Edging 101

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I'm going to try the Edging

You go boy.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I'm actually due to edge tonight been drinking erection tea on and off all day.

[jayhawk11 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jayhawk11]

I'm actually due to edge tonight been drinking erection tea on and off all day.

Same here. A cup with lunch and dinner. Then a cup before I exercise. It really gives me that extra EQ boost.

[D`Argo Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close D`Argo]

Hey guys,

So, I had my first experience edging yesterday. OK, it wasn't the first of my life, but definitely the first trying for 30 minutes worth and looking at it like a workout. Before now I would only get close a few times and then cum when i was trying to build a little stamina.

I never came close to coming and was only able to keep it up about 20 minutes. During that time I was mostly 100% hard, but there was a couple of times when I dropped down to about 70%. I probably spent about 5 minutes total in 70%.

I started with a light touch thumb and 3 fingers approach. My thumb just above the head on the back and my 3 fingers on the frenulim (I hadn't read this post before hand). This worked great until I started to go soft a little, so I switched to some astroglide and made it really wet with some water spashed in. I would then stroke full-handed from the base to the tip like simulated innercourse. This worked really great and carried me to the 20 minute mark where I lost my hardon completely and was unable to get it back.

I didn't edge at all the entire time (no porn). I'm thinking that my muscles just need to be conditioned for endurance and that will come with time. I have to break 50 kegels into sets or I lose the squeeze sensation, so I think that speaks volumes of my beginner status.

I'm really confident about this stuff working! I'm starting a log and will work on measurements later. I'm mostly going at PE for erection hardness and endurance, but a little more size wouldn't hurt.

[jayhawk11 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jayhawk11]

Good job on your first experience, I'm glad it went well. Yes, it does speak volumes as a beginner.

A progress log will very much on your journey. Keep us posted.

Jayhawk

[whatisit Member Find all posts View Profile Close whatisit]

It seems I have run into a little problem lately while edging. When I feel close to the PONR, I do a strong kegel. However, instead of stopping me from ejaculating, this seems to have the opposite effect and makes me cum faster, even if I stop stroking..not sure what it is I'm doing wrong. I had been doing this method for a few months and was working fine, but last 2 weeks I have run into this problem? Maybe I have fallen into a bad habit and doing the kegel wrong? But I can't feel any difference from what I was doing before..any ideas?

[jayhawk11 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jayhawk11]

I'm not really sure. I think that I have the same problem too.

When I stop stimulating, even after a few seconds I have a really intense orgasm, followed by an ejaculation. I really don't know what to do. Hopefully someone else will chime in and help us out.

[Eyes2TheSkies Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eyes2TheSkies]

This may sound a bit weird, but instead of using your hand to edge why not use a ....sex toy? lol.
I mean, I don't own one, haha, but they do have one of those. The reason why I'm asking if its alright to use a toy is because some people may not know how to edge properly and it may affect their gains. For example, gripping the penis too tight, placing too much pressure on one particular area (that's actually how I got a bend on my penis). I think using something like a Fleshlight might be helpful, since you're actually sticking your penis into a rubber vagina. And that will get you hornier than your hand will.

Any thoughts?

If it's okay, I actually would be willing to drop some cash on that toy.

[Keido Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Keido]

I think the idea behind using your hand is it's easier to control the pressure/pleasure in your penis. Fleshlight's got a sleeve named the "Stamina Training Unit" though, that is made actually for edging practice (supposedly it's set up in such a way that you can control your ejaculation better, I don't know if this is actually the case). I don't see why using a toy would be detrimental though, but I'm not really an edging expert. I think as long as you can control your ejaculation with the toy it should be fine. Probably more fun too, come to think of it.

Legends Gym

^ web site for the Fleshlight STU practice.

[PESG Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PESG]

I'm not going to lie: I have often considered buying a fleshlight. Everything I have heard about them has been positive.

I could see where it would be a good edging tool. It wouldn't replace a vagina, but it might replace a hand. I'm considering again, lol.

[Eyes2TheSkies Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eyes2TheSkies]

Yeah, I think I'm gonna get it. Using your hand can cause injury lol. Obviously, having a fake vagina will provide better feeling and more realism when approaching the act of sex. In other words, edging will be more challenging when using a fleshlight than using your hand.

[Keido Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Keido]

I don't recommend the ID lube that they sell. I haven't tried it, but MAXIMUS (Maximus Personal Lubricant 250ml) is supposed to be anti-bacterial, which may help with the Fleshlight clean-up. It looks like Liquid Silk too, which I've tried and really enjoyed. I'm going to order a bottle of MAXIMUS and test it out myself sometime.

[D`Argo Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close D`Argo]

I'm not going to lie: I have often considered buying a fleshlight. Everything I have heard about them has been positive.

I could see where it would be a good edging tool. It wouldn't replace a vagina, but it might replace a hand. I'm considering again, lol.

I personally wouldn't recommend it AT ALL! I bought one about 5 years ago, and it was one of the suckiest things I've ever stuck Henry into. The material that it is made out of just feels nasty and is a turn-off by itself. You have to heat it up in a bath of hot water for a while unless you have a necro fetish. The plastic then gets REALLY sticky, so you have to use a lot of lube. That makes it make a lot of noise while you're using it.

In the end you have this sticky and noisy thing that you're trying to imagine is the real thing, but it's just not working. Don't forget about the cleanup afterwards. I'd rather use my hand. I wound up giving my old fleshlight to my roommate (just kidding).

[Eyes2TheSkies Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eyes2TheSkies]

just pretend the sticky noise you hear is you giving backshots to a girl. after all, you do hear similar noise

[PESG Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PESG]

just pretend the sticky noise you hear is you giving backshots to a girl. after all, you do hear similar noise

Hell Yes!