Does it matter?

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

I'm moving to Canada!

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

Hmm thread got into shit hole very fast...

Back to OP question.There are exceptions of course, but in general women like tall men or atleast taller than them.And yes, someone being very very short is a deal breaker for a lot of women no matter personality character etc...

[watersnake Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close watersnake]

You know, it's discussions like this that really make me angry sometimes.




Wow. Just... wow. So little understanding.

1) Confidence is KEY. You can be a muscle-bound billionaire with a huge dick but if you don't have self-confidence then the only women that are going to be interested in you are the shallow ones who are interested in what you can do for them rather than who/what you are.

2) Money does not trump everything, far from it. Money is nice, or more to the point not having to worry about whether or not you can pay the bills this month is nice. And my experience is that it's the YOUNGER ones who are shallower and look more a superficial things like money. When a woman is older it's not about oh hey this guy has a lot of money, or choosing the one that makes more. It's about whether or not a man can actually take care of himself. Does he have a secure enough job that he can actually make it on his own, or is he looking to be an overgrown teenager spending most of his days playing video games while someone else pays all the bills? Older women are looking for men who are equals, and who know how to "adult".

If money and looks were the most important things to a woman then all the good looking women would only be dating good looking men. And yet you so often hear guys so surprised that "the hot chick" is dating a totally bland, average-looking guy. Why is that? Because it's the person inside that matters more than the wrapping. Shallow women will go for the hot, muscular, rich jerk because of how they think it makes them look and what he can buy for them. An actual emotionally-mature woman will go for the man that she can wake up beside every morning and smile because their relationship makes her happy. Money and muscles can't accomplish that.



No, absolutely don't underestimate confidence.

Have you ever had the experience of chatting with women, and for some reason you're just drawn to one of them? She's not the best looking of the group, but man there's just something about her. Maybe it's her smile or laugh or you're not quite sure what. A lot of "it" is confidence. It's a vibe and an energy that she's confident and comfortable with herself. And I'll tell you that in my experience a confident person is a better lover, because they're not as held back by doubts and insecurities.

Okay, I've ranted on this thread and that's the last I'm going to even look at it because it just pisses me off too much. If you guys want to continue thinking that EXTERNAL influences like status, money, cars, etc are that dictate success then that's what's going to continue to hold you back. It's the INTERNAL influences that make all the difference.

The outside is often a manifestation of the inside! A scumbag alcoholic is not dressed like a wall street trader! Most of my experience is probably with what you would label YOUNGER girls, but this is life! I'm not gona wait till I'm over 30 to go after girls. My confidence was outrageous as far as approaching girls and making cute conversation. Did that get me anywhere? no. Very rarely are people imposters for what they really are, in fact that is a common delusion of schizophrenics! So you come on this dick growing site with an avatar of an outrageous cleavage and say its only on the inside that matters. The dating scene is not a psychology interview!

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

"So you come on this dick growing site with an avatar of an outrageous cleavage and say its only on the inside that matters." - it`s good looking picture,that`s for sure

[Kinopio77 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kinopio77]

You know, it's discussions like this that really make me angry sometimes.

2) And my experience is that it's the YOUNGER ones who are shallower and look more a superficial things like money. When a woman is older it's not about oh hey this guy has a lot of money, or choosing the one that makes more. It's about whether or not a man can actually take care of himself. Does he have a secure enough job that he can actually make it on his own, or is he looking to be an overgrown teenager spending most of his days playing video games while someone else pays all the bills? Older women are looking for men who are equals, and who know how to "adult".

You might be right about that. Younger women, though, are also more willing to date the "bad boys," the guys who don't have a leg to stand on. But you might be right about that. And, of course, I do believe confidence goes a long way. Is it enough to trump shortness..? That's a tough one. Nine times out of ten, women will require height. But confidence will get you a day in court. I've seen it.

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

"So you come on this dick growing site with an avatar of an outrageous cleavage and say its only on the inside that matters." - it`s good looking picture,that`s for sure

I ve seen better looking

[fancyhats Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fancyhats]

Wow. Just... wow. So little understanding.

As much as I hate saying it it's true that women default to "loving" men for their assets rather than the man himself. I know it seems pretty horrible, but it's just an evolutionary trait. I've met plenty of women who aren't so shallow or however you'd describe it - these are usually the ones who are aware of this dilemma.

[iamchrno Member Find all posts View Profile Close iamchrno]

Did i start a war here? i just wanna know your opinion guys

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

I ve seen better looking

I guess it`s a matter of taste.But I think we must agree that there is not such thing as ugly tits?

[iamchrno Member Find all posts View Profile Close iamchrno]

I guess it`s a matter of taste.But I think we must agree that there is not such thing as ugly tits?

sorry man im not in to tits. It's fine if the girl has a small one

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Hmm thread got into shit hole very fast...

Back to OP question.There are exceptions of course, but in general women like tall men or atleast taller than them.And yes, someone being very very short is a deal breaker for a lot of women no matter personality character etc...

No doubt! And I got neg repoed for thread theft. Really.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

As much as I hate saying it it's true that women default to "loving" men for their assets rather than the man himself. I know it seems pretty horrible, but it's just an evolutionary trait. I've met plenty of women who aren't so shallow or however you'd describe it - these are usually the ones who are aware of this dilemma.

Wekk the way I would put it is there are a lot of shallow people out there . Women are just as shallow on average as men . I will say I think they tend to be more into money/status in a partner than men . Another funny thing men will admit they are shallow they will say other men are shallow women are in deep denial not only will they deny they are shallow they will deny it about other women .
Now just as some men are not shallow likewise there are some women. I am sick of the confidence cliché just as a by the by.

[iamchrno Member Find all posts View Profile Close iamchrno]

I think Wise people are not shallow bro

[SnapperLapper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SnapperLapper]

Self-confidence is probably the one quality where other shortcomings can be minimized and sometimes overlooked by the majority of the women I've known. Of course, all people look at other factors, too, if they're looking for a potential mate. Most people have an ideal about what they want, and sometimes will rule out the "potential" a person may have because of superficial reasons. I think it's normal to think ahead. The sad part is when a "potential" perfect mate is overlooked because of superficial reasons. It happens often, in my opinion.