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I am afraid that maybe I got venous leak... just found out about that condition.

Until you get an actual diagnosis - don't assume you have anything.

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Woke up with a morning wood and tested... when lying on my back/side/belly I keep erection (was doing kegels to make sure I keep it longer) but as soon as I stand up, I start to lose it very fast (even with kegels).

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There supplements are awsome!!
(last 3 days added shilajit and fenugreek)

I just touch myself on penis accidentally and I feel blood starting to come. To get erection I just need to touch some more..
I can keep good erection when stimulating for ~15 minutes and then it starts to fall.. maybe because I'm thinking too much about random life stuff and I'm not very imaginative.
Also, in some moments (specially if balooning) I feel alot of preassure, yesterday even some pain... so much blood coming hehehe

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Little update..

My libido is still not how I want it to be but now I'm pretty sure that problem is depresion and stress.
I am doing start-stop and edging almost every day (no porn) for ~25 minutes. Erection is pretty good but I must stimulate with hand all the time and not think about nonsexual stuff .
Since I've had problems with erection standing up, last 2 days I've started to masturbate/edging standing but I must be close to PONR all the time or else I lose erection. Hopefully after some time I will have good erection even when standing... or not?

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Last 2 days I've had best erections in my life! Glans bigger then ever.
I am not sure why exactly.. maybe it's all of the supplements + porn (after 6 weeks or so) or it's L-arginine which I'm using for the past several days.. + some kegels.
I guess it's everything.

Problem is that I'm too sensitive and come to PONR too fast.. not sure is it because of porn or because my erection is so good.
Still losing it faster then I want (specialy when standing) but overall I'm very satasfied. Looking forward to some sex.

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So, after typing about these good erections, had problems again. Got nervous and decided to go to the urologist. ED is not my only problem. I have urinary problems also. Here is the list of my symptoms:

1. No sex drive... very rarely gets horny.

2. Harder getting erection unless really aroused. Glans is kinda slowly filling up with blood. Losing erection when standing up (need to be close to PONR to keep it up). Even when sitting, need manual stimulation all the time or erection starts to fade.When erection starts to fade, it's usually glans that becomes smaller and deflated.

3. No morning wood. Have nocturnal erections but as soon as I wake up, I start to lose it. Even with nocturnal erections, glans is not like it used to be.

4. Firm flaccid. When I'm concentrated to keep my pelvic floor relaxed (I guess some kind of reverse kegel), everything is fine. But by default, my pelvic floor is tense which results in firm/turtled flaccid which doesn't hang so all the time I must think of being relaxed in that region. I have these problems most of the time (work, training, tense movie, talking with other people etc.)
When I do nonerected kegels, problem gets worse.

5. Urinary problems. I go piss very often and soon after finishing, I feel like I need to go again.

6. Less ejaculation volume and not squirt but dribble.

So, after inspecting me (I had painful to touch prostate) urologist told me to make these tests:

- hormones (DHEA, prolaktin, testosterone) -> everything is fine
- prostate ultrasound -> he wrote: "prostate diffuse spotting inhomogen, changes correspond to a fresh inflamation" but he said that I have small prostate so that is strange I guess (since I thought inflamation = bigger prostate)
- Uro flow - not how it should be and seems I don't empty bladder
- ejaculation culture (waiting for results)
- test to chlamydia, ureaplasma+mycoplasma (waiting results)

I don't think bacteries would make these ED problems.
As the time pass by I think main problem is tense pelvic floor which is a result of anxiety... but I think I will make some doppler test just to be sure.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Are you a heavy porn user or on any medications?

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Are you a heavy porn user or on any medications?

Nope. Actually, I've had a long period (~1.5 years) of no libido which resulted in only masturbating once a week or maybe even less often (with porn). Didn't use any medication.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Nope. Actually, I've had a long period (~1.5 years) of no libido which resulted in only masturbating once a week or maybe even less often (with porn). Didn't use any medication.

Maybe you have a naturally lower sex drive.

How do you feel about your sex drive?

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Maybe you have a naturally lower sex drive.

How do you feel about your sex drive?

Now, my sex drive is bad but few years ago it was good (I guess lower then other males but I had it... I think it was lower due to my social anxiety. When I would be alone with GF that was hot and I'm relaxed with, sex drive was good).

But what does naturally lower sex drive means?? (since testosterone and other hormone levels are normal)

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Now, my sex drive is bad but few years ago it was good (I guess lower then other males but I had it... I think it was lower due to my social anxiety. When I would be alone with GF that was hot and I'm relaxed with, sex drive was good).

But what does naturally lower sex drive means?? (since testosterone and other hormone levels are normal)

It means you don't desire to have sex as often as other men. Not everyone has the same level of sex drive.

It has nothing to do with hormones or low testosterone, because you can get erections and have sex or masturbate. The main difference with a lower sex drive is that you don't want sex very often. Masturbation excluded, you can get aroused and have sex if you wanted to but you just don't wan't to.

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Well, I thought level of sex drive depends on hormones (and head ofcourse -> depression, anxiety, happiness etc..)

Ok, I can accept that I don't get aroused spontaneously but I think I should get aroused when surfing/watching movies etc. and some nude female is on the screen... but most of the time, I'm indifferent.
I get aroused if I see really good looking vagina, hot girl with stockings etc...

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Well, I thought level of sex drive depends on hormones (and head ofcourse -> depression, anxiety, happiness etc..)

Ok, I can accept that I don't get aroused spontaneously but I think I should get aroused when surfing/watching movies etc. and some nude female is on the screen... but most of the time, I'm indifferent.
I get aroused if I see really good looking vagina, hot girl with stockings etc...

It sounds like fantasy desensitization - you are ''indifferent'' because ONE scenario or type of Girl 'meets you at your core' and so , therefore, no other ordinary nude picture will do..because you are addicted to 'that type'.

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Got test results.
I have more then 10^4 ureaplasma+mycoplasma both so I will need a treatmant. Didn't speak with my urologist yet.

So, I guess my urinary problems are because of U+M but what about ED? Is it possible that those bacteries are cause of ED? Maybe they did something to my pelvic floor?
I have urinary problems for several years... always thought it's my anxiety.

EDIT:
I am reading.. some of the symptoms may be IBS and insomnia which I also have problems with.
Omg now I am happy that maybe I will fix everything when I get rid of those bacteries.

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Is there any good health forum I could get some more info?