BDSM, anybody else into it?

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Never tried it as never met the right girl. Although I do plan to build a set of medieval stocks one day. Cool or what....
http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-thin...l&tid=19844508

Looks good!

[rollingthunder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rollingthunder]

Thank you so much brother! You truly are a man of character doing what you have with these women. You are right, it's not easy, especially when the world around you demands attention and sacrifices but all I can say is when you have the right person by your side and both are willing to make the sacrifices to make it work, then that makes it a whole lot easier. The rewards in the long run cannot even be measured. I have a wonderful life, an incredible wife, two awesome children and a roof over my head. I live in a free country and have the freedom to worship as I choose. Is there anything else a man could want?

As far as my character regarding these women, I'm doing the best I can.
One has been an object of my affection for thirty years, and the other is 17 years younger than me and one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.
Phase two of that conversation will be discouraging any face to face meetings until they have decided the fate of their relationships. Mostly because I have a rule not to hold back these days. I'm a chicken hawk hunting for a chicken. If I am in their prescence, I fully expect I will cross a line. If they are receptive or vulnerable, there won't be any taking that back.
These are both wonderful women and mothers. That makes them suitable for someday meeting my children. This shit is difficult.

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

You are a man of character and obviously self -aware. Just reacting to your own innate ways shows the character you have. Admitting you may not have complete self control in their prescence and dealing with it accordingly is indeed incredible. Whatever woman happens to land you will truly be blessed. I love the way you view these women in your life and how you are not willing to compromise their situation. Real gentlemen do still exist and it is most refreshing. Hang in the brother. Being the good guy isn't always easy but the end result is always worth the sacrifice.

[SheSquirts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SheSquirts]

If I wanted good information on ways to tease a girl with anal play and delaying her orgasm, what would you guys recommend?

Be gentle at first! That shit stings at first! But once the initial sting goes away, it feels wonderful!

Don't hold her orgasm back! That's not nice, play into it and make her cum harder!

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Confidence really does play a big role in your life. Too bad most women can't tell confidence apart from arrogance!

As far as BDSM goes, looks like I'm into the "D" part of it! (I didn't even know what it was until I read this thread).

I like to be dominant most times I have sex: ass smacking, hair tugging (gentle), neck grabbing and manhandling (holding and doing her in all kinds of different, dominant and akward positions ). That's also why I don't want an excessively large penis. I'm aware of my (dominant) nature, so I feel like a very big penis will do nothing but hurt the women.

As far as the other "parts of the spectrum", I guess S and M really aren't me.

Bondage, I've never tried it. Maybe I'll like it, who knows?

Hey Mike if you are spanking and pulling hair, you are already part of the D and the S. You don't have to inflict a lot of pain that is the misconception people not in the life style have. I am a masochist but not a extreme one. I don't mind, spanking, flogging, paddling, clamps but i am not up to needles and all that stuff. So just remember within the spectrum there are many levels to satisfy whatever works for you. Bondage does not require equipment. If you ever restrained a woman's above her head or at her side while making love, the you have in fact experienced "bondage" Is not all about cuffs. you can restraint, with scarves, ties, tape name it. Is just that leather/nylon cuffs are more comfortable and versatile.

I can understand what you mean about the excessive large penis specially for BDSM where the sub's range of motion is limited by restraints and they might not be able to shift a position to keep from getting hurt. With all you are already doing, I can guarantee you will love bondage. I can tell you I love it!!!!!

[SheSquirts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SheSquirts]

As far as my character regarding these women, I'm doing the best I can.
One has been an object of my affection for thirty years, and the other is 17 years younger than me and one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.
Phase two of that conversation will be discouraging any face to face meetings until they have decided the fate of their relationships. Mostly because I have a rule not to hold back these days. I'm a chicken hawk hunting for a chicken. If I am in their prescence, I fully expect I will cross a line. If they are receptive or vulnerable, there won't be any taking that back.
These are both wonderful women and mothers. That makes them suitable for someday meeting my children. This shit is difficult.

Without knowing you Rolling, I find this very sweet and it gives me hope that there's a gentleman out there for me somewhere. <3

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

I like BDSM.

I've been with a DOM and a Dominatrix before. The only thing I've ever had a hard time with is the "Yes, Master or Yes, Mistress". It cracks me up.

I like the spanking (even pussy spanking), choking, clothes pins are fun, flogging, cattails, blind fold, have tried wax once and it hurt like hell!

But I do like pain to get pleasure!

I totally agree with you SS pussy spanking is the best!!!!! I do like the wax play but we always use low melting point candles for our sensation play. Love all the other you mentioned.

[rollingthunder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rollingthunder]

Without knowing you Rolling, I find this very sweet and it gives me hope that there's a gentleman out there for me somewhere. <3

Maybe I can make up for the missteps of a younger self.
Thanks. I really am trying.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Btw MLfM, while this is a slight tangent, I find it to be related. I love to see the relationship that you and the Mrs. have. I love that you both so clearly appreciate what you have.

Thank you Rolling Thunder! Yes we are very lucky to have each other, we work at it daily. I really think of us and an entity but it requires both our our commitment to keep it that way. I am glad to see that you are committed to find the Ying to your Yang instead of settling for the easy way out the offers you have received could have provided. I can't begin to describe the superb feeling of having a companion that shares in your all but has in own personality, character, etc. It is sublime. I wish you find it soon.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Thank you so much brother! You truly are a man of character doing what you have with these women. You are right, it's not easy, especially when the world around you demands attention and sacrifices but all I can say is when you have the right person by your side and both are willing to make the sacrifices to make it work, then that makes it a whole lot easier. The rewards in the long run cannot even be measured. I have a wonderful life, an incredible wife, two awesome children and a roof over my head. I live in a free country and have the freedom to worship as I choose. Is there anything else a man could want?

+1 (Isn't he awesome!)

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Don't hold her orgasm back! That's not nice,

That's the point.

I was hoping for a book or a website or videos for anal play. I know to take it slow but I don't know what direction to push my fingers, where to apply pressure, where to tickle, or the anatomy of it at all, really. Was hoping you guys knew where to look.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

If I wanted good information on ways to tease a girl with anal play and delaying her orgasm, what would you guys recommend?

To delay you have to bring her to the brim and them back of, this will be harder to do once you add the anal play. I personally love having the Njoy Pure Anal plug while he is doing vaginal penetration this causes two erogenous spots to be hit at the same time and makes the vaginal canal real tight for you when you are penetrating. So the best thing to do to get the results you want is to PRACTICE. You are basically looking to edge while having intercourse. You can also reverse the options and use a dildo (Njoy also has some really nice ones) on her vagina while you ride her anus. Darn just writing this is making me excited!

P.S. Forgot to mention Yes, you need to make sure you have great lube and train the sphincter muscle in the anus before you go crazy. You can use the different plugs or buy and inflatable butt plug which allows you to do the training without too much initial investment.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

That's the point.

I was hoping for a book or a website or videos for anal play. I know to take it slow but I don't know what direction to push my fingers, where to apply pressure, where to tickle, or the anatomy of it at all, really. Was hoping you guys knew where to look.

give e a few minute and I will PM you the info.

[rollingthunder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rollingthunder]

Be gentle at first! That shit stings at first! But once the initial sting goes away, it feels wonderful!

Don't hold her orgasm back! That's not nice, play into it and make her cum harder!

But if you withhold the orgasm long enough, you get the experience of just saying the words "cum for me", and watching her brain melt. Then you both laugh when she regains consciousness.

[SheSquirts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SheSquirts]

But if you withhold the orgasm long enough, you get the experience of just saying the words "cum for me", and watching her brain melt. Then you both laugh when she regains consciousness.

Haha... You really are a DOM aren't you??