while there were many other factors that contributed to the relationships fail, I loved and lost a great woman over insecurities. Dude was a legit 9+" (24cm) I was close behind at 8.75 at the time, but his girth was close to 7" (18cm) and I was barely scratchin 5.5" ( 14cm ). Now really, at these sizes you're talking about a guy with a 1100whp Toyota Supra and a guy with a 1000whp Toyota Supra... You'll very rarely be able to put ALL of that "power" into action
This allowed me to be very skeptical of her whenever she would go missing for a while... She did go and spend some time with the guy one time and she told me that she did kiss him while there, a normal greeting in her culture, but that sent me into a tailspin. My jealousy and her subsequent secretiveness allowed us to fall apart...
I think if I just hadn't cared I would have been able to move beyond my jealousy... that taught me a valuable lesson though. I will never be the biggest a woman has had. While i know we weren't meant to be together, I tell you do NOT ruin a relationship over jealousy... let it be ruined because of something SHE did or just because you eventually realize you're not compatible. Never be the catalyst for your unhappiness.
I've been off and on with my current lady for the last 2 years. She originally started out by saying she's had a very large guy who just couldn't fit in her at all, and then guys who were so small she couldn't feel. The weirdest thing is she volunteered this information without provocation, but from my last messup, I was already prepared with the defense mechanism to the Ex's Size thing. I later found out that first... the guy who couldn't fit it in, was actually probably a good bit smaller than my girth (she's very tight at a resting state and this dude was trying to get inside of her without any prep or warm up. It's all but impossible for me to get inside of her (i've torn my skin trying) unless she's really really wet. Second, it came out, in a round about way, that she was extremely happy if just a little unhappy with my size. It is just a little on the too large side, but she puts up with it because everythng thing I bring to the relationship makes my penis a bonus...
when women talk about the dick is a bonus, they really mean it. If you enrich her life everywhere else, and you know how to work your penis, tongue and hands to the point she's cumming all the time with you, your dick is mostly just a toy for her to play with.
In useing that analogy with the correct proportions. You would actually be more like a 856 whp Toyota supra to his 1100 whp supra.
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