huge load

[paulus Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close paulus]

My wife have problems with my load, everytime I came it was huge n sticky n she doesn't like it...she like it before when she wanted to have babies but now she afraid of getting pregnant n she doesn't like me using condoms or pills, she likes love making but the only thing stoping her now is my huge load. Sometime we didnt have sex for months....I have to `release` myself. Any suggestions?

[Jaewonlee Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jaewonlee]

Have you tried to have an unused mug by the bed? Just cum inside the mug when you withdraw from her. I also have a large load and it's not a bad compromise solution. 

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hmmm sure this isn't an excuse,

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Pull out and cumm in your hand? Or have her finish you on top and cum on yourself. That's such a weird reason not to have sex

[computerguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close computerguy]

I wish I had loads like that. As it is I keep some icing sugar mix in a turkey baster by the bed and make my wife close her eyes the rare time she wants me to release on her then I hose her down with that (not a true story) lol.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Sometimes, sperm come out with pre ejaculate not necessarily restricted to ejaculation alone, so the pull out method is not a safe contraception.

If you increase hydration your semen may get more diluted.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hmmm sure this isn't an excuse,

Doesn't like cum and doesn't like condoms and can't get used to either ,hmm sorry stuck on my first answer.

[elijohnson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close elijohnson]

In, or on? Or both?

If it's just in, you could try suggesting it really is good for the skin, and that's not just something men invented for the purposes of... I'm struggling to think of a reason. Lols? Showmanship? I've never understood why someone would stop fucking to finish with anything-that-isn't-fucking. But anyway. Look:

https://www.google.co.uk/webhp?sourc...d%20for%20skin

It's all over the place. So to speak. Moisturising, anti-aging... Hell you can get some as a spa treatment in New York for the low low price of 250 bucks. Sure it's a man-made*, refined version and whatnot, but still! Doesn't work for everyone though, so suggest she test a bit on her wrist. If you end up part of her beauty regimen I expect a present.


*not like that. Get your mind out of the gutter.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Bottom line is she can get pregnant with a small or large "load".....and pulling out won't prevent pregnancy either.

I'm with Peg on this one. I think there's other reasons she's not wanting to have sex with you. Maybe this is the new, "I have a headache!" excuse. <==and sex is great for headaches btw.

I'd suggest you sit down and talk with her about this.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

So sorry I agree with Peg. :-(

[paulus Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close paulus]

I dont know what to do....maybe the change of her hormones? Before we got married n after married she likes it very much, she even swallow it like eating yogurts..she would clean every drop of it. After our first baby everything change n even worse when my second child was born

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Women change when they become mommys. If she's in her 20's or early 30's maybe she can talk to some hip older women who have their raunchy side back. Not all women change but some do.

I doubt your load is that outrageous. She may have a negative attachment to the load. Post pardum or something.

If you can seek counseling. Softly let her know you miss "us" the two of you. Your romance. Try not to use YOU or I. Use WE US OUR.

Good luck. Xo

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I dont know what to do....maybe the change of her hormones? Before we got married n after married she likes it very much, she even swallow it like eating yogurts..she would clean every drop of it. After our first baby everything change n even worse when my second child was born

I don't know if it helps but this is common.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hey Paulus,

I have to agree with the other posters, this sounds like more of an excuse than a reason for avoiding sex. Yet, rather than make assumptions or attempt to guess the cause(s) - and drive yourself crazy in the process - pick a time when she is not preoccupied with something else and simply ask her if her sexual preferences have changed. Explain that you understand that this is normal after pregnancies but more importantly, what you can do to help.

[paulus Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close paulus]

I have talking to my wife about"our" problems and she did admit that she has somehow lost interest in sex and also very disgusted with my semen when I ejeculated...she say give her sometime to recover and she understand my needs. A the mean time she doest want any sex but she said she will give me a handjob once a week with condom. I told her if she doest feel like it doest force herself...but she told me she love me very much and this is the only thing that she can do for me at mean time. is this the only solution or is anyone out there got a better suggestions