Ejaculation etiquette

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

I'm a shooter. with a bit of concentration my aim is moderate as well. So regardless of position i can usually land my mini-me's over the top of the little lady's head, and that's exactly what i go for. A positive side effect of this is sometimes it can lead to humorous situations that gets my wife to open up a bit to talking about it.

You're sprayin' that far? Cool! Wish I could do that again ... My volume is quite a bit and I wish I could get the distance I used to have. I'll occasionally have a rope or two to get some nice distance, but the rest either oozes or comes in small spurts. I'm hoping my increase in kegeling will help in that - it's helped a little so far but I want a bit more.

Maybe you could let a a little bit hit her arm or something - just to help crack that ice a bit more. You are able to laugh and have some humor to it and you said she's loosening up. Maybe having that happen a time or two may help loosen her up a bit more.

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Voorhees, I may not understand your whole situation, but is seems silly to me that a married couple would use withdrawal (pulling out before cumming) as a primary birth control method. If she didn't tolerate hormonal birth control (the pill) well, how about an IUD? They are very safe these days, and totally unobtrusive. I have had one for 5 years with no problems at all.

It is all fine and dandy to pull out and cum sometimes for the thrill of it, but if you are doing that all the time because you have to -- and she doesn't really like it either -- then you guys need to find another method. Especially because withdrawal is actually not a very effective method of birth control! I just looked it up, and if you don't always do it perfectly, there is a 27% chance of pregnancy each year you rely on that method. That's over a 1 in 4 chance!

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Voorhees, I may not understand your whole situation, but is seems silly to me that a married couple would use withdrawal (pulling out before cumming) as a primary birth control method. If she didn't tolerate hormonal birth control (the pill) well, how about an IUD? They are very safe these days, and totally unobtrusive. I have had one for 5 years with no problems at all.

It is all fine and dandy to pull out and cum sometimes for the thrill of it, but if you are doing that all the time because you have to -- and she doesn't really like it either -- then you guys need to find another method. Especially because withdrawal is actually not a very effective method of birth control! I just looked it up, and if you don't always do it perfectly, there is a 27% chance of pregnancy each year you rely on that method. That's over a 1 in 4 chance!

these things are all quite true Batwoman, and i appreciate the concern. that being said, i would prefer a 25% annual fail rate and tolerate an army of children than deal with my wife's response to hormonal treatment or to malfunction my penis with surgery.

also i've been married to this woman for 12 years, so it's not our first BBQ. we've done nueva rings and pills and shots and none are worth us spending 2.5 weeks of every month at each others throat

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I understand, Voorhees.... but the IUD I'm talking about involves no hormones at all, it is purely mechanical. It is a little T-shaped plastic and copper device that prevents pregnancy. It's worn in the uterus; a doctor inserts it through the vagina, then just has to check once a year to make sure it's still in place. As I said, I've had one for 5 years with no ill effects, I've never even been able to tell it was there. It cost a few hundred dollars to get and have put in place, but it's been well worth it!

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I understand, Voorhees.... but the IUD I'm talking about involves no hormones at all, it is purely mechanical. It is a little T-shaped plastic and copper device that prevents pregnancy. It's worn in the uterus; a doctor inserts it through the vagina, then just has to check once a year to make sure it's still in place. As I said, I've had one for 5 years with no ill effects, I've never even been able to tell it was there. It cost a few hundred dollars to get and have put in place, but it's been well worth it!

oh yes, i know what you're talking about now. the missus was looking into that about three years ago. i'll be sure to reminder her of it this evening.

thanks.

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I didn't think when it came to ejaculation, there was any sort of etiquette.......I mean, it's sperm and semen coming out of your dick. My last two relationships I was with women who just allowed me to release inside. And Renee, God bless her, she swallowed my load every time she gave me a blow job. Cindy, yeah, she wouldn't swallow at all...........that actually takes the fun out of it for me personally.

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Of course there is ejaculation etiquette! OK, so maybe it isn't actually thought about that way.... but both partners need to know what to expect, and if there is any doubt about what's permissible, then that needs to be decided before you get to the PONR.

It may be old fashioned but In my view, a gentleman always lets the lady choose (or at least takes her known desires into account) when deciding where to cum. Of course there may sometimes be accidents or he may get carried away.... but as a general rule, she should at least be consulted in some fashion.

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That's why you say... or at least try to... "I'm gonna cum!" Let her decide what to do.