal breaker. I've never pressured her into trying it or anything like that. Just a bummer that, at 25 years old, I never have tried it (like I said, we got the tip in once but I don't count that, it's like going to the main lobby of the Space Needle and saying you've been inside the Space Needle).

That was with my ex. The girl I most recently had sex with said she's tried anal before and won't do it with me, which is what made me start to question why I'm going for girth gains at all

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They say small pipi fits better in the butt.

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The first girl I had anal with was hardcore. She didn't like Anal at all! She'd make a pain noise if I inserted a finger in her ass lol. I'd always work up to it though and after awhile it didn't hurt her. I think it was my birthday, she finally agreed to do it but me being new to it as well, basically just tried to shove it in with no foreplay at all! I couldn't jam it in my penis was bending when fully erect and it hurt lol. After I got the head in she was almost screaming telling me to take it out lol, I fucked up. Ok so later on I finally get her to try it after foreplay again but this time she was in control so she got on top and did it herself, after that happened she told me we could try it again. Turns out she actually liked it once I figured out how to lol.

Yeah so uh, basically just try to stick a finger in mid act like if she's doggy style or shes riding you. I typically massage it before and keep applying more pressure and massage and repeat and eventually it opens up to your finger and it just goes in! Then keep making circles with the finger that's in like youre widening the hole some more and then stick 1 more finger! Repeat, and once you get to 3 or 4 go for the money! Lol. This is a big paragraph..

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Depends upon your physiology, some guys are more cone shaped with larger bases, some evenly proportional down their shaft, while others have a mushroom head (larger flared corona than shaft), still others have a baseball bat shape when erect. Cones or missile shaped Dicks are easier for anal, typically.