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[Gravik Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gravik]

Big dick = easier to please a woman

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Nope
Bigger dick does not mean that at all. Big dicks come with their own challenge.
pleasing women is arousing her horny more than what you are putting in her hole(s).
if you aren't turning your women on other ways your big dick will not make it easier for you please her or even more satisfying .
a satisfied women is the female who is provoked and teased to point of no return not the one who is stuffed to full capacity

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Nope
Big dicks come with their own challenge.

Absolutely.

I think it's fair to say that having a big(ger) dick gives a man the potential to please a woman more, if she enjoys very intense sensations during sex, which not all women do. A woman with a small pussy and a low pain threshold isn't going to cope well with a dick much bigger than average. And even if you're with a woman who likes big dicks in principle, if you just stick it in and start thrusting away without any foreplay and build-up, she's just going to get sore very quickly and then she won't want to have sex with you at all. Sure, a big swinging schlong is going to be a visual turn-on for most women, but it's certainly not an automatic passport to being an amazing lover. Dangerous weapons require careful handling.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

All good points there, Cap J, but this bit:

"Problem is, a lot of men on this site have this problem. They have an issue with their size and view it a sexually beneficial at all times. Even the forums have lent themselves to this form of thinking, since all the members continue to perpetrate this thought process. The success forum is riddled with the sexual significance of a larger penis."

makes me say: sure, there are posts about "the sexual significance of a larger penis", but they're from men, right? If a guy is convinced that having a bigger cock will make him a better lover, and he achieves that and is pleased with it, the boosted confidence he gets as a result could well make him a better lover. But do we have loads of posts by women saying "My boyfriend/husband has a bigger dick now and is consequently much better in bed than he used to be (because of his dick size alone)?".

Two things that are important to remember are 1) that big survey (I'll see if I can find a link some time) that showed that most straight women - like 85% or so - considered their current or most recent partner's dick to be either "very satisfactory or satisfactory" in size, and 2) the fact that by far the most popular size of dildos are about the same size as the average erect dick. There might be a few women who genuinely want to ream themselves silly with a cucumber-sized dong but they are very much in the minority.

Fully agree, and great points! Yea, the confidence factor can completely overrule everything else. Also, there are other benefits to PE such as lasting time and EQ, both of which are significant to the satisfaction of both parties during sex. I was just pointing out the faulty correlation between penis size and bedroom success, that even though we may rationally understand, many of us here still pay credence to.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

ttbb did such a good job here with this post. Amiok my friend, i would suggest doing what ttbb said and step up your standards and the people you place yourself around. Those types of women are a very small percentage of the female population and they're just immature little girls inside or cocky wannabe pornstars. Borth of which i and every other real man would not want to be remotely associated with.

^^^^^^^^ sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

^^^^^^^^ sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

What does that mean?
Please speak plainly. There are a lot of people here from all over the world and communication is difficult enough without intentionally vague posts.
Similarly, sarcasm is actively discouraged, especially when it is mean spirited.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

What does that mean?
Please speak plainly. There are a lot of people here from all over the world and communication is difficult enough without intentionally vague posts.
Similarly, sarcasm is actively discouraged, especially when it is mean spirited.

I got -100 rep points for saying sigh.

I get pissed when I read things like "immature girls want big penises" "only sluts want big penises" "i like proper women and proper women don't like big penises".
Actually at this point it's kinda funny. Whatever helps you sleep at night I suppose, if it's lying to yourself and believing nonsense to not feel insecure, then go right ahead.
Also keep in mind that the women at this PE forum do not represent the majority of women. If you can't see this, then I don't feel like explaining it to you, as it will probably get me banned and to be honest, the way a lot of you have been treating me to protect your egos is childish and frustrating, so I really don't care at this point.

I will say this: I am fully aware that the majority of females do not put penis size as a conscious priority when selecting a man to be in a relationship with. But at the same time, sex to a woman is very, very important. And yes, technique and passion is extremely important. Draw your own conclusions.

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Whatever helps you sleep at night I suppose

All this constant maniacal big cock fetishist shit talk from several members has now officially worn down my tolerance level. I'm outta here.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

All this constant maniacal big cock fetishist shit talk from several members has now officially worn down my tolerance level. I'm outta here.

I just think it's good to accept it as a reality. Does not mean you have to base your decisions on it. Just a good thing to keep in mind. Disregarding reality for prolonged periods of time eventually comes to a head and fucks you up. Trust me!

[Dieselnerd Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Dieselnerd]

Wonder if that kid Mike Shlort ever read this...

[Dieselnerd Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Dieselnerd]

What does that mean?
Please speak plainly. There are a lot of people here from all over the world and communication is difficult enough without intentionally vague posts.
Similarly, sarcasm is actively discouraged, especially when it is mean spirited.

Why have you not banned him yet? What does he offer that's positive to this site????

[Lavio Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lavio]

[...]So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success[...]

I totally agree. But, for many of us the thought of a bigger dick raises or confidence in our ability. I do love myself but Im a human being, humans have insecurities. Im not insecure in my ability to love and satisfy, Im just bitter about not being optimal. The mere thought of having that optimal dick just erases any insecurity I might have and makes me feel like I can conquer the world. Not only that, the thought of being able to give my gf the optimal (read: not only satisfactory, optimal) pleasure in bed just turns me on so much.

But your points are great, this is not about the women but the men. It's not about her, it's about me. A man doing PE that doesn't understand that, is doing this for completely wrong reasons. I really do this for myself and for what I believe it might do to my confidence, my ability to be a better man but also my life vision. Yes, it might sound sad but the size of my member really has that big of a weight on how life quality might be.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

The problem is there is no such thing as perfect so once you get to optimal you will adjust the goal line of what perfect is. You need to find confidence with out it relying on your body image..to be truly satisfied with yourself.

Men do need to do it for themselves but while they are doing it for themselves they need to take into consideration female pussies. What is perfect for mens confidence and ego is not necessarily perfect for females to use.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

The problem is there is no such thing as perfect so once you get to optimal you will adjust the goal line of what perfect is. You need to find confidence with out it relying on your body image..to be truly satisfied with yourself.

Men do need to do it for themselves but while they are doing it for themselves they need to take into consideration female pussies. What is perfect for mens confidence and ego is not necessarily perfect for females to use.

I think while a lot of guys say "I do it for myself", more should consider how this phrase reflects their goals. I think EVERY guy really deep down does it for himself. The issue is how healthy their outlook is.

I know where my line is. I know what size I will never go above, and I know I want to gain size because the circumstances of my life have conditioned me to enjoy the thought of wielding a larger member during intercourse. No girl has told me to get a bigger cock, and I don't think that happens to guys often (it happens, but not often). I know some girls may take a bit more pleasure from being filled a touch more and some don't care at all, but that is almost meaningless to me. I have an ample size, and when it comes to sex, it is far more important to me to know what I am doing with my body, my hands, my mouth, my words, and my mind. Controlling rythmn, being sensual, rough, firm, and gentle all at the same time. Teasing, even after foreplay... Sex is always a pattern of a few steps forward and one or two back. Its not a gradual predictable escalation towards the climax, but a teetering unbalanced one, that only increases the excitement. Whats more emotionally stimulating? A rickety bridge over a chasm, or an escalator service from point A to B?

Sexual identity is important to me. It is important to everyone. The problem is, some guys don't know where the line is. They identify their sexual identity as something that is synonymous with their penis. It seems easier to blame something that is considered unchangeable by the majority of the world than actually ask yourself if YOU can improve. PE lets us change something others consider impossible. It takes effort, just as anything does, but the issue is that it relieves men of taking the blame for their weaknesses in the sack. Man up, guys. The human body is a sex machine. Learn to use it, and stop focusing on the size of your hard drive... The other hardware matters way more.

PE is great, but remember... your penis is not your fucking sex life.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

You're just trying to make me give you more reps!! lol
good post Captain(as always well thought out)