Addicted to masturbation

[giantsrule Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close giantsrule]

did you read how i beat ed? did you read about the part of using a cock ring? have you tried that?

no. I don't want to go down that road yet. ive thought about it though

[giantsrule Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close giantsrule]

You can fix it whether it's physical or mental; you do have the power. Do you want to use it or just waste away?

ok, so where do I start then?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

where did you come up with that? I like the cumming 3 times a week part haha even if I stick with the 90 day thing getting an erection and not cumming might not be a bad idea

I yanked it out of thin air. The dick needs fresh blood every so often, so why not get erections every so often? If you keep your dick in a flaccid state for so long, it will get used to being in that state. If you don't use it, you lose it, eh?

[VoodooChild Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VoodooChild]

ok, so where do I start then?

Man oh man how many times are you going to ask this question before you start listening to some of the advice that has been given here on your thread??? There have been numerous posts by many people giving you some real input with things you can start to do for yourself. You don't like the answers though because they require effort beyond negativity. They require a positive outlook and determination. You will have to find those two things on you own before anybody can help you.

Seriously man. There are a lot of things you can be doing that have been shared right here on the forum, but you are dismissing them out of some kind of fearful ego trip. You gotta give it up. Start moving past that part of yourself and you will start seeing some light in the distance. Be strong my friend. Be fucking endlessly strong. That will manifest itself in your physical reality, and you will begin to heal bit by bit. The human body and spirit is capable of some truly unbelievable miracles. But you have to believe it first.

This healing process will be more than a trip to the doctor. It will be a spiritual trip because you harness a lot of anger toward yourself. I did too. Anybody in our shoes would. I didn't even know it though and you probably don't either. You have to forgive yourself and start loving yourself instead of constantly being a defeatist.

I really do hope you the best.

Voodoo

[giantsrule Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close giantsrule]

Man oh man how many times are you going to ask this question before you start listening to some of the advice that has been given here on your thread??? There have been numerous posts by many people giving you some real input with things you can start to do for yourself. You don't like the answers though because they require effort beyond negativity. They require a positive outlook and determination. You will have to find those two things on you own before anybody can help you.

Seriously man. There are a lot of things you can be doing that have been shared right here on the forum, but you are dismissing them out of some kind of fearful ego trip. You gotta give it up. Start moving past that part of yourself and you will start seeing some light in the distance. Be strong my friend. Be fucking endlessly strong. That will manifest itself in your physical reality, and you will begin to heal bit by bit. The human body and spirit is capable of some truly unbelievable miracles. But you have to believe it first.

This healing process will be more than a trip to the doctor. It will be a spiritual trip because you harness a lot of anger toward yourself. I did too. Anybody in our shoes would. I didn't even know it though and you probably don't either. You have to forgive yourself and start loving yourself instead of constantly being a defeatist.

I really do hope you the best.

Voodoo

I've gotten a lot if advice I was just wondering what he thought personally. I agree with you though. I'm trying to work on my attitude. if it is physically possible to fix it ill do anything. even if it meant not touching for 6 months

[VoodooChild Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VoodooChild]

I've gotten a lot if advice I was just wondering what he thought personally. I agree with you though. I'm trying to work on my attitude. if it is physically possible to fix it ill do anything. even if it meant not touching for 6 months

That's good to hear man...glad you're working on the mental aspect. Good luck with moving forward. Don't give up.

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Any updates?

[UKGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UKGuy]

I am interested too it would be great to hear more success stories on the ED forum. Me and him have similar experiences and I even told me dad about my PE injuries like he did.

If Giantsrule is reading this you could try pelvic floor relaxation (reverse kegels) it may not work but give them a go me and others here have had improvements practicing them. Also with not masturbating I find my libido is dead in the water if I don't wank for long peroids of time and even think my erections get worse. Honestly most guys can get away with not masturbating or having sex for long periods because they probably get regular morning wood and/or at night and spontaneously. Those of us with some kind of injury need to get erections often probably more than most men because if you're not getting strong morning wood in the mornings, night or spontaneously erections can and likely will get weaker. If anything will should masturbate more to keep blood flowing down there and to avoid possible shrinkage.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Easy to go a year when your wife is supportive :-)

[VoodooChild Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VoodooChild]

I am interested too it would be great to hear more success stories on the ED forum. Me and him have similar experiences and I even told me dad about my PE injuries like he did.

If Giantsrule is reading this you could try pelvic floor relaxation (reverse kegels) it may not work but give them a go me and others here have had improvements practicing them. Also with not masturbating I find my libido is dead in the water if I don't wank for long peroids of time and even think my erections get worse. Honestly most guys can get away with not masturbating or having sex for long periods because they probably get regular morning wood and/or at night and spontaneously. Those of us with some kind of injury need to get erections often probably more than most men because if you're not getting strong morning wood in the mornings, night or spontaneously erections can and likely will get weaker. If anything will should masturbate more to keep blood flowing down there and to avoid possible shrinkage.

Hey UKGuy, you don't use porn to masturbate/get erections do you? If so, you are most likely not going to heal completely.

Also, masturbating more if you have an injury is definitely not the way to go. Seriously man. I've had peyronies disease since I was 13 and up until about 3 months ago, I continued masturbating as I so desired and nothing ever got any better. It was not until I changed my perspective on the situation that I actually began to heal. And yes, now after going through 6 weeks of successful abstinence, I can tell you, it was the best erection I'd had since I was 13...I didn't make it 90 days, but even 45 days proved to me that this is the way to go. I have since continued with my abstinence commitment and my penis continues to heal.

Now, does your penis need proper blood flow and regular erections to be healthy? Absolutely. But, forcing erections just because you have an injury is not necessarily what your penis needs.

My plan:
-abstinence unless the opportunity for real sex arises
-supplements (l-arginine, coq10, multivitamin, garlic, ginseng, ginger root, green tea, gingko biloba, Pentox 400mg, fish oil)
-extremely healthy diet (water water water! TONS OF FRESH VEGETABLES EVERY DAY! Daily fruit. Whole grains. Low meat intake. I eat 2 eggs a day. Low cheese/dairy intake. Vegetable juice. small portion of 85% dark chocolate daily) which means you gotta cook at home
-regular exercise of some kind/busy schedule to keep from falling into depression
-A healthy mindset and psychological state is an absolute must! Otherwise, you most likely will not do all these things. You will make excuses left and right for why it's not that important. Unfortunately, that is only going to set you back. So really, that's the first hurdle you must overcome and continue to confront as you find yourself becoming weak. The further you get into it, the more you realize you are forming habits that benefit you in other areas of life as well.
-kegal routines to balance and strengthen pelvic floor

If you go this route, you will find that you are getting better blood flow from the supplements and healthy diet/exercise plus more and more natural erections (from abstinence). This is the combination I believe will fully heal your penis in the long run. It is not an overnight miracle but it very much is a miracle. I'm not completely healed yet so I can't say for sure that it will return you to 100%, but in due time I will be able to report. My improvements thus far though are continuing to support my theory. It's really just logic honestly.

Hope that helps some man. I'd love to discuss further on my thread if you'd like to check it out.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penile-...-battle-2.html

[giantsrule Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close giantsrule]

glad to hear its working man. I cracked and havnt gotten back on it since. im trying to get help with my depression but it seems like its worse. im scared to try because it wont work but if I don't ill just obsess for it anyways. I don't think this will work for me because im really convinced I have venous leak.

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glad to hear its working man. I cracked and havnt gotten back on it since. im trying to get help with my depression but it seems like its worse. im scared to try because it wont work but if I don't ill just obsess for it anyways. I don't think this will work for me because im really convinced I have venous leak.

No offense, but you have been going through this self torture routine for quite awhile now. You're looking for solutions to issues that cannot be resolved with the particular questions that you're asking.

Perhaps you should step away from the idea of PE for awhile and focus solely on your confidence and mental/emotional well being right now. Once you improve in that area you can come back here with a more healthy mindset. I'm not a doctor, so nothing that I say should be construed as medical advice, but your issues appear deeper than anything you'd resolve here.

[giantsrule Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close giantsrule]

No offense, but you have been going through this self torture routine for quite awhile now. You're looking for solutions to issues that cannot be resolved with the particular questions that you're asking.

Perhaps you should step away from the idea of PE for awhile and focus solely on your confidence and mental/emotional well being right now. Once you improve in that area you can come back here with a more healthy mindset. I'm not a doctor, so nothing that I say should be construed as medical advice, but your issues appear deeper than anything you'd resolve here.

I never had confidence or well being problems until it stopped working in 06. the small penis thing or girls laughing at it since im 6'4 with a big build didn't help either.

im going to a therapist and it hasn't done crap. I also might get a restraining order against me for trying to do what people here said and just have sex and see what happens. the girl laughed when she saw It was small and it didn't even get very hard. I threatned her and now on top of therapy everyday I might have to be insitutuionalized. hows that for a step forward.

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I never had confidence or well being problems until it stopped working in 06. the small penis thing or girls laughing at it since im 6'4 with a big build didn't help either.

im going to a therapist and it hasn't done crap. I also might get a restraining order against me for trying to do what people here said and just have sex and see what happens. the girl laughed when she saw It was small and it didn't even get very hard. I threatned her and now on top of therapy everyday I might have to be insitutuionalized. hows that for a step forward.

Again, you need the correct answers first.

From your posts, it appears that you A) have convinced yourself that you have venous leak (which may not be the case), and B) that there's nothing short of implants that you can do to resolve it (which is incorrect). Have you gotten a full checkup done on your penis yet to determine just what might be wrong? Until then, just what are you hoping to find here by posting your messages?

Just from the increasingly despairing tone of your posts, it's clear that even the idea of sex isn't something that you're doing for emotional bonding or even for pleasure. I'm no licensed therapist, but if you're having sex merely to test your abilities, you're already putting too much pressure on yourself from the start (performance anxiety). How is having indiscriminate sex going to help you- especially when you "hook up" with people who don't have your best interests at heart. If you see sex, masturbation, and even the task of obtaining erections as something stressful, then there is very likely an emotional component to your problem.

There are many men who have been in your position- and worse. The ones who were able to correct their problems did so only by taking charge of their lives. I understand your pain, but your reveling in self pity and negativity WILL NOT make things better! You have to stop seeing yourself as someone deserving of negative things, and above all you have to stop being afraid!

You really need to get some distance from all of this for awhile.

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