Did I make a mistake telling this to her?????

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You are overthinking this.

How would you suggest I approach this scenario. It’s like my mind has been hypnotised by her.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

How would you suggest I approach this scenario. It’s like my mind has been hypnotised by her.

Relaxed.

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Relaxed.

Thank you 🙏.

[Sir_Laid_A_Lot Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Sir_Laid_A_Lot]

It sure does sound like fun.

It sure sounds fun and that’s why I want to continue this adventure.

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I'm sure things will return to normal after that, but I'm willing to bet money that's how it's going to play out.

What do you mean? That she might not show up to the venue?

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

If you don't get sex from her by the 3rd date just cut her loose. Don't waste time thinking about whether you fucked up or didn't. Just see if you can get with her and you can't there's if she doesn't want you.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Sex on the 3rd date is a bit soon for some...

I wouldn't be opening my legs for anyone 3 dates in!

[Sir_Laid_A_Lot Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Sir_Laid_A_Lot]

Sex on the 3rd date is a bit soon for some...

I wouldn't be opening my legs for anyone 3 dates in!

I will be going to the same bar tonight.

If you were her how would you approach this scenario. What would you be thinking about?

How should a guy approach this scenario?

Please advice.

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Sex on the 3rd date is a bit soon for some...

I wouldn't be opening my legs for anyone 3 dates in!

Do you think that opportunity last week was a one shot deal? Do you think I could get one more opportunity?

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Sex on the 3rd date is a bit soon for some...

I wouldn't be opening my legs for anyone 3 dates in!

As a woman, if you are attracted to a guy and you expected him to have sex with you that night but for some reason it didn’t work out that way, would you completely shut him out???

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Overthinking .

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

So, I just got back from Australia last September. I was there for a year and a half. Since returning to my country I have been visiting this bar with my female cousin who comes along with her two friends. One of the friends is a Tom Boy.

We meet once every week on a Saturday and spend a lot of time together. It's been 7 months now since i've known them. The past three weeks I have been getting intimate with my cousin's friend (Not the Tom Boy). We kissed a few times (but holds back after she bites and pulls my lips) on the dance floor and conversate regularly.

THEN THIS HAPPENED:

This recent Saturday (13th April) the same thing happened on the dance floor but towards the end of the night when the bar was close to being empty she gave me a comfortable kiss and we went for a drive. It was dawn by then 5:00 am in the morning. I parked my car in a secluded area and started French kissing her passionately and also went to second base. I sucked her tits and we both seemed to have a good time. I tried to take off her trousers but she told me not to and that she gotta go home. She also pointed out that it was bright already. Nevertheless we continued kissing passionately again and after a while she asked me to drive her to the bar where she parked her car. While we were passionately making out the second time I told her:

" I will make love to you next week" and she responded "no". It wasen't a violent "no". It was a "no" you hear in the heat of passion.

I drove her to her car next to the bar and before she exited my car we made out and again I went to second base (Sucked her tits)

Do you think I made a mistake by telling her about making love next week?

What do you think I should expect when we meet again this Saturday? Should I pretend nothing happend? Act normal? Or get more comfortable around her but be patient for the phyical aspects much later in the night.

What should I do?

Man.. classic overthinking. You will be fine. Its just a comment and will have absolutely no effect on how your relationship develops..

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Are you looking to have sex with her for the sake of putting another notch on your bedpost or maybe building a relationship with her? There are still girls out there like Tara that are not out there looking to get laid just for the sake of having sex. It goes against their moral values and/or they would like a little more from a guy before they put out.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I dont think there should be any set rule to when to have sex other than when it feels right for both of you.

Secondly the lead up, heavy petting, anticipate to sex is one of the best bits. So chill and enjoy.

You didnt miss your chance with her. She said no. Go and have a laugh, offer to take her home/ to her car again. If she says yes then shes into you.

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As a woman, if you are attracted to a guy and you expected him to have sex with you that night but for some reason it didn’t work out that way, would you completely shut him out???

No not at all.