Woman don't all want big dicks!!! PROOF

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Great post thanks for another female perspective that shows what really matters!!!

[faithandhope Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close faithandhope]

But the size and shape of a partner's - or potential partner's - body is a big part of what makes her/him attractive, isn't it? Aren't you more likely to want to have sex with a woman with a hot body than one with a not-so-hot body?

Perhaps this is to do with the American thing where people still "date" for a while before having sex, which is kind of alien to British culture. Unless you're from a very religious or otherwise conservative background, here it's more common to casually get together with someone for sex and then, if it turns out you're compatible and you like each other, a relationship develops. It seems very old-fashioned to image a guy and a girl meeting, chatting, doing lots of hand-holding and kissing and drinking milkshakes together, then 'falling in love' and then deciding to get naked together - and if you like what you see then that's great, and it's not really what you'd hoped for then hey, it doesn't really matter because you're in luurve, right?

Also I find it bizarre that you consider a hot body more important on a one-night-stand than on a woman you're going to be in a relationship with for years or maybe the rest of your life! (If that's what you mean by 'real things', anyway.) Surely it's exactly the other way round?!

I know exactly what your saying, I'm really not disagreeing. I'm just saying that I wouldn't discriminate against someone over their physical appearance, and by saying that I hope we can all assume that this falls within reason. Clearly I can't just "fall in love" with someone hideous. I've only had 2 girlfriends in my life. Both of them, to me, were sexy as hell. And truthfully, I don't think I will ever have a not sexy girlfriend. You might be right, maybe my subconscious mind eliminates candidates for relationships right off the bat. Could very well be true. Only time will tell, really.

I prefer the whole dating thing BEFORE I have sex with a woman as well. But, this might have alot of basis on my past. In my past 2 relationships, each heavily involved for a year and a half, I was more than heartbroken when my "loves" were having sex within 2 weeks of us breaking up. It was just a shock to me. The thought of another female wasn't even in my head, so the betrayal I felt just seemed surreal. And I will be honest. I am co-dependent. I relied on both of those girls for 90%+ of the happiness in my life. I realize some of these traits are my deficiencies, but this may be the reason I tend to eliminate a girl off my "dating" list if she has sex with me after hanging out for a few times. I have trust issues as well. So if shes fucking me after the 3rd time we hangout, how many times has she fucked all of her guy friends along the line? Maybe thats just my way of "protecting" myself from that sort of betrayed feeling again

[372kid Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 372kid]

Would it make you shallow to care about a woman's tits?

Im not gonna judge a chick by her tits. Definitely not gonna date or not date a girl because of them (or lack thereof).

A lot of the girls I have talked to talk about size. Not to discredit the fact that size isnt everything, maybe I've just been around some very shallow women; but when you hear about how much size matters from 16 to 22, it has an effect on your outlook if you dont measure up. At this point, Im not even doing it for the girls. dudes with huger dicks than mine is, or may ever be, have been cheated on. Im pe'ing now for myself. Im unhappy with what I see in the mirror, and I have the means to change it. So im going to. I feel like that's the healthiest mindset any of us can have while doing this.

[EvilMelon Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close EvilMelon]

women are different and their different ideal. my old girlfriend gossip it to everyone included my friends about my small dick... it means she'd prefer a bigger one than mine

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Well, most of us already know this.

[Little Stanley Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Little Stanley]

women are different and their different ideal. my old girlfriend gossip it to everyone included my friends about my small dick... it means she'd prefer a bigger one than mine

Most likely she was an immature bitch. Some do that so to break you down and build themselves up. I've had it done to me when I was 6.5". If I had 8 it would have happened regardless. I bet she didn't mind it when you was giving it to her.

[Penis_172832 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Penis_172832]

I been with multiple girls before and I know the psychology of women. Women care about penis size but not in a way guys think. Girls prefer girth over length obviously but the penis size is overblown by us guys.

My friend has a 7 inch penis but his gf bragged to her other female friends that my friend has a 10 inch cock. They don't know the measurements very well and are known to exaggerate. Few days later when they broke up, she told her other friends that he had a 3 inch penis. LOL...

Women don't know half the time what they want.

Since guys with large penis are more likely to be confident, that is what women are attracted to. The confidence. Most guys cannot fake confidence that well though. Plus women care about what you can do for them at that situation and they care about how you make them feel.

This is why girls will go out with the most douchebag type of guys because it doesn't matter how asshole the guy is... if she feels good, carefree but safe with the guy she is going out with, that's all she cares about and that other things too like how society judges them and so forth.

They care what you can make them feel at that moment.

If you get 8 inch penis for example, you can easily add 1 inch and lie to a woman and she will believe you.

[beni123 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close beni123]

short women dont like large dick but they do love thick dick

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

short women dont like large dick but they do love thick dick

Women's physiology (height, weight, etc.), just like men's, vary ALL over the spectrum. Like men & their penis', women's height is no more of an indicator of vaginal size than eye color. Ethnicity / genetics plays a role, but overall stature has little to do with it within an ethnic group...Caucasion, African, American Indian, Asian, etc.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Old news. Figured this out 20 years ago

[faithandhope Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close faithandhope]

This was so long ago that I made this thread lol x)

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

This was so long ago that I made this thread lol x)

It was, glad you are still around