Edging 101

[FranciscoChico Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FranciscoChico]

Thanks again, KP.

What's EQ?

[jayhawk11 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jayhawk11]

What's EQ?

EQ = Erection Quality. The quality of your erections

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

Edging Day 1 n 2

Hello My friends n moral support out there


This is miser, (one can look at my first post of sexual concern, if you need history info. Sexual Concern )
Well i started my Edging routine today.
Had a little workout in the morning in gym. started it at 9:15, as usual it took me a minute to be erect, before that it was totally placid.As said by kingpole i avoided, frenilum. And also avoided glans. Used both my hands, also avoided that vessel that is exactly underneath the penis all they way till opening.

Was nice when started, as soon as i realize that i will cum(felt it about 10 times atleast didnt count) stopped it and waited for a minute or two. Then repeated.

So when we say try to make it at least 30 mins is that 30 mins full of stroking or these breaks can also be counted ?

Later after 20 mins , it was not as erect as it was initially but still in effort to bring it erect i kept stroking.

Is that ok ? or should i shake it only when it is erect n stiff?

Then at 25mins or so i felt teh urge of passing urine, only then i realized that i had large cups of water one hour ago. And in order to overcome the urge of passing urine i stroked it very rapidly ...BUT... as u can expect .. i couldn't handle it anymore..and ejaculated @ 32nd minute.

Passed urine @ 36th minute

And should i count like how many times i felt like cumming ? in thsi entire span ?

Please let me know ur feedback. One thing for sure i will avoid drinking water from tomorrow.






Today (DAY 2)

Well i did it better todAY...
AT TEH END FELT A BIT SELFISH N THT OF EJACULATING BUT nO I DIDNT ...i controlled my emotionsssss
HURRAAAAAYYY

hAVE TO SEE

WHAT IAM THINKING IS I WILL DO THIS FOR 28 MORE DAYS AND THEN ON 31ST DAY I WILL TRY TO MASTURBATE (nO eDGING)
AND WILL SEE HOW HOW LONG I CAN LAST
vERY EAGERLY WAITING FOR THAT 31ST DAy

And by the by what is Erection TEA?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

30 minutes of sustaing an erecton is the goal. you don't have to be stroking your dick the entire time you can also play with your balls. Take a breather mess around with the glans a bit. Massage the corona and the meatus.

[Crushard Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Crushard]

30 minutes of sustaing an erecton is the goal. you don't have to be stroking your dick the entire time you can also play with your balls. Take a breather mess around with the glans a bit. Massage the corona and the meatus.

Should you make it last that long if you are a beginner (to edging) or would it be better for long term (consistent) gains to do something like 5 minutes one week, 10 minutes the next, so on and so fourth, reaching 30 minutes? If the latter, would you keep trying to go longer after or is it all about diminishing returns after 30 minutes?

Thanks, kingpole, for all of your advice on these forums!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Diminishing returns, hmmm let me think. I suppose it depends, on if you want to stud your woman till she squeals for mercy, then stud her some more.

[bodeen Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bodeen]

I have been trying the edging for about a couple of weeks, last time I did it for about 45 mins, then ejaculated at the end, looked like a volcano let loose, lol. But afterwards I found myself still erect and horny. I'm 46 and that hasn't happened in years. So to say the least I will be edging after my PE sessions. Thanks KP.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I have been trying the edging for about a couple of weeks, last time I did it for about 45 mins, then ejaculated at the end, looked like a volcano let loose, lol. But afterwards I found myself still erect and horny. I'm 46 and that hasn't happened in years. So to say the least I will be edging after my PE sessions. Thanks KP.

Yeah that happens!

[Crushard Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Crushard]

Diminishing returns, hmmm let me think. I suppose it depends, on if you want to stud your woman till she squeals for mercy, then stud her some more.

I'm not sure you understood my question. What i was saying was, that if you want to earn girth with this method (as well as the obvious stamina gains), would it be feasible to start off at such a high time or would it be better to build up to it? That way you get consistent gains instead of gain and then plateau and need to go and edge for an hour to see any more gains.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I'm not sure you understood my question. What i was saying was, that if you want to earn girth with this method (as well as the obvious stamina gains), would it be feasible to start off at such a high time or would it be better to build up to it? That way you get consistent gains instead of gain and then plateau and need to go and edge for an hour to see any more gains.

Well I did edging because I enjoyed it.
I would say the stamina gains are the main gain with edging, though I do think they help with PE.
I don't know if I would consider 5 or ten minutes edging anyway. Certainly 15 minutes is fair basic to say the least. If you want to be able to have sex for an hour, you should be able to edge for an hour. Work up to it over a few weeks if you want.
You are right in a sense, once you have done prolonged edging for a few years, only a minimal maintainance is needed.

[Saxmachine Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saxmachine]

Partial Circ Edging

Hi KP,

I'm partially circumcised, ie I have some foreskin that covers only the corona of my penis. I've lubed up and tried edging as you described a couple of times (stroking from the base up, but not to the frenulum) but after 30 minutes I usually come no closer to cumming than when I started. I can maintain the erection the whole time, but after that long I give up and start full stroking and I can get close to cumming and then back off multiple times. But I feel like I'm missing something here. I mean shouldn't just stroking without touching my frenulum get me off? It seems it doesn't or at least not after 30 mins. Any advice?

Thanks

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purpose of rules

Hi KP,

I'm partially circumcised, ie I have some foreskin that covers only the corona of my penis. I've lubed up and tried edging as you described a couple of times (stroking from the base up, but not to the frenulum) but after 30 minutes I usually come no closer to cumming than when I started. I can maintain the erection the whole time, but after that long I give up and start full stroking and I can get close to cumming and then back off multiple times. But I feel like I'm missing something here. I mean shouldn't just stroking without touching my frenulum get me off? It seems it doesn't or at least not after 30 mins. Any advice?

Thanks

I know you asked Kp, but I have 2 cents worth to put in. You all, can slap me around afterwards.

Many years ago(30?) just by myself ,I discovered I could wank for an extended period ,by geting close to the ponr and backing off.
After some time doing this ,I found I could go through the ponr and have dry orgasms. Now ,as there was no one around to tell me there was rules, I didn't follow any. So there I was quite happily stringing together multi dry orgasms, I found when I was with a girl I could go as long as I wanted and have many orgasms. During this period my dick also grew ,well I had never heard of pe ,so I figured I was just a late bloomer. Hell I touched my dick and balls all over as I pleased, got to my first orgasm as quick as I liked, came or not at the end as I pleased. Did I have a good time -hell yes, did I get increased sex control -hell yes, did my dick grow from it-well I now believe it did.
Fast forward to the recent times. I discover pe, while reading the forums I discover what I was doing is called edging. But I have beeen doing it all wrong these last 30 odd years. I did it standing , siting, laying, I touched my dick all wrong and I didn't relax my eyelids. Then some people get all huffy and upset when I question the necessary of these rules. Kp himself says he breaks them regularly. Should they be thought of as a guideline only? Perhaps what I am doing should have another name?

To me it is the result that counts. If these rules help people get to the result, then they have some purpose. Don't get me wrong ,they may be very helpfull to many people. But perhaps we should look at how helpfull they are in individual cases?

[Saxmachine Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saxmachine]

Point taken. Thanks Pegasus!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You are very welcome.
I hope to have added to the debate, in the general sense also.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I have combined ballooning, tantric masturbation and edging doing PE at the same time. I even commited the ultimate sin i mixe Coke with Pepsi. I agree with Pegesus. Rules are thier as guide lines. If you break these rules you will not get arrested.