Are there girls out into sport F*cking (no strings attached) FWB type sex?

[Frunobulax Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Frunobulax]

This is a questions for the ladies. I realize there is a wide range to different womens' sexuality, but I am interested if there are any girls out there that are into sex as a fun and enjoyable activity onto itself, with no commitments, like in a relationship. I knew someone who called it "sport fuck". Again, i realize some women would say thats being a slut or whatever, but there has got to be a percentage of girls that love sex as pure enjoyment. For me, there is much more excitement when two people get together just for sex. Then the sex is not a factor in some other bigger picture (commitment, relationship, where is this going, etc...). Also, please let me know how I could identify a girl who thinks that way and is open to hook-ups, spontaneous encounters, etc.. Your comments and opinions would be very helpful, so thanks in advance.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

FWB -- Friends with Benefits. I guess you could also be looking for a 'fuck buddy'...I really don't like that term nor that 'type'...as I'd only want to sleep with someone if I liked them as a person, and if I liked them as a person and we were sleeping together, then we'd be friends...with benefits. That said, I might be starting that with one soon, but only time will tell and things will develop how they develop.

As for finding out, at least from what I know, most girls who are open to this are very open to talk of sex...so it should be fairly easy to bring things up more directly vs covertly...since they don't really care as much about social norms.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

This is a questions for the ladies. I realize there is a wide range to different womens' sexuality, but I am interested if there are any girls out there that are into sex as a fun and enjoyable activity onto itself, with no commitments, like in a relationship. I knew someone who called it "sport fuck". Again, i realize some women would say thats being a slut or whatever, but there has got to be a percentage of girls that love sex as pure enjoyment. For me, there is much more excitement when two people get together just for sex. Then the sex is not a factor in some other bigger picture (commitment, relationship, where is this going, etc...).

I don't like the term "sport fucking", to me it has a very different mentality than a FWB situation. To me it's a mentality that belongs to someone that doesn't view their sexual partners as people but just as objects to be used basically for masturbating with a living being and then forgetting about them.

In contrast I do the FWB thing. I've had several FWB, often I have a few FWB situations at once. Do I get into relationships with them? Not with most of them. But there are commonalities with all of them. They're partners that I LIKE as people. That I'd want to just hang out with. There's no meeting random people, having sex, and then never seeing them again. I've done that - I don't find it satisfying.

Also, please let me know how I could identify a girl who thinks that way and is open to hook-ups, spontaneous encounters, etc.. Your comments and opinions would be very helpful, so thanks in advance.

Oh well that's easy - there's the secret handshake, the discrete lapel pin, they all wear the same brand of perfume. And of course the secret code phrase.

Go on Craigslist and post an ad, maybe you'll get lucky.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

^ too bad I can't like Q's post more than once.

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The problem here is the number of men into vs women into it.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

There's tons of girls who are looking for hook-ups and fuck buddies...not just on dating sites, but they pop in the bar quite often...and not necessarily only the 'drunk and disorderly' lmao!
It just takes a simple observation really - and it depends on where you intend to find girls into this.
You most likely won't find them in a Church, for example.

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Also, please let me know how I could identify a girl who thinks that way and is open to hook-ups, spontaneous encounters, etc.. Your comments and opinions would be very helpful, so thanks in advance.

Just look at their behavior, if they seem flexible and flirty you might have a match!

[Uk_sceptic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uk_sceptic]

Before I got with my now wife I had quite a few fuck buddies. It wasn't awkward in any way, we both knew what we wanted and we got it..... quite a few times. I had a few on the go at one point and would see three in one night (washing between of course) sometimes. We started out as friends as a group of us lads hung around with a group of girls and before you know it we were at it like rabbits. I think lads feel that they are under pressure to hold back on sexual content in front of girls but once you scratch the surface, girls like sex just as much as we do. Their just not as up front about it as we are.

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a TRUE FWB RELATIONSHIP IS BY FAR, a guy's best way to both learn and practice his budding sexuality, IMO. My first through about my 5th relationships were ALL FWB. A guy can easily build and develop his sexual knowledge, practice all kinds of positions, learn moves he might not have even thought about related to anatomy of a female and her reactions to specific sexual stimulation; plus, it will also build his & her confidence, without fear of ridicule or abandonment. You are after all, friends, so expectations are lowered, superior performance is not always "expected" and experimentation is not only appreciated, but encouraged, with the best FWB relationships! I'd suggest ALL guys have several, to experiment and learn the myriad ways different women can stimulate you, and you them! Just practice safe sex, be considerate & caring, but never cross the line into "relationship exclusivity". If you BOTH are honest & forthright with each other, FWB relationships work magically!

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

a TRUE FWB RELATIONSHIP IS BY FAR, a guy's best way to both learn and practice his budding sexuality, IMO. My first through about my 5th relationships were ALL FWB. A guy can easily build and develop his sexual knowledge, practice all kinds of positions, learn moves he might not have even thought about related to anatomy of a female and her reactions to specific sexual stimulation; plus, it will also build his & her confidence, without fear of ridicule or abandonment. You are after all, friends, so expectations are lowered, superior performance is not always "expected" and experimentation is not only appreciated, but encouraged, with the best FWB relationships! I'd suggest ALL guys have several, to experiment and learn the myriad ways different women can stimulate you, and you them! Just practice safe sex, be considerate & caring, but never cross the line into "relationship exclusivity". If you BOTH are honest & forthright with each other, FWB relationships work magically!

I'm starting to think along similar lines. I honestly don't have much experience for my age (early 30s), given a string of 'waiting for marriage' girlfriends, a lot of years single, and some girls who had almost no interest in sex at all. Given I still don't really 'want' a full-blown relationship (unless I suddenly met the girl of my dreams), a FWB situation seems a lot better than staying single and waiting for the 'right' girl to be in a serious relationship with.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

The problem with most women are many. First, you might try FWB, but once you make them orgasm or have good sex they want more. Or, they have mental issues and are probably slutty. I have no problem with women sleeping around if they are extremely attracted to the guy. But many sleep with guys for attention. Not all. But it seems really hard to be FWB without one or the other having feelings and wanting more. I think when you are older, it's easier to be FWB, but women in their 20s and 30s always seem to get hooked on me. I would lay out at.the beginning. This is all its gonna be. They say OK. A month later, "why dont you call me more." "Are you seeing someone else." Bla bla motherfucking bla.

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...women in their 20s and 30s always seem to get hooked on me...

Ain't life a bitch!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Funny as much as we think we're advanced we seem to revert back to being animals. Animals screw just for the sake of screwing with no though, no feeling, just sex. I thought with evolved humans it should just mean a bit more. I guess I'm old!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

I think when you are older, it's easier to be FWB, but women in their 20s and 30s always seem to get hooked on me. I would lay out at.the beginning. This is all its gonna be. They say OK. A month later, "why dont you call me more." "Are you seeing someone else." Bla bla motherfucking bla.

Give us older women a try. That's one of the reasons we go for the younger guys, because it's unlikely that they're going to be looking for an actual relationship with us. FWB, hanging out - fine. But rarely have I had one of the younger ones want to turn it into something more.

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There are a few out there but not that many unfortunately. I have been looking for a Nympho for years without any luck It seems like we never attract to each other. I would literally base my whole life on sex with her. It would be a constant pleasure life. I know is not for everyone but thats who I am and I am looking for a similar freak.

Also around 30 most girls develop sexual dysfunction. Its always the same "Im exhausted" "Im stressed" "Im tired" etc... in their early 20's you're like "baby give me a hj?" while driving and they don't hesitate. At 30 the answer is "here??" "now??" "maybe another time" I hate that shit.