So one of the ex's of my gf

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

(One of the one night stands)

Was as she said, 11 inches. It destroyed me, I have no idea why, maybe cause iam half his size then?

She said it hurt her, didn't know if all went in she didn't look. He came in 5 min, glad he did she said.

After that she said she enjoys it with me, iam the only one ever she enjoys it with cause she never has had a relationship. I got stamina, I got control.

Just can't get the image out of my head where she sees this "monster" cock and her reaction.

One of her fantasies is also have sex on the balcony, and sex outside and stuff, I want that too but not with what I have now.

I said to her if I have a 20 cm cock (8inch) I would be happy, and we could do this.

Also thinking being uncut holds more growth back then being cut. I know this isn't true.

I just had to type this somewhere.

My mind is really strong, except for this, my only flaw.


Edit: no idea if iam in the right section lol

[hopefuldude1 Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude1]

Two things that stops the mind ticking away needlessly on stuff like this:

Firstly, women have NO idea of size/conception. What she claimed was 11 was probably more like 7 or 8 if that.

Secondly, women are very deceptive and liars. They often say it, and it's like they can't give you an inch (literally) and always have to make you wonder that there could be better and you should really appreciate what you have, or something.
And here's my personal experience.

I was with a girl last year that I'd picked up from the local gelato/ice-cream shop where she worked. Little hottie, very young 20, and a bit wild.

We had sex and I instantly knew how tight she was and that it was somewhat messy (I could only see so much as it was dark and in the shower, but there was definitely blood). I didn't make a big deal and knew what was happening.

I don't know how we got talking about it afterwards, but she was saying how I was bigger than she expected (I'm a lean and small-statured guy so even an average dick would look big on me, I'm a little bit over average). And then proceeded to say - for some unbeknown reason - that the last guy she dated was H U G E, like unbelievably big, yada yada. Just to make her sound worldly and wild and experienced or something I guess. A shit test of sorts? No idea.

But anyway, it turns out as I figured and learned through her friends eventually, that she was a virgin, I was her first, and she had made the whole giant penis thing up.

Women...

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Oh yes we get this type of post almost daily, the short of it is she is full of bs . you have to figure out if she is just clueless or playing a head game.

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

She just told me 11 inches was what the guy told her, I know she doesn't lie.

[Aang Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Aang]

That's what he told her but, did anyone really measure it? Think about it!

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Just can't get the image out of my head where she sees this "monster" cock and her reaction.

She told me: fear. lol

[ironaddict Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ironaddict]

About 1% of men are 8.5 in length. The chances of her getting with or even finding an 11 are pretty much 0. Thats only 2" short of a world record. Being that it was probably in the 7.5-9" range (if she didnt just make it up completely) you can get there eventually with enough time and effort so dont worry, instead get motivation from it.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Exactly. See bold below.

She just told me 11 inches was what the guy told her, I know she doesn't lie.

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

About 1% of men are 8.5 in length. The chances of her getting with or even finding an 11 are pretty much 0. Thats only 2" short of a world record. Being that it was probably in the 7.5-9" range (if she didnt just make it up completely) you can get there eventually with enough time and effort so dont worry, instead get motivation from it.

Exactly, my thoughts. I will get motivated, giving her the best sex she ever had.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Yeh, just forget about it. One can always get mind-fucked about how we compare to our partner's exes. "Oh, she is used to being whined and dinned but I am broke. Her ex was tall but I am short. her ex had a big dick, I don't. "

There are infinite things that can bother us about the exes! And the same goes for her too. Girls will get just as jealous or more so about your exes. My solution - never fucking ask or speak about them! That goes both ways too, don't mention your exes to her too. Just brush it off and say that that is in the past, both for you and her, and to concentrate on the future (cheesy or what ).

Exactly, my thoughts. I will get motivated, giving her the best sex she ever had.

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Yeh, just forget about it. One can always get mind-fucked about how we compare to our partner's exes. "Oh, she is used to being whined and dinned but I am broke. Her ex was tall but I am short. her ex had a big dick, I don't. "

There are infinite things that can bother us about the exes! And the same goes for her too. Girls will get just as jealous or more so about your exes. My solution - never fucking ask or speak about them! That goes both ways too, don't mention your exes to her too. Just brush it off and say that that is in the past, both for you and her, and to concentrate on the future (cheesy or what ).

Yes you are right, I've had 3 long relationships and she didn't have one. Gets fucked up about that, she thinks they all look way better than her.

And the fact that she is heavier than all of my exes, said that iam getting better at sex while she is staying on the same level.

And here iam whining about somebody's dick lol


Edit: Thanks guys you made me feel better, just needed to post this somewhere

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Haha, you have found your cause, reason, and solution in one right there! Insecurities will make people do and say silly things I bet she is just worried to bits about how she matches up. Just ditch the exes talk and concentrate on the now with her, do a mutual compromise to ditch ex-talk...concentrate on sex-talk instead

Yes you are right, I've had 3 long relationships and she didn't have one. Gets fucked up about that, she thinks they all look way better than her.

And the fact that she is heavier than all of my exes, said that iam getting better at sex while she is staying on the same level.

And here iam whining about somebody's dick lol

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

Haha, you have found your cause, reason, and solution in one right there! Insecurities will make people do and say silly things I bet she is just worried to bits about how she matches up. Just ditch the exes talk and concentrate on the now with her, do a mutual compromise to ditch ex-talk...concentrate on sex-talk instead

Hahah I will! But she wanted to hear the ex stories and stuff, she insisted. I sent her screenshots of what u guys said haha. Let's see how she reacts :P

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Yeh, girls will do that, but trust me that it is always better not to indulge their curiosity with stuff like that. Just the same way it is better not to indulge our curiosity about their exes!!!!

You sent her screenshots from this thread? Oh dear, that can't end well. Why did you do that?

Hahah I will! But she wanted to hear the ex stories and stuff, she insisted. I sent her screenshots of what u guys said haha. Let's see how she reacts :P

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

Yeh, girls will do that, but trust me that it is always better not to indulge their curiosity with stuff like that. Just the same way it is better not to indulge our curiosity about their exes!!!!

You sent her screenshots from this thread? Oh dear, that can't end well. Why did you do that?

Just the positive ones! lol nothing to worry about haha (hope not)