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Great thread...I do believe this to be true and mostly all the girls i've been with are "size queens",i'm only 6" at that. To be honest I never blamed a size queen for being that because its merely preference. It's the making men feel like they are not men part that I think is wrong done by some of them. Even still TTBB is right putting it first is a long shot, especially after a size queen has been in unsuccessful relationships with big dick guys. Though some take it so serious i've never got one horny and dropped my pants to be told hell no your average or small. They'll fuck, enjoy it and either deny sleeping with you or just say you have a nice size dick.

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NOOO not nice!!

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You can buy a strap-on in any size though.. and toys..

No that wasn't my point but since you brought it up.. you can buy dildos, vibrators and strap on's in pretty much any size including smaller sizes which points towards the fact woman are not size queens..IF we were then all toys would be plus size... and there would be no 3" dildos ..Most women also tend to buy toys that fall between 4"-6" if they buy a larger one its for novelty and not really for regular use.

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No that wasn't my point but since you brought it up.. you can buy dildos, vibrators and strap on's in pretty much any size including smaller sizes which points towards the fact woman are not size queens..IF we were then all toys would be plus size... and there would be no 3" dildos ..Most women also tend to buy toys that fall between 4"-6" if they buy a larger one its for novelty and not really for regular use.

Good point which prompted me to do a quick bit of internet research.
The worlds best selling vibrator (The rabbit) comes in a variety of different styles. Well we hear tales of massive vibrators, the key point to remember is that a lot of it stays on the outside. The hand needs to control it and most have buttons and switches to to enhance the experience. I have found the dimensions given for insertable length and circumference(girth) to be revealing.

The Best Seller
Jessica Rabbit Vibrator
Length - 9"
Insertable length - 5"
Circumference 5.5"

The G Spot Version of the best seller

Length - 8.9"
Insertable length - 4.5"
Circumference 3.9"

Finally the MR BIG version of the rabbit

Length - 10"
Insertable length - 6.25"
Circumference 4.6"

So if there are so many size queens who know what a massive cock really looks and feels like and desire this then surely there would be much higher sales of bigger vibrators. Most normal women are looking for a length and girth that some of us will measure up to or surpass and that 99% of the rest of us can confidently aspire to with dedicated PE.

We all seem to struggle to accept that size is not that important so hopefully this shows a better indication of true preference for women.
I also read some reviews where women tell other women to hygenically check their ideal dimensions before ordering. It turns out many are as way off the mark as we tend to believe. Many opted for the less popular bigger sizes when first buying and got more than they had bargained for. Turned out to be too big to use enjoyably!

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Yes, lots of vibes are bought as conversation pieceas too.

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Get you girl a Hitachi magic wand and she won't care if you're not breathing as long as you pay the electric bill! ( I think the damn thing runs on 220 volts!)

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Amiok no one thinks you are a dick .. i think everyone is just concerned about your views of the world and woman AND about your low confidence and body image.. WE just want you to find a happy medium within yourself and see that the size of your penis is not all you are.

OK, thanks. I'm trying to get better but its not easy. Being put down for pretty much my whole high school life by women has really damaged me.

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IF you want to focus on the few women who are Size Queens then you are poisoning the water you swim in .
IF you choose to believe all women want is a huge cock then you are shooting yourself in the foot….
IF you believe penis is all you have to offer a woman, then you are pretty much screwed…
IF you believe the size of your cock will make or break a relationship, then you will never have a successful relationship..
IF you believe all women are shallow and have no compassion then you should probably switch teams….
ALL Woman are not size queens, only a small percentage are and Most of those who claim to be size queens. Have probably never experience big penis

SIZE really is not important as long as your penis falls in the range of normal ie not a micro penis(and even with micros, love can over ride size)…What is important to women is how a man makes her feel and when I say how he makes her feel I don’t mean how the size of his cock feels in her pussy…I mean Emotionally and Mentally ..To make a woman feel good, you need to feel good about yourself.. So confidence in your ability and LOVE for yourself are the Keys to success .Good females are compassionate, we will forgive you if you struggle with these things as long as it doesn't control your mentality or your being.

The only time a woman will take issue with a mans penis is (and its not about your size)
IF You are dropping the ball in other areas in a relationship
IF there is resentment
IF you are unfaithful
OR
IF it was very casual encounter and she was just after sex and she didn’t like you that much to begin with. So she doesn't care about your feelings
IF she's out to ball break men to make herself feel better...If you keep running into woman like these last two then maybe you need to choose better and raise your standards...

IF women worried about their pussy having to be what is desirable by porn standards, then No one would not be having sex except for the people making the porn.. because what is marketed, as set standard is not reality.

I personally find it very disheartening how many seem to think women are size queens and the amount of importance you think we females place in penis size.. I have never chosen or left a man based on his penis size.

Everyone knows that it doesn't mean as much to women as we sometimes think, but it means a lot to us. Not just in the bedroom, either, but confidence in normal every day situations. My quality of life has drastically been decreased with this problem I'm having, and it's affected my relationship because of it.

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Everyone knows that it doesn't mean as much to women as we sometimes think, but it means a lot to us. Not just in the bedroom, either, but confidence in normal every day situations. My quality of life has drastically been decreased with this problem I'm having, and it's affected my relationship because of it.

IF its not important to females ...is it important to men because you all are caught in a huge pissing match? Too much ego is wrapped up in cock..its really not healthy
If the concerns you have about the size of your penis is effecting other areas of your life and your general confidence ... Then you are obsessing and focusing too much on it... LIFE is too short to let a short cock get in the way of enjoying it.

I think a lot of men use their penises as an excuse when woman leave them .. its men who believe their penis is too small because its an easy thing to focus on and blame.. it also gives men something to blame that is not in their control, there for puts all the blame on to the woman, she is flawed ..when in reality relationships breakdown for other reasons ..like the spark is gone ..the respect is gone.. the personality is gone.. the love is gone... not the penis was too small.

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TTBB - nice post. Very, very nice. thanks.

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Well said TTBB!!! ~

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I think what it is, is that "most" women are too nice to hurt a mans feeling. If size really didnt matter (infact size shouldn't matter but sadly it does) then none of us would be here. I prefer to have the truth. If i am bad in bed, tell me. If im not big enough for you, tell me and then go find somone who is larger. If I didn't make you orgasm or cum, tell me, don't fake it. I really wish all of us men were created with the same size penis, around 7 inches, then there would be no problems.

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I think what it is, is that "most" women are too nice to hurt a mans feeling. If size really didnt matter (infact size shouldn't matter but sadly it does) then none of us would be here. I prefer to have the truth. If i am bad in bed, tell me. If im not big enough for you, tell me and then go find somone who is larger. If I didn't make you orgasm or cum, tell me, don't fake it. I really wish all of us men were created with the same size penis, around 7 inches, then there would be no problems.

Exactly

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I think what it is, is that "most" women are too nice to hurt a mans feeling. If size really didnt matter (infact size shouldn't matter but sadly it does) then none of us would be here. I prefer to have the truth. If i am bad in bed, tell me. If im not big enough for you, tell me and then go find somone who is larger. If I didn't make you orgasm or cum, tell me, don't fake it. I really wish all of us men were created with the same size penis, around 7 inches, then there would be no problems.

IF by nice you mean compassionate and understanding then yes. If you mean nice, as in they aren't satisfied and saying nothing then you are only partially right ..Some woman will not express dissatisfaction with the sex because they don't want to wound a mans ego or its awkward to talk about .AND 90% of the time if there is a complaint about the sex its not about the size its about the passion or the technique or the lack of intimacy or its become mechanical and Its not about the size of the penis.. I do however totally agree woman shouldn't fake it because that just sets up bad habits, the man will think he was hitting the spot or found the way to heaven when in reality he is on the wrong path.

Size Matters to men, and often men transfer their feelings onto women.. just as woman do with their weight ie a woman feels fat and unattractive so there for her man must feel the same way .. he will say i think you are sexy, and she will say yeah right!.
A man will feel his penis is inadequate and A woman will say i love your cock and a man will Yeah right! It can be very frustrating for woman trying to convince their partners other wise because pretty much everything you gets turned around on her or turned into a negative...Even when you are paying a compliment it ends up being wrong or not good enough or perceived as a lie.

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IF its not important to females ...is it important to men because you all are caught in a huge pissing match? Too much ego is wrapped up in cock..its really not healthy
If the concerns you have about the size of your penis is effecting other areas of your life and your general confidence ... Then you are obsessing and focusing too much on it... LIFE is too short to let a short cock get in the way of enjoying it.

I think a lot of men use their penises as an excuse when woman leave them .. its men who believe their penis is too small because its an easy thing to focus on and blame.. it also gives men something to blame that is not in their control, there for puts all the blame on to the woman, she is flawed ..when in reality relationships breakdown for other reasons ..like the spark is gone ..the respect is gone.. the personality is gone.. the love is gone... not the penis was too small.

Great thread OP, but you are a woman. LOL. I hear women all the time talk about how much stock we put in dick size, but you guys just don't understand. You really don't. Let me ask you this: Do you know how it feels to walk around with at 6 inch clitoris? As a young boy, you slow dance with a girl with big boobs, and your shit gets harder than "times in '29." Your smoking hot teacher walks by and the next thing you're trying to do is put your book(s) over your crotch, trying to hide what nature has blessed/cursed you with. Hey, you ain't been with one single woman yet and don't know the emotional hell that'll bring because you don't know about premature ejaculation, or anything like that. Yet. But before you get there, you have to take your clothes off infront of other boys and you find yourself unconcisously comparing yourselves. You look at yours, peek at theirs, look back at yours, look at the other dudes, look back at yours, . . . feel me? LOL! Then you watch movies, listen to songs, read books, etc . . . and all the talk about is how big some dudes "love pole" was and how the heroine swooned at its sight. All this time your wondering, "Wow, what is this sex thing all about? I can't wait to get me some." So you get older, see and notice more beautiful women and become more conscisous of what this big 6" clitoris can do and how/what it reacts to. Then one day, the little girl from down the street decides to give you some play. No, not just some play. She decides to change you life. SHE decides that this is the day she loses HERself to you. She has decided that you will take her virginity and make her a woman. When you woke up that morning you had no idea this was gonna' happen. You've wanted it too. You've bragged to your boys about what you'd do. You've told yourself what you'd to. You fantasized about it. But like being in a gun battle, you don't know how you're gonna react until your in the middle of the "shit."
Well, now you're done. You had sex. You convinced a woman to give themselves to you. But it was nothing like you expected. It was "good," but nothing like you expected. It was different. It was weird 'cause you didn't really know what your were doing, really. Then, to top it off, you hear that your partner told everybody about it and she said you had a small wanger, you lasted maybe 2 minutes, and that you were a lousy lay. You've just opened yourself up to the world of performance anxiety. Now every woman looks at your like you damaged goods. You're a good guy, but some girl who decided to actually give you a shot has wronged you. Now every time you step up and take you time at bat, you hope you can perform, whatever the hell that means. You age, get older, have more experiences and realize that all this time you thought you were doing the nasty like professional you've seen in all thise movies, your significant other tells you hat shes' never really had an orgasm and that you've never satisfied her in all the years you've been together. As a matter of fact, she faked all those orgasms just to make YOU feel better.
See, I dig your thread. It was good. But it's from a females perspective. There are alot of hurt people out there hiding behind false bravado. Lots of men been hurt by women they loved who always seem to get that last dig in by saying "he had a small penis and he couldn't fuck."
Oh, by the way, how messed up is that the small clit you guys have doesn't have to carry the performance burden that ours do? It takes you guys, what, a minimum of 8 minutes to come with direct clitoral stimulation? But we have to make sure you guys are mentally in tune, you feel good about how you look in certain positions, how you look with the lights on, if we need to cut our whisker's cause were chaffing you when we're down there, etc . . . Us? Shit, just take your top off, give us a hand job, let us sitck it in for 90 seconds, and we're shooting like a Fourth of July fireworks display. God forbid we come to fast. You ever had a chick look at you after you just couldn't control it? It's as if you cheated on her or something.
Now tell me again that we put to much stock in dicksize.

Oh, did I cover the racial stereotypes?