gettin her to blow

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I don't mind blow jobs, but I am certainly not crazy about them in the same way some guys are.

Also, for some reason I like to be standing with the woman on her knees - God knows what warped power-play that is all about?

Sometimes you really have to wonder about your own desires.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I have never liked giving a man oral. I did it when I was in my 20's because I wanted to please him. The love of my life I swallowed him a few times because I loved him (I was 23). I have never swallowed again, or even do oral to orgasm! I give oral rarely. I don't like it. I don't like the gagging and discomfort. I don't like it mentally either. It turns me off. I can be horny and the guy will ask for oral and it's all gone.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I find that really sad, Misty. I just love oral sex and it's hard for me to imagine not liking it. I mean, I literally sit at my desk sometimes at work and dream about it.... fantasize about how much I want him in my mouth. When we are together, it's one of the first things I always want. But I suppose that part of that has to do with how much I lust after the particular man? I dunno.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I have never liked giving a man oral. I did it when I was in my 20's because I wanted to please him. The love of my life I swallowed him a few times because I loved him (I was 23). I have never swallowed again, or even do oral to orgasm! I give oral rarely. I don't like it. I don't like the gagging and discomfort. I don't like it mentally either. It turns me off. I can be horny and the guy will ask for oral and it's all gone.

This would explain your Avatar misty.

[blulite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blulite]

This would explain your Avatar misty.

lol yeah it does look a little dangerous to the male genetalia.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I found that my last girlfriend loved to give me head, I asked her once if I could cum in her mouth because I just wanted to know how it felt to do so. I told her she could spit it out if sg=he wanted and that I only wanted to do it once. Sh e said it was OK and she let me do it. She ended up swallowing and said it tasted weird. It was awsome and it felt amazing.
After that she started to swallow everytime. I was surprised by how she suddenly became an oral professional and loved to take all of me, every drop even going after I had came. Talk about trying to slide up the bed while making some weird ass noises. Long story shortened, She is now my wife and still loves it. I guess she found the way to keep me at home and happy.

[The Holy Intruder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Holy Intruder]

I don't know about anyone else, but I'm with Vulcan. I'm not crazy about blowjobs. I've been with an awful lot of ladies and used to get head from most of them but I quit trying because most women just aren't any damn good at it. I know I could just be unlucky, but two or three out of hundreds is pretty bad odds. Like I said, that's just me.

Oh well. Fucking is more fun anyway.

[beginning Member Find all posts View Profile Close beginning]

I love oral sex.....
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Wow. That was just. Wow! Haha, if ever I were to consider being bi-sexual, that post would probably push me the extra step.

I think it is good to not just think of oral sex as a means to orgasm. I love the feeling itself. The feeling of my dick inside my girlfriends mouth. Her soft, wet tongue. Her warm mouth. It's hard to describe the feeling that you get the second she puts her mouth over your glans. I can't help but make weird/odd noises at that exact moment, but she loves that hahah. Most of the time I just prefer to have oral without an orgasm, just because it feels that good. Plus, when I don't orgasm, that gives me the chance to do stuff with her. Starting out with just touching all over her body as she is giving me oral, feeling her soft, smooth skin under my fingers, it just turns me on even more. Then I can lead into surprising her, taking off her pants, laying her down and kissing every part of her body, head to toe...okay, you get the picture. I got a little distracted there for a second. Sorry to pull the thread off-topic

@Jazon, did you ever get around to talking to her any more about the current situation (not just oral, but sex in general)? I remember you saying that most European families stay at home until they are married, so privacy isn't something that you can easily find at this point in time. I would suggest something like a romantic dinner out somewhere, which could lead back to a hotel, which if you plan ahead of time you could set up with flowers/candles/etc. that could always be good. It doesn't have to lead to sex or anything like that, it could just be a nice evening together, where you have privacy to just be by yourselves, no family. (Not sure if that sounds cheesy, but with the privacy situation, just getting away from it all could be good). Anyone else's opinions on that? Good? Bad?

....while making some weird ass noises.

Hahah, thank god I'm not alone.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Dude, Batwoman is a lady! Still thinking about going bi (just palying)

[beginning Member Find all posts View Profile Close beginning]

Dude, Batwoman is a lady! Still thinking about going bi (just palying)

Hahah, I know, just the way she described it that was...wow. It seems like an art Although, granted, if it ever came to it, I don't think I'd be able to do it.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I know what you mean, about oral being an art that is. I love getting oral, I also love giving it to my wife. I would replace one meal a day with the foof for lunch if I worked closer to home. Maybe weightwatchers could slip that in their diet plan. It would work

[beginning Member Find all posts View Profile Close beginning]

I could see that working. Although it wouldn't work too well in my case since I'm trying to bulk up hah. I have heard a lot of people say the best diet is a sex diet though..

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

This would explain your Avatar misty.

That was very funny. I laughed. I never thought of that.

I find that really sad, Misty. I just love oral sex and it's hard for me to imagine not liking it. I mean, I literally sit at my desk sometimes at work and dream about it.... fantasize about how much I want him in my mouth. When we are together, it's one of the first things I always want. But I suppose that part of that has to do with how much I lust after the particular man? I dunno.

I suppose it would be sad to some. Sucking dick is the last thing I daydream about. I always hope a guy won't ask for it...never happens. But I honestly have a dry mouth problem due to my medication. That has gotten me out of giving oral MANY times. I also just tell the guy no thanks as well.
I don't feel I am missing anything. Like when I swallowed the love of my life those few times, it meant a fuck lot to me, but I doubt it did him. I was in my early 20's...young and dumb. I learned.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

That was very funny. I laughed. I never thought of that.



I suppose it would be sad to some. Sucking dick is the last thing I daydream about. I always hope a guy won't ask for it...never happens. But I honestly have a dry mouth problem due to my medication. That has gotten me out of giving oral MANY times. I also just tell the guy no thanks as well.
I don't feel I am missing anything. Like when I swallowed the love of my life those few times, it meant a fuck lot to me, but I doubt it did him. I was in my early 20's...young and dumb. I learned.

Hope you don't expect a guy that wants oral and you deny him to give you oral. That's dumb. And talking about women need it and men don't, silly also. You can finger a woman to get her ready for intercourse. Some men don't like oral and don't do it, just how some women don't like to give either, but not giving then expecting to get is stupid.

[KungFuJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close KungFuJoe]

I got it the other way around. My wife likes giving me blow jobs but doesn't like oral in return. Its actually a bad thing for me because I used to love giving my partners oral, but oh well.

I still remember this one girl I was barely seeing. We hadn't had sex yet nor even seen each other naked or anything. It was our second date and all we did was a little kissing the first time. We were parked on the street (in somewhat public view) and started making out pretty heavily. Next thing I know she's unzipping my pants and just goes to town. I have absolutely no problem cumming from oral so pretty soon I'm ready to go and I'm like, "where should I come?". She doesn't even bother responding and just keeps going, I end up blasting in her mouth and she swallows every last drop with a smile. That girl loved to give blow jobs and she swallowed everytime. Ahhh...the memories.