No blowjobs?

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Heya!

Have you guys met women who were not into giving blowjobs or completely against them?

For me it is kind of a deal breaker as far as sex.

Any reasons for a woman to be against giving blowjobs besides her not being good at that skill?

[BiggerIWant Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BiggerIWant]

IMO, this is a matter about both partners having pleasure with sex.

I mean, most women don't feel pleasure giving blowjob, except when they're horn.

I always do oral sex before, because I think it's fair receiving blowjob shortly after.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Heya!

Have you guys met women who were not into giving blowjobs or completely against them?

For me it is kind of a deal breaker as far as sex.

Any reasons for a woman to be against giving blowjobs besides her not being good at that skill?

Past experiences. Some girls may have had guys be too forceful or they were coughing up fur balls after ( get a haircut).

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

or they were coughing up fur balls after ( get a haircut).

Well for a girl to go down on a non-well-kept guy it's sorta her fault in the first place, and then for the guy - it's a lack of common sense...stupidity, really. Unfortunately, you see this more and more today - a fault both in men and women - a lack of 'sensible' hygiene - it's as if people are so primitive that they become stupid...and in reality; for those idiots who think not shaving makes them look more masculine; not taking care of oneself is not being 'alpha' or 'natty' - it's just plain dumb!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

This was common in my parents time but society moved on.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Any reasons for a woman to be against giving blowjobs besides her not being good at that skill?

Could be the girl's moral obligations or how she feels or thinks about the act....some are 'straight by the book' and do not like the 'deviant' standards of today's society. Interestingly - its less common today to find a girl who DOESN'T feel obligated towards giving blowjobs - but it also depends on the regions cultural phenomenon and that girls particular exposure.

There's more factors than just experience; everyone's mind is different.
I can look at someone who wears a black coat and say "hey that guy is wearing a black coat and its hot out, he must be nuts!" - others might go so far as to say "oh , he must be part of a mafia!" - same gist here.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

This was common in my parents time but society moved on.

That's for sure!

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

There are a couple of reasons why a woman may not want to give a blowjob.

1. The man's hygiene. This is probably more common a reason than guys know. Seriously, guys -- complete undercarriage cleaning, along with the penis -- every day. If you've been out in the heat, or at the gym, or sitting on a hot train during a commute -- shower again. Manscaping can help minimize odor and bacteria - https://www.pegym.com/articles/manscaping-scape-scape - but, you really just need to wash. And, here's another hint... use those flushable wipes they have now - especially if you're looking for some 69 action.

2. Cultural Taboo - Some women were simply raised to believe blowjobs were not appropriate.

3. Anxiety - Some women may be concerned that they won't do it right. Of course, it's not rocket science, and I think most guys are like - a bad blow job is better than no blow job. LOL So, this fear is really something, with encouragement, they can get over.

4. General squickiness - Some people are simply grossed out by oral sex (either way). Just like I'm really afraid of frogs - yes, for real. It's not necessarily a logical thing, but sometimes we can't control how we feel. Sometimes this squick factor can be overcome by better hygiene -- like oral sex right after a shared shower.

Either way, the first step in overcoming it is to talk to your partner. Find out why they're not interested in giving a blow job.

Believe it or not women DO get something from giving a blow job. First, there's the basic being able to please your partner that is satisfying. But, there's also the power aspect. When a woman embraces her sexuality, it can be an incredible aphrodesiac.

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Could it be also that some women are selfish in that sense they want a man to please them but do not want to do blowjob and such?

I find it important to keep the pubic area trimmed. I do not understand those guys who have a bush down there.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Could it be also that some women are selfish in that sense they want a man to please them but do not want to do blowjob and such?

I find it important to keep the pubic area trimmed. I do not understand those guys who have a bush down there.

Now we're talkin!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I'm with Kimberly, especially on point #1. Hygiene goes BOTH ways, btw! And let's face it, guys have a MUCH EASIER task of cleaning & polishing the "equipment" than women! It's just more accessible, so there's NO EXCUSE in not having yourself clean for your partner, especially when it comes to oral sex! I expect the same in return, so I've always stocked the necessities for my female guests to "freshen up" before sex time at my place, and I've never had one of them not take advantage of it either! It's not only considerate, it's a health issue!....and at the risk of a" TMI ALERT!"...that goes for a handy pre-mixed enema, too, if anal is on the agenda!

Manscaping is easy in the shower, and everybody has their preferences, but I've always favored a nicely trimmed "landing strip" on my ladies, and I keep my own bush trimmed back, while the shaft, balls and perineum are all clean shaven. Never had any complaints, either!

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

I've been turned down simply for being uncircumcised. But I'm not really into receiving blowjobs, so it's no big deal.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Face fawking

Letting her lick it/suck it like a lolipop

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

so there's NO EXCUSE in not having yourself clean for your partner, especially when it comes to oral sex! I expect the same in return, so I've always stocked the necessities for my female guests to "freshen up" before sex time at my place, and I've never had one of them not take advantage of it either! It's not only considerate, it's a health issue!....and at the risk of a" TMI ALERT!"...that goes for a handy pre-mixed enema, too, if anal is on the agenda!

Manscaping is easy in the shower, and everybody has their preferences, but I've always favored a nicely trimmed "landing strip" on my ladies, and I keep my own bush trimmed back, while the shaft, balls and perineum are all clean shaven. Never had any complaints, either!

It's not that complicated either, but hey! Trial and error for some guys I guess!

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Face fawking

Letting her lick it/suck it like a lolipop

Oh yea, they shall know thy drill!