I need help guys (ED getting worse)

[UKGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UKGuy]

Well I have doing kegels which has been suggested here, I have been doing them every other day for the past few weeks and they certainly work (but I have experimented with them before), so I'm going to keep them up I already notice better head sensitivety, my erection is stronger than usual and the shaft at least will stay hard on it's on. Also I feel a bit more horny than usual, my orgasm feels more intense when I cum. My urine stream has more force to it as well hmm.. weaker erection and weak urine stream could they be related to the PC muscle? I still have a problem with the glans though they reach almost full size with stimulation but the head soon deflates where my shaft remains solid, it's annoying and I wish I knew how to fix it.

Also what I don't understand is why is that when I stop doing the kegels after a day or so my erections lasting ability and strength is back to how it was before (eg a bit weaker, hard to stay up without near constant stimulation). That's annoying too.

At least kegels are working though. I am wondering actually the weaker erection, weak urine stream, weaker orgasm these all seem to improve from kegels so do guys think it may just be down to some PC muscle dysfunction? It's weird.

I have also read that losing your erection quickly and weaker erections may just be due to not enough blood flow. So in my case the increased blood flow from doing kegels definitely gives me better erections.

[UKGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UKGuy]

Low libido and ED (lifeless penis) is there a connection?

Hi guys so a few here will know I have some real erections problems (probably Venous Leakage) which I got from performing penis exercises incorrectly (roughly 7 years ago) and my dick hasn't been the same since.

I have been wondering if perhaps part of my ED is due to having a low sex drive or libido because due to the erection problem I am still a virigin. It seems like my desire for sex and sexual feelings are nearly none existant for example If I see a hot woman with nice cleavage or ass I don't get an erection or turned on I see hot women but little to no reaction downstairs. I know I'm not 16 anymore (I'm nearly 27 in a couple of months) but I know still at my age I should be getting way more erections and random ones which I hardly ever get and on a rare occasion I do they're very weak. I don't know If I'm crazy or what but I'm sure since I injured my penis years ago my libido went down with my erection quality. I swear If I don't watch porn I don't really get horny or feel sexual desires (even in my mind) I rarely think about sex anymore. It's just so frustrating having a lifeless dick and when I go out to a bar or whatever I see so many hot women but I know I'm useless downstairs.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Have you ever had your testosterone level tested?

[realityman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close realityman]

Sounds like classic Low T.

[Connor Member Find all posts View Profile Close Connor]

Low testosterone sometimes is not the reason. Mine was normal last time I checked. I do have too lifeless penis. My random erections are very rare and 99% of the time almost completely soft (if I don't tell you, you wouldn't notice). I never wanked on porn on a habit (just me and my fantasies). I probably combined over mb with poor diet, dunno. But I could tell you getting horny every time a chick walks by is sci-fi. I'm pretty sure men's dick doesn't work that way. Walking in a mall with your buddy up is not a sign of normal hormones, it's "hormones on crazy". Young people have it, because at first they cannot control it, after that it normalizes. It's the mood, stress and etc that matter. If I don't feel like getting horny, I can't get horny. If I'm horny, I am (but dead inside with this buddy). Don't push yourself too hard. Go out with friends, have fun, enjoy life. Your buddy cannot be happy unless you are. Don't take yourself as a man with a problem. Think of you as a man with a hitch...

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

Hi guys so a few here will know I have some real erections problems (probably Venous Leakage) which I got from performing penis exercises incorrectly (roughly 7 years ago) and my dick hasn't been the same since.

I have been wondering if perhaps part of my ED is due to having a low sex drive or libido because due to the erection problem I am still a virigin. It seems like my desire for sex and sexual feelings are nearly none existant for example If I see a hot woman with nice cleavage or ass I don't get an erection or turned on I see hot women but little to no reaction downstairs. I know I'm not 16 anymore (I'm nearly 27 in a couple of months) but I know still at my age I should be getting way more erections and random ones which I hardly ever get and on a rare occasion I do they're very weak. I don't know If I'm crazy or what but I'm sure since I injured my penis years ago my libido went down with my erection quality. I swear If I don't watch porn I don't really get horny or feel sexual desires (even in my mind) I rarely think about sex anymore. It's just so frustrating having a lifeless dick and when I go out to a bar or whatever I see so many hot women but I know I'm useless downstairs.

Your problem is mental and emotional. It's really that simple. From what I'm reading you're not describing anything so remarkably unusual.

I recommend you seriously seek a loving relationship with a woman. Get a decent girlfriend. Let things happen naturally. After a couple dates you should end up in bed with her...hopefully. Have several sexual encounters with her. And THEN you can ascertain whether or not you actually have erectile dysfunction issues.

Or you could ignore this advice and do what you've been doing to yourself for the past 7 years. Make it 14 years of hell. It's up to you. If it's so much of a problem for you to get a girlfriend, I recommend you seriously find a pscyhologist or some kind of therapist who specializes in problems like this. You're a head case. I think you're worrying about all the wrong things. I hope that's not too harsh, but it is frustrating to read messages like this over and over and over again when the real problem is obvious.

[carlos21cm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close carlos21cm]

I dont think anybody here is capable of diagnose UKguy witha mental ED or other psycological isuue only based in the fact that he is a 27 year old virgin. I ahve the same symtoms witht he only difeerence is iM not a virgin.
The sad truth is ED has increased during last century due to all teh chemicals we get among many otehr reasons. From any food to a deodorant.There are chemicals estrogenic substances,alcohol,drugs and stress.
So Ukguy unfortunately during last decade ED has become an increasing condition in men under 30.Before it was thought to be a condition for above 60 men.
why? for many reasons. trust me that thousands if not million men worldwide under 40 use viagra regulary.
I dont have that libido itnerest for sex,I can visually look to women I love the way t hey look how sexy they are and everything,but jsut dont feel the need of ahving sex.unless im really close touching her and she touching me I dont feel it.
So...now Im looking for herbs that restore libido.
Most natural alternatives focus on blood flow and erection issues not on libido.
Few days ago a guy posted an amazing recipe for libido.He says he was walking in the mall getting spontaneus erections.You should try it and see how it goes.
My advice UKguy is...find a pretty and nice prostitute. Dont be afraid,there are nice girls working on that that will treat you friendly.There you dont need to impress her or satisfy her needs,just relax and enjoy.So its a good way to ahve your first encounter without the stress and frustration involved

[dsfan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dsfan]

Im not entirely sure that I agree with the whole chemicals causing it...

A much simpler reason is... There was nothing that could be done 50 years ago, and people did not want to talk about it.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Low testosterone sometimes is not the reason. Mine was normal last time I checked. I do have too lifeless penis. My random erections are very rare and 99% of the time almost completely soft (if I don't tell you, you wouldn't notice). I never wanked on porn on a habit (just me and my fantasies). I probably combined over mb with poor diet, dunno. But I could tell you getting horny every time a chick walks by is sci-fi. I'm pretty sure men's dick doesn't work that way. Walking in a mall with your buddy up is not a sign of normal hormones, it's "hormones on crazy". Young people have it, because at first they cannot control it, after that it normalizes. It's the mood, stress and etc that matter. If I don't feel like getting horny, I can't get horny. If I'm horny, I am (but dead inside with this buddy). Don't push yourself too hard. Go out with friends, have fun, enjoy life. Your buddy cannot be happy unless you are. Don't take yourself as a man with a problem. Think of you as a man with a hitch...

This is very good advice along with Hot Rod telling you that you're a bit depressed. There is nothing wrong with your dick unless you hit it with a hammer. ( you didn't do that did you?) You dick is a lot tougher than you think it is. No you're depressed, unhappy, and looking for a way out. How about going to see somebody who can help you iron out your problems and get on with life!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Oh I forgot; a rep for you Connor!

[carlos21cm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close carlos21cm]

Well its not happening with ED only,theres more hair loss,arthrosis and so on.Sexual disorders are always more difficult to estiamte in statistics since is not an open subjet but many other afections specially cardiovascualr have increased.Cholesterol white sugar,sodas,hormoned meat seem to be the cause.We dont die more than before simply cause there are far more pills to counteract those deseases and we can aford them.
The case of UKguy may be a combination of overmasturbation diet,possible injury whil on PE but I dont think mental

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Damn with all those bad chemicals around it is amazing that we're living longer? I guess we should go back to the 1700's where they had no chemicals and people were dead at 50. OhI know medicine keeps us alive. Don't they use chemicals too?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Still waiting for uk to tell us the results of his hormone test?

[carlos21cm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close carlos21cm]

Damn with all those bad chemicals around it is amazing that we're living longer? I guess we should go back to the 1700's where they had no chemicals and people were dead at 50. OhI know medicine keeps us alive. Don't they use chemicals too?

well you just answered yourself,chemicals medicine keep us alive wich doesnt necesarely mean our healh is better and doesnt mean it doesnt have side effetcs. We have safer jobs,holidays,warm houses,clean water and equiped hospitals,so cahnces are you live longer than 1700,but the diet is not definately healthier now than before.

[UKGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UKGuy]

Have you ever had your testosterone level tested?

Still waiting for uk to tell us the results of his hormone test?

Well maybe it may of changed since but a year ago or so I went to the hospital and got some blood tests, testoterone tests etc and my results came back normal. Although I can't remember what the numbers were.

Your problem is mental and emotional. It's really that simple. From what I'm reading you're not describing anything so remarkably unusual.

I recommend you seriously seek a loving relationship with a woman. Get a decent girlfriend. Let things happen naturally. After a couple dates you should end up in bed with her...hopefully. Have several sexual encounters with her. And THEN you can ascertain whether or not you actually have erectile dysfunction issues. I want to go out with women when my dick works properly again if that can ever happen.

You're a head case. I think you're worrying about all the wrong things. I hope that's not too harsh, but it is frustrating to read messages like this over and over and over again when the real problem is obvious.

I don't think I'm a headcase but I can see why you may see me that way or others. I'm just a young guy who just wants his old dick back (which is looking to be impossible) I get crappy erections in the morning watching porn or masturbating, with soft glans and I lose them very fast what chance do I have having sex with a woman? I know I have some issues (confidence issues) with dating women and I have had have them since I was young but surely you can't blame a guy for not trying to date when he has real erection problems.

My advice UKguy is...find a pretty and nice prostitute. Dont be afraid,there are nice girls working on that that will treat you friendly.There you dont need to impress her or satisfy her needs,just relax and enjoy.So its a good way to ahve your first encounter without the stress and frustration involved

Thanks yeah I thought about seeing an escort many times but I tried one once when I was abroad (around 7 years ago) and it I was a total flop it was a horrible experience lol I laugh now but back then I was 21 or whatever (the same year I injured my dick doing PE incorrectly) and I couldn't get an erection period, she couldn't get it up I couldn't.

This is very good advice along with Hot Rod telling you that you're a bit depressed. There is nothing wrong with your dick unless you hit it with a hammer. ( you didn't do that did you?) You dick is a lot tougher than you think it is.

No I didn't wack my dick was a hammer but I did clearly over stretch it when doing penis stretches (around 7 years ago) after warming up and stretching my dick out a bit it shrunk up really small and felt hard to touch like there was little blood circulation in my penis? I think it wasn't until an hour or so until it went back to normal. Since then my flacid penis feels firm to touch and it's inflexible (eg I can't stretch my penis) I'm just scared to death I've destroyed my penis and the erectile tissue and that's why I probably have poor erections that don't last. I know I'm an idiot a real idiot for doing what I did and I just want my dick to work again. Part of me can't accept the fact I may of permanently ruined my dick and all this happened because I was so insecure about myself and my penis size. Sometimes I do have problems mentally coping with what I did to myself and my broken penis. Maybe I should talk to someone at least to help mentally. Sometimes I really don't know what to do maybe I should just get on with my life and "man up", accept the fact my penis is permanently fucked and I have to deal with it. I only have myself to blame 100% but it still doesn't make this any easier to cope with.