Ok this is long and complicated but I will try and sum it up.
My best friend of 2 years now girlfriend and I have been having sex for about two years and we talked about having sex on cam/snapchat we get off to people watching we just never got to that point yet due to some drama.
I slowed down sex with her a few months back before we started dating because I was having pain during orgasms. (was swollen prostate cause from bladder infection) I never told her so she thought I didnt like her sexually no more. So one day I call D-Day she went home with a dude from the bar and had sex. Were both open with each other and she told me he had a very "loooonnnngggg shlong". Since then a bunch of drama blah blah blah now were dating.
Heres the problem and why shes mad. She knows about PE and what I'm doing to fix my insecurities (she hates that I do PE but kinda tolerates it cause it makes me happy) Shes also upset because I dont wanna do the whole cam/snapchat thing yet because of that guy she was with, kinda made me feel bad about myself. I become very insecure but I dont show it and if Im going to be on cam I wanna look and be my best. Last night she was out with her girlfriends and blew my phone up saying I should get over it and move on and that Im fine blah blah blah. I never bring this up to her but she always brings it up to me.
I know theirs more to having sex than penis size and I know I'm perfectly average but its something I would like to fix about myself. Just like me going to the gym daily to try and get a nice body.
How do I make her understand that I need to fix this to feel better about myself and about her being with that other guy?
That guy is 6'2 and I guess 7.4+" and skinny I'm 5'5 muscular with 5.5"
My best friend of 2 years now girlfriend and I have been having sex for about two years and we talked about having sex on cam/snapchat we get off to people watching we just never got to that point yet due to some drama.
I slowed down sex with her a few months back before we started dating because I was having pain during orgasms. (was swollen prostate cause from bladder infection) I never told her so she thought I didnt like her sexually no more. So one day I call D-Day she went home with a dude from the bar and had sex. Were both open with each other and she told me he had a very "loooonnnngggg shlong". Since then a bunch of drama blah blah blah now were dating.
Heres the problem and why shes mad. She knows about PE and what I'm doing to fix my insecurities (she hates that I do PE but kinda tolerates it cause it makes me happy) Shes also upset because I dont wanna do the whole cam/snapchat thing yet because of that guy she was with, kinda made me feel bad about myself. I become very insecure but I dont show it and if Im going to be on cam I wanna look and be my best. Last night she was out with her girlfriends and blew my phone up saying I should get over it and move on and that Im fine blah blah blah. I never bring this up to her but she always brings it up to me.
I know theirs more to having sex than penis size and I know I'm perfectly average but its something I would like to fix about myself. Just like me going to the gym daily to try and get a nice body.
How do I make her understand that I need to fix this to feel better about myself and about her being with that other guy?
That guy is 6'2 and I guess 7.4+" and skinny I'm 5'5 muscular with 5.5"
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