Does a mans penis matter with social relationships

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Describe that seduction in more detail. At what point are you turning them to the wall and doing that? Just after they have taken clothes off?

I can't speak for him but in my experience generally that's done before any clothes come off. For me that's a cue that oh yeah this is going to be a very, very interesting time. I particularly love it when that's done and we're out somewhere - like maybe just walking to or from dinner and he'll pull me into an alley to push me against a wall and do things like that.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

That is true I admit

[AverageDude48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close AverageDude48]

Yes, ma'am!

I do it in the grocery store, I do it when we are walking along the Greenway (under a bridge, for example) , I do it at unexpected times. That is what keeps the women coming back. I ain't no Brad Pitt, that's for sure.

But....exactly....clothes are VERY MUCH still on at that point. It is part of the "you make me hawt and I wanna rip your clothes off right now and have my way with you" process [I really do not like thinking of this as a 'process'....that sounds so cold and First, Step 1 and then Step 2 followed by Step 3....totally not the case. I like - as I have mentioned many times - to make a woman cum in her mind before we have done anything sexual (defined by oral sex, finger sex, penetrative sex).....for me it is all about the connection and this is just part of that connection].

If you become stagnant and do the same thing all the time the lady of your dreams is going to get bored. If you don't let her know that you are a man and that she is a woman....the woman that you want to ravage....then she will go find the man that 'tells' her that. Remember, woman have egos as well. They like the same things that we like...well, conceptually.

Just do the unexpected every now and again. I am telling you....the whole 'push her up against the wall and kiss her passionately - especially if done in a semi-public place - will be very well received. Even if you "do it wrong", dude, you did it...you will get it next time (or the time after) and she is going to be putty in your hands. And, to be clear, that statement is not about you getting yours.....it is all about making the woman of your dreams feel exactly like that...the woman of your dreams! :-)

Gentlemen, go forth....find that wall! LOL! Ladies, be ready..... :-)

[AverageDude48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close AverageDude48]

You have game, man. I like your posts.

Describe that seduction in more detail. At what point are you turning them to the wall and doing that? Just after they have taken clothes off?

Someone should write a book just on such romantic gestures...a book that doesn't even have real sex in it, but just things like what you describe.

Thanks, man!

I don't know if I have game or not....but I do know what I like and I ain't shy. I go get what I want (um, not meant in a creepy or perverted way). I am 48, so have a few miles on me. Know what women like and make sure that they get it. Remember, I am a giver. I derive immense pleasure from giving pleasure.

Anyway, appreciate your kind comments.

And, can we get our collective act together, gentlemen, so that the ladies I meet don't tell me some of the things that they tell me. Would love to hear "Yeah, been there, done that....nothing new to me....love the way you do it, but nothing new" instead of what I do hear.

[nouedis Member Find all posts View Profile Close nouedis]

Women don't like/love bigger penises. They like/love the confidence and attitude it is you bring with you. Don't be cocky but don't be insecure. Know how to handle yourself.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Women don't like/love bigger penises.

Some of them sometimes sure do love just a thick long dick.

[psinstructor Member Find all posts View Profile Close psinstructor]

Hi there ladies, I jelqued a few times in the past and when I did I felt a lot of confidence after I had jelqued. It went away but i felt like my penis was stronger for a while. Ladies, does a big strong penis turn you on or is it the man that turns you on? Can a man with just an average penis turn you on or do you need a big strong penis to turn you on? Can a man with an average penis turn you on as much as a man with a big strong penis? Thank you very much.

I can't speak for everyone, but I get so turned on when a man shows off his penis. It doesn't matter whether it is average or large, the attitude of showing it off with your clothes is a real turn-on. I also love my man's big hanging balls and I compare and get so turned on by his and others that have them and show them off too!

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I can't speak for everyone, but I get so turned on when a man shows off his penis. It doesn't matter whether it is average or large, the attitude of showing it off with your clothes is a real turn-on. I also love my man's big hanging balls and I compare and get so turned on by his and others that have them and show them off too!

Although I don't try to show anything off really, I also don't try to hide anything. My stance is 90% will ignore not even look down there, and the 10% that will are largely looking down for a reason. I do wish I was about 2" longer soft, since that'd put the head further down my leg (less chafing and more to see should someone look).

[closed147 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed147]

Yeah, some mean woman who told me some things about what women like and it kind of messed me up.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Mean people suck. Listen to us nice guys. We got your back RJ, as long as possible, we got your back.

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

For me, the biggest turn on is confidence. Mind you... NOT arrogance. I know, that's a very thin line. :-)

Between the sheets, a larger penis does make some positions easier. So, that's definitely a bonus. However, I much more prefer a man who is skilled and giving, rather than just large. Size isn't everything and has never been a deal breaker for me.

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

Yeah, some mean woman who told me some things about what women like and it kind of messed me up.

Although some women are "size queens" (just like there are some men who only want women who are a size 0) -- and some are just downright cruel -- for the most part, we are looking for guys with more qualitative qualities. As I said before - confidence, along with kindness, humor, loyalty, and a general positive attitude are on the top of my attractive qualities.

[closed147 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed147]

Although some women are "size queens" (just like there are some men who only want women who are a size 0) -- and some are just downright cruel -- for the most part, we are looking for guys with more qualitative qualities. As I said before - confidence, along with kindness, humor, loyalty, and a general positive attitude are on the top of my attractive qualities.

[psinstructor Member Find all posts View Profile Close psinstructor]

[QUOTE=KMWylie;1143427]For me, the biggest turn on is confidence. Mind you... NOT arrogance. I know, that's a very thin line. :-)

Between the sheets, a larger penis does make some positions easier. So, that's definitely a bonus. However, I much more prefer a man who is skilled and giving, rather than just large. Size isn't everything and has never been a deal breaker for me.[/QUOTE Confidence is great, but BIG BALLS are a must. When a women has finished off your penis, she has something to play with if you have a BIG set. Then she can lick, suck and generally arouse you until your penis is ready to cum again. This is a huge addition in my opinion!

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Between the sheets, a larger penis does make some positions easier. So, that's definitely a bonus. However, I much more prefer a man who is skilled and giving, rather than just large. Size isn't everything and has never been a deal breaker for me.

That's why my stance has always been size matters, but skill and communication matters more. That said, if you can be skilled and know what your partner likes, and bring a huge one to the table...why not. lol