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This is a website that caters to men and so it stands to reason that the females here would have tailored or sympathetic opinions. I recently found a blog post by a sex-positive feminist who is against body image exploitation, supports gay rights, and has lesbian relationships who talks about her penis size preference in detail. Read the thing for yourself and the comments to get the 21st century female's perspective on penis size.
Morning… button? « Women Are From Mars
1. Penis size is a deal breaker. Not a preference, a deal breaker.
2. Rejecting a man based on physical attributes is empowering because it asserts female sexual needs.
3. Small penises are laughed at because otherwise they would be sad.
4. Doing other things is just not good enough.
5. There *are* different body types for women, but only one anonymous friend is mentioned as being all size friendly while all of the commenters agree with her.
6. Strap-ons are not good enough.
7. Lacking sexual satisfaction in penetration will dissolve all other benefits of the relationship eventually or cause cheating.
8. It's taboo to talk about, but not really anymore.
First, I'm not trying to be bitter. I don't want comments that try to demean her or try to bash her or her ideas.
I'm actually pretty sad reading this not for any perceived double standards or harsh and flippant judgements but because it essentially confirmed for me that penis size is an integral part of being a man and being a success or failure. If you define success as separate from children, family, intimate love, and relationships then that analogy doesn't apply, but if you value those things then it's clear that penis size is absolutely on the table.
Sure there are different body types and different personalities but the idea that a connection will be severed because of lack of maleness is profoundly disappointing. Not that I deserve every woman in the world to love me because that's not possible but rather that part of the journey is finding out what exactly you have when you drop your trousers.
Morning… button? « Women Are From Mars
1. Penis size is a deal breaker. Not a preference, a deal breaker.
2. Rejecting a man based on physical attributes is empowering because it asserts female sexual needs.
3. Small penises are laughed at because otherwise they would be sad.
4. Doing other things is just not good enough.
5. There *are* different body types for women, but only one anonymous friend is mentioned as being all size friendly while all of the commenters agree with her.
6. Strap-ons are not good enough.
7. Lacking sexual satisfaction in penetration will dissolve all other benefits of the relationship eventually or cause cheating.
8. It's taboo to talk about, but not really anymore.
First, I'm not trying to be bitter. I don't want comments that try to demean her or try to bash her or her ideas.
I'm actually pretty sad reading this not for any perceived double standards or harsh and flippant judgements but because it essentially confirmed for me that penis size is an integral part of being a man and being a success or failure. If you define success as separate from children, family, intimate love, and relationships then that analogy doesn't apply, but if you value those things then it's clear that penis size is absolutely on the table.
Sure there are different body types and different personalities but the idea that a connection will be severed because of lack of maleness is profoundly disappointing. Not that I deserve every woman in the world to love me because that's not possible but rather that part of the journey is finding out what exactly you have when you drop your trousers.
And I guess this turns into an evil circle pretty fast!
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