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IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

Wonderful post, TTBB.
I totally agree.
I am the same -- I have never chosen a man or left a man because of his penis size.
Sex and relationships and female choice are about so much very more than penis size!

[cameraobscura Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cameraobscura]

Yeah!

That's been my experience too, that women are not shallow, or all concerned about our body parts and measuring them down to the half inch. I've been with some wonderful, incredibly attractive and charismatic women, none of them seemed to really care about penis size, ever! They seemed to have plenty of fun with my average penis.

Unfortunately, I can't really blame my self-hate and insecurity on women, you with me Amiok?

Nice post TTBB and gang.

[bulldog28 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bulldog28]

Just an example question...but lets say you have like 200 people...50 men, 150 women. A rumor gets started that man #35 happens to be very well endowed. Now, prior to this rumor man #35 only got to go on a few dates, but it was those few dates that started the rumor..lets say they are claiming he is 9 inches and thick.

In my opinion...man #35 I bet will start having his phone ring off the hook, even if he is ugly...simply because of curiosity.

Also, it seems like common knowledge girls Do talk about the size of their man's dick IF they are proud of it, and even if the guy who is 6" is the best lover in the world...if that particular girl he is banging is with a group of girls who are promoting their man's dick as 8-9" or hung like a horse, the woman who is with the 6" guy probably will laugh it off and not join in the conversation OR she will say her man is also 8" just to join the crowd.

My point being...women I believe will BRAG if their man is endowed AND a good lover (maybe just endowed only) assuming the group of girls are the type that share that kind of information.

An ex gf (was current gf at the time) once did this. She was talking to a mutual female friend, and for whatever reason dick size came up and the girl said something about me like "I bet he is avg size or something" and my gf (at the time) said "oh no.....he is huge".

Probably the only time in a non-private setting my size was "validated" as being large...though could have just been speaking highly of me instead of putting me down lol.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Amiok.. you have to make the choice to be more then what your past has been

You're 100% correct. I've got to figure out how to truly like myself. Again, I was never trying to be a dick if I happened to come off that way.

[Btufts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Btufts]

Ttbb great post for one. As for myself I have great self confidence with my appearance but or developed that over the years of training, I
Also treat my gf with the utmost amount of respect and I love her dearly just as I did with my one ex who I was with for about 5 years. The only thing I wanted to get out of through pe was to have the biggest penis my current gf has ever had and have something to brag about if the subject came up. Maybe it's an ego thing but she was completely happy with my penis 1" ago and she likes it even more now. The only comment she has given me is that I have to stop at 9" or whenever it starts to hurt. Girls really do not want a monstrous dick inside of them guys, this is all in our own self conscious heads!

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Amiok no one thinks you are a dick .. i think everyone is just concerned about your views of the world and woman AND about your low confidence and body image.. WE just want you to find a happy medium within yourself and see that the size of your penis is not all you are.

[persian Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close persian]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

Nope.
It is just that most of us do not have experience with that situation.

[Stretch Armstrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stretch Armstrong]

The wife and I swing from time to time, of course I wouldn't mind being a little bit bigger!

Surprisingly, a lot of women even in that lifestyle will tell you that size isn't paramount.. just get it up, keep it up.. as long as it's hard and normal. Of course there are size queens there too..

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

SO basicaly micros are screwed?

Nope.. try not to focus on the wrong part of what i am about to say..lol
Often a lot of straight women find themselves in relationships with other women eventhough they have never swung that way before.. why does this happen its because of the way the other women makes them feel and the basic over all physical attraction that is felt ..which is more important then penis .. i believe if a man had a micro penis, there would be an adjustment period.. and it would come down to the mans ability to make the woman feel loved .. If you can get your penis up then it would be utilized no matter what its size is.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Great post, TTBB.
I had not thought about that before, but I have known several (otherwise) straight women who had fairly long term affairs with other women. (Each had a history of bad choices with men, and, interestingly seemed to make much better men choices after their lesbian experiment.)
Clearly, they were able to find a fulfilling relationship without a penis.

[Stretch Armstrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stretch Armstrong]

Great post, TTBB.
I had not thought about that before, but I have known several (otherwise) straight women who had fairly long term affairs with other women. (Each had a history of bad choices with men, and, interestingly seemed to make much better men choices after their lesbian experiment.)
Clearly, they were able to find a fulfilling relationship without a penis.

You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

Yes, but that is clearly not the point.

[W.M.P. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close W.M.P.]

Great thread you started here, TTBB. There's one too many guys in these forums who seem to be trapped in a mentality where women are seen as beings for whom the ultimate male quality that trumps all is a man-hammer of equine proportions. There's too many fellas here who live a torturous delusion that keeps them from pursuing not only healthy relationship with women but also a healthy relationship with their own selves. One can only hope that they see the light ad wake up to reality, so they can truly enjoy life as it is meant to be.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

The problem is TT we men want to satisfy every woman out thier. With this silly notion we stab ourselves in the foot. It is not possible to satisfy every woman out there. So just the few send us into undue sadness. This is the price of sewing wild oats. Its that primative ignorant drive to copulate w/o punitive damage. But punitive damges shall and will come.