Is this girth still pleasurable or just painful?

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

I think we will be sharing and reading and posting about girth and length and what is good and what hurts forever. There is no way around it.....because as soon as someone dies of old age,,,,,someone else is born to take their place.....so there are ALWAYS going to be questions floating around. Ok,,,,now with that being said:

Most of us go to the mens room everyday. (I'm trying to put this nice)

WHen we go and do #2, everyone has their NORMAL bout with body functions. Now,,,,there is always that time when,,,,OOOOPS,,,,,what the hell did I eat!!! Instead of a normal "movement" we end up SHITTING A BOARD WITH NAILS!!!! Okay, do we feel pain and discomfort? Yes! Since I do NOT have a vagina, I can NEVER personally know how it feels to have a very very large member inserted into me. Although I do know that If it hurts to have that board with nails coming out of me,,,,,,,it can't feel any better GOING IN!!!

Okay,,,,,,so PORN and SEX sells......and I'm sure there are some pretty big paychecks out there. I might do some crazy stuff for a big buck figure too.

So what does one thing have to do with another you ask???? I don't know,,,,,,I'm only using logic and common sense. Just maybe it's hardwired into us to inflict as much pain as possible during "mating" as we can,,,and women grin and bear it. With so many BILLIONS of people on this earth, do ya think we could get a straight fargin answer and come to some sort of conclusion???

It's like saying: Can we cure ebola? Yes,,,but maybe no,,,,,depends on the weather,,,,,,,and what you had for lunch!! LOL

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I've seen multiple interviews of some, and Asia Carrera (sp) and Aska Akira both mentioned they prefer normal length and girth when not on screen, as they wouldn't want to deal with something that big on a day to day basis/in a relationship.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Vaginas vary in size as do penises. I believe that 80-90% of vaginas fall into the "average" size category as do penises. So 80-90% of women would be perfectly happy (no discomfort) and satisfied with an average size penis, and 80-90% of men would be perfectly satisfied with an average sized vagina.

When we start to talk about outliers it gets a bit more complicated. It becomes a matter of taste and physical tolerance. A woman with an average vagina may love the feeling of being "stretched" and would love to have an above average penis, while other women may find being stretched uncomfortable or painful. A woman with an above average vagina may need an above average penis to feel stimulated, or she may be perfectly happy with an average penis. It is all about personal preference.

Yet, the further you get from the average size the more issues you will encounter. When you get to 7+" girth you will encounter fewer women who will enjoy that size. The same applies to women. If the woman's vagina is very wide, she will find fewer men who will find it intercourse pleasurable due to the lack of friction he will feel. This is one of the reasons men want more girth and women want to be "tight". More well lubricated friction feels good to both the man and the woman...up to a point.

In the opposite direction, women with below average vaginas may find an average penis to be uncomfortable/painful or they may enjoy the feeling of being stretched. A man with a below average penis may perfectly happy with an average vagina. There would be more issues with below average vaginas and above average penises, and vice versa.

That was my rant for the day.

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

If , out of 10 000 women, you want to have sex with one or two, who may be ugly or/and jerks, then 7 inches is a brilliant idea.
If , out of 10 000 women, you want to have sex with 9 998 , then less is probably a better idea, and you would be rather unlucky not to find one that suits you .

[Eazygeezer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eazygeezer]

I'll be happy with 6" girth I think, only 1/2" to gain!
Im 4 months In and no girth yet but I think any higher than 6 is going to pose issues for the wife, and I don't want a "you're not coming anywhere near me with that!" situation

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

There must be a fine line between "feels good" and "too much". After I hit 5.75" I slept with 5 women. 4 of the five commented on my size (that I was big) the other didn't say anything at all (it turned out to be a strange awkward sexual situation...a one time thing). Yet, all of them seemed to enjoy the experience. I'm 6" MEG now and married. My wife goes back and forth with my size (when we were actually having sex regularly - which has stopped due to medical issues). Sometime she enjoyed it, and other times she complained it was too big.

Then again, I do realize that .25" in girth can make a huge difference in how it feels to a woman. Where as .25" of length may go unnoticed.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Evry one thinks that they need 6.5 but it is not true. My wife needs me to start slow at 6 inches, I can be at a bit above 6 on the best days and then she needs more lube.

She has long ago asked me not to pump in the late afternoons or evenings and makes it clear that when I am pumped ( above 6.25 ) it is not really all that pleasurable for her. She has said it hurts more than once.

This is a lady that is used to getting a 6 inch MEG on a regular basis so I am convinced that anything above 6 is more than most girls need, many could handle it but being able to handle it and enjoying it to the fullest are not the same thing.

I mostly pump now just to maintain, I am not seeking any more girth, as a matter of fact when I measure and am getting a consistent 6.25 I back off and let it get back to around six. I will only pump 2 or 3 times a week now and it is usually one set and to be honest it is mostly because I have enjoyed pumping since I started PE.

[In10 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close In10]

Not sure how a female can push out a 12”-14” circumference babies head + body and would have trouble accommodating even the thickest penis out there? I’m at 6”girth and have had comments on my size but none of the girls ever said they were in pain or discomfort. Never tried the backdoor so maybe that’s were the problem is?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Not sure how a female can push out a 12”-14” circumference babies head + body and would have trouble accommodating even the thickest penis out there? I’m at 6”girth and have had comments on my size but none of the girls ever said they were in pain or discomfort. Never tried the backdoor so maybe that’s were the problem is?

There's a lot of things that happen in a womans body to allow that. And being there for my child's birth, I can say that it wasn't a comfortable experience for her.

Again, it comes down to the particular woman, or at the least the man's ability to introduce that sizeable of a girth in an appropriate way.

So, if your partners haven't had an issue, that's likely a compliment to your skill. As for the backdoor, at that girth, it may even be more rare that it wouldn't cause discomfort.

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

Ow naw not that baby talk again!
If you want 9 months of foreplay everytime you attempt sex, then go on and grow that baby of yours.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Please, not the baby thing again. Did you ever see a woman enjoy child birth?

[downthere Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close downthere]

Please, not the baby thing again. Did you ever see a woman enjoy child birth?

A huge, emphatic, big, big, NO!!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Lol.

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

lol. Sometimes they poop though. Just another way childbirth is, hopefully, different from sex.

[In10 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close In10]

Sorry about the baby reference, but if you look at the physics of it, there’s no comparison. Even the largest penis, is just a fraction of that size. I think if a girl can’t accommodate a larger size she’s not warmed up.