Did I make a mistake telling this to her?????

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So you're stuck in a cycle of what's known as rumination.

You need to learn the art of indifference.

Either you're chasing women, or women are chasing you. When you're chasing women, you come off needy, desperate, maybe creepy. Most of all, you become clearly available. This leaves out all the most important aspects of attraction. Curiousity, mystery, desire. Are you more likely to buy a car from some salesman who's trying to push you and force it down your throat, or from the guy who sits back and lets you develop your own interest and desire? Someone who tries to talk you into buying? Or someone who dangles the keys and lets you talk YOURSELF into buying?

Most importantly though, is not to use this as a "method". Because if underneath your still needy, desperate, wanting, then no matter what trick you try to pull it will most likely fail. You need to do the inner work, to develop indifference and the mentality of abundance. You need to simply hold yourself on the pedastal instead of them, and let them talk themselves into their own curiosity and attraction to you. But, this needs to be done in a state of confidence, not arrogance.

You should not act rude, or standoffish, or avoid complimenting. You must be authentic. Authentically learn to feel indifferent on whether or not you get a chick, then you can learn to lock eyes, tell her how fucking sexy she is, then walk away and go about your life.

As in, instead of hitting on a girl going "your beautiful, I want you" its simply "you're beautiful" just because you think she is, and thats that. There should be no end game. Can you fantasize about the dirty things you'd do to her? Yes absolutely. But you should not have any attachment to whether or not that even happens.

Everything you said was on point. Thank you 🙏

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An interesting turn of events. They showed up to the bar today. I had a talk with my cousin and they asked my why I was not present last week. I told them that I had left around 1:30 am In the morning. They had apparently come after I left, around 2 am in the morning.

So what negative thoughts or worst case scenarios I had in my head were all wrong.

Anyways she was playing hard to get as expected by chatting with other men around me. Guess what? I didn’t give a fuc8 about her. I played my own game of hide and seek (Push and Pull). At the end she ended up in my car and we drove to the same spot where we made our last week. She game me some LMR but I pulled back telling her it was ok and that she was right. Caught her right in my trap. She took off her trousers (Iade sure I capitalized this time).

I made her cum three times in aperitif of 15 minutes and she told me “I love you” during our love making session. But the thing is, I could not cum. I was just too intoxicated to cum.

Anyways I am happy that things turned out the way I wanted it to. I am so happy 😁 right now that I played by the books 📚 or sexual selection.

I want to make sure I cum all over her the next time I bang her.

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Sorry about the typo. Just too fucki8 drunk 🥴

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I swear to god my EGO is so satisfied right now.

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You guys wanna know something about women ? (Excepting most Thai women, because they are easy as fuc8).

ALWAYS BE PATIENT AND DONT GIVE A FUC8 THEM. THEY WILL FALL RIGHT ONTO YOUR HARD COC8.

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It’s either a bloody coincidence or I am literally attracted to married women for my satisfaction and sense of conquest. I can’t help but be attracted to her. It’s like a fuc8in drug. Just help me out here guys. I am so bloody disappointed right now and trying to think of situations where it could be to my favour. I mean why the helm would she give me so much attention and connection if she did t want this to go further. I don’t get it.

I'm late to this thread but dude, a desire for the conquest of married women can end very badly.

If your still around, I hope you are over this sort of thing.

I could tell you what I would do if someone had a "desire" to conquer with my wife but if I said what would happen on the internet it would be used as evidence against me.