BDSM, anybody else into it?

[rollingthunder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rollingthunder]

Now that I am finally completely self-aware, I like my chances.
I am seeing women drawn to me like moths to a flame.
Confidence in who you are is more powerful than I would have thought.

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Now that I am finally completely self-aware, I like my chances.
I am seeing women drawn to me like moths to a flame.
Confidence in who you are is more powerful than I would have thought.

Confidence is a very powerful thing. It can make a huge difference on how people perceive you. Confidence without arrogance is truly where it's at. I'm glad you have become more self-aware.

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Honestly, I've always been a little arrogant. Not so much as to be an asshole. Just that my self-esteem may be a little too healthy. I am aware of it, and do my best to keep it in check.
Clearly, I am not without flaws.

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Honestly, I've always been a little arrogant. Not so much as to be an asshole. Just that my self-esteem may be a little too healthy. I am aware of it, and do my best to keep it in check.
Clearly, I am not without flaws.

None of us are without flaws my friend, not one.

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Never tried it as never met the right girl. Although I do plan to build a set of medieval stocks one day. Cool or what....
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Confidence is a very powerful thing. It can make a huge difference on how people perceive you. Confidence without arrogance is truly where it's at. I'm glad you have become more self-aware.

Confidence really does play a big role in your life. Too bad most women can't tell confidence apart from arrogance!

As far as BDSM goes, looks like I'm into the "D" part of it! (I didn't even know what it was until I read this thread).

I like to be dominant most times I have sex: ass smacking, hair tugging (gentle), neck grabbing and manhandling (holding and doing her in all kinds of different, dominant and akward positions ). That's also why I don't want an excessively large penis. I'm aware of my (dominant) nature, so I feel like a very big penis will do nothing but hurt the women.

As far as the other "parts of the spectrum", I guess S and M really aren't me.

Bondage, I've never tried it. Maybe I'll like it, who knows?

[SheSquirts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SheSquirts]

I like BDSM.

I've been with a DOM and a Dominatrix before. The only thing I've ever had a hard time with is the "Yes, Master or Yes, Mistress". It cracks me up.

I like the spanking (even pussy spanking), choking, clothes pins are fun, flogging, cattails, blind fold, have tried wax once and it hurt like hell!

But I do like pain to get pleasure!

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I like BDSM.

I've been with a DOM and a Dominatrix before. The only thing I've ever had a hard time with is the "Yes, Master or Yes, Mistress". It cracks me up.

I like the spanking (even pussy spanking), choking, clothes pins are fun, flogging, cattails, blind fold, have tried wax once and it hurt like hell!

But I do like pain to get pleasure!

OH YEAH! Like I said before, you are gonna fit in real well here!

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Confidence really does play a big role in your life. Too bad most women can't tell confidence apart from arrogance!

As far as BDSM goes, looks like I'm into the "D" part of it! (I didn't even know what it was until I read this thread).

I like to be dominant most times I have sex: ass smacking, hair tugging (gentle), neck grabbing and manhandling (holding and doing her in all kinds of different, dominant and akward positions ). That's also why I don't want an excessively large penis. I'm aware of my (dominant) nature, so I feel like a very big penis will do nothing but hurt the women.

As far as the other "parts of the spectrum", I guess S and M really aren't me.

Bondage, I've never tried it. Maybe I'll like it, who knows?

It's so good to see a responsible person engaging in BDSM type relations. The Mrs and I are also mostly into the D/s part and only slightly into the SM. I'm definitely with you on the too large of penis idea. Initially I wanted a huge one with an 11 EQ but after having the Mrs helping me to see the light, I realized that would take all the fun out of it for both of us.

[SheSquirts Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SheSquirts]

OH YEAH! Like I said before, you are gonna fit in real well here!

Fantastic! I look forward to it!!

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Btw MLfM, while this is a slight tangent, I find it to be related. I love to see the relationship that you and the Mrs. have. I love that you both so clearly appreciate what you have.

The last year of my life has shined a bright light on the current state of marriage. In the last week alone, I have been contacted by two married women. While these are both women I want badly, I did the same thing I do every time this happens. I had to suggest that if you haven't given every option a try in order to ensure that you have no choice, you may well regret it.
While I am in a position to know her misery, which is no way to live, I can't/won't be the one to blow it up. Just because divorce was the best and most important decision I ever made, doesn't mean her mileage won't vary.
I'm having this conversation a lot. That's why it pleases me so much to see two people who have found what they need together. Not to suggest it's easy. For that reason, I commend you.

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Thank you so much brother! You truly are a man of character doing what you have with these women. You are right, it's not easy, especially when the world around you demands attention and sacrifices but all I can say is when you have the right person by your side and both are willing to make the sacrifices to make it work, then that makes it a whole lot easier. The rewards in the long run cannot even be measured. I have a wonderful life, an incredible wife, two awesome children and a roof over my head. I live in a free country and have the freedom to worship as I choose. Is there anything else a man could want?

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That's what we call "the good life"!

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

If I wanted good information on ways to tease a girl with anal play and delaying her orgasm, what would you guys recommend?

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Personally have never tried to delay her orgasm. I've always been more into pushing her over the edge with too many orgasms. As far as anal play goes, you need to be slow and easy especially if it's her first time. The key is to help her be relaxed and use lots of lube. There are special lubes made specifically for anal. You can start with a finger and work your way up from there. We started with a smaller stainless plug and then graduated up to a larger one after penetrating her myself. We both love using her newer stainless plug while I am in the front door. There are starter kits if you feel you want to try it. I can PM you links to the plugs we use if you like. There are also inflatable plugs available so you can adjust the size.