Did I make a mistake telling this to her?????

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I will be going to the same bar tonight.

If you were her how would you approach this scenario. What would you be thinking about?

How should a guy approach this scenario?

Please advice.

I would be thinking I necked on with a lad and i think you said second base (we dont have that system here, as far as im aware) and be thinking the same will happen again, maybe a little more.

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Are you looking to have sex with her for the sake of putting another notch on your bedpost or maybe building a relationship with her? There are still girls out there like Tara that are not out there looking to get laid just for the sake of having sex. It goes against their moral values and/or they would like a little more from a guy before they put out.

I have developed some sort of infatuation but it’s just for sex. I don’t want a relationship with her.

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No not at all.

Thanks 🙏

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Ok I did not mention one important detail so as not to sidetrack the responses.

She’s married and has a 3 year old daughter.

I am in the bar right now and they haven’t shown up yet. It’s 10:30 pm. Bar stays open till 4:30 pm.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Well you said you didnt want a relationship.....

Just be prepared to have your face stoved in by her husband lol

And if you have sex.... use a condom.... dont risk that

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Well you said you didnt want a relationship.....

Just be prepared to have your face stoved in by her husband lol

And if you have sex.... use a condom.... dont risk that

Just to make it clear, I found out from the bar tender that they came yesterday.

It’s a no show today. Anything I missed that I should have “DECODED”.

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What “Wrong” could I have done???

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Sex on the 3rd date is a bit soon for some...

I wouldn't be opening my legs for anyone 3 dates in!

He's already sucked her tits. She's ready for him.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

She's married. Regardless of her reasons for making out/letting you get to 2nd base, it might just be best to let it go and find someone who's single. Lots of reasons for this. Has she done anything for you or just let you play with her boobs?

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Ok I did not mention one important detail so as not to sidetrack the responses.

She’s married and has a 3 year old daughter.

I am in the bar right now and they haven’t shown up yet. It’s 10:30 pm. Bar stays open till 4:30 pm.

Are you fucking kidding me!?

You're trying to fuck a married woman with a kid and you're asking the internet to help you. You were doomed with her from the start. Cut your losses and move on. You don't want to be involved her drama, trust me here.

I know you went from fucking hookers to this but you can do better. Raise the bar and go after women who are single and higher value than this.

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Just to make it clear, I found out from the bar tender that they came yesterday.

It’s a no show today. Anything I missed that I should have “DECODED”.

The only thing to "DECODE" is that she's going on dates with her husband when she's not with you.

You treat this situation like too would with any girl who was stringing you along because she has a boyfriend and you give up on her.

The only way you can win the game is simply not to play it. You don't waste your time and money on women who stand up and don't want to be with you. You don't give them second or third chances or listen to their excuses. You cut them off, block their number, and go after other women who don't act like this.

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She's married. Regardless of her reasons for making out/letting you get to 2nd base, it might just be best to let it go and find someone who's single. Lots of reasons for this. Has she done anything for you or just let you play with her boobs?

Nope she didn’t do anything except for feel my crotch for a sec or so. Mainly it’s me playing with her tits.

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Are you fucking kidding me!?

You're trying to fuck a married woman with a kid and you're asking the internet to help you. You were doomed with her from the start. Cut your losses and move on. You don't want to be involved her drama, trust me here.

I know you went from fucking hookers to this but you can do better. Raise the bar and go after women who are single and higher value than this.

It’s either a bloody coincidence or I am literally attracted to married women for my satisfaction and sense of conquest. I can’t help but be attracted to her. It’s like a fuc8in drug. Just help me out here guys. I am so bloody disappointed right now and trying to think of situations where it could be to my favour. I mean why the helm would she give me so much attention and connection if she did t want this to go further. I don’t get it.

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The only thing to "DECODE" is that she's going on dates with her husband when she's not with you.

You treat this situation like too would with any girl who was stringing you along because she has a boyfriend and you give up on her.

The only way you can win the game is simply not to play it. You don't waste your time and money on women who stand up and don't want to be with you. You don't give them second or third chances or listen to their excuses. You cut them off, block their number, and go after other women who don't act like this.

I literally went to second base with her and I though let she felt the same way with me. What the hell is this???

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Could a sense of guilt cause her to completely change her mind? Is there any way I could at least do her once. I need some closure. This is literally kill8ing me.