How real are you?

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Would it make a difference to you if you found out I was actually a man?

It would matter to me and if you would do that I couldnt believe a single factual thing you had ever said. I have wondered in the past about other female members ( not on here now ) I bet it happens.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I failed typing in high school. I was too hyper active to focus.

me too

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

I failed typing in high school. I was too hyper active to focus.

Don't worry Sweetie, you get your idea's across more than fine dear. I too am a much better communicator in person.

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

It would matter to me and if you would do that I couldnt believe a single factual thing you had ever said. I have wondered in the past about other female members ( not on here now ) I bet it happens.

You see! This is why it is a valid question. It is important to me that I am interacting with authentic people and therefore can feel more comfortable taking their advice to heart. If you want to get advice about how to be successful at something don't you have to talk to someone who is actually doing it or at least genuinely attempting it in their own lives?

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

One of the worst feelings on earth for me is being lied to and I've had my fair share of that so far, so yes it does matter to me, much, I prefer confrontation and honesty, even if brutal.

[sweetie52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sweetie52]

It matters to me whether or not you are a woman. Your posts tell me so. I do believe you. Being lied to is one of the most hurtful experiences that can happen to another. I think everyone on here is pretty genuine. Behind the scenes may be a different story.

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

So, the question comes. Do you share this forum with those closest to you (spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend) and if not WHY? Is there anyone brave enough to answer not so wish/wash? Out of all the members is there really NO one that is living a secret life here on this forum? Or is it that even here on an anonymous site fear of stating your truth rules? Realizing of course that whatever the truth is, we here on this forum must except you one way or another, so why not if ONLY here be honest. Or perhaps we are all angels?

[sweetie52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sweetie52]

Fear of stating my truth rules!!!! lol

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

I don't think if I had a significant other, I would be spending as much time here as I do now, and I would definitely like to share everything with her, especially the Gym!

[donjelqer76 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close donjelqer76]

I'm no different in real life than I am here.

Outside of the PE community I'm a huge nerd. .. Programming, Linux, science and technology, physics, you name it! I work in the chemical industry and own a small company manufacturing and installing a wind turbine controller that I invented. I was also a huge fitness buff for much of my life, was a state-level wrestler and even dabbled in amature MMA for a few years.

My sense of humor is a little dry and sarcastic, which doesn't really play out online like it does in real person.
Yep, I'm a real person!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You can not be secret and be on the internet. Someone will always find you, kind of like those kids picture or ones in high school that you hid so your kid would never see them and somehow they appear. No one here has a secret life that I know of but maybe just a private life, a portion of their lives that they want to escape all the crap that happens each day and just go to a place, fool around, and maybe help a guy or two. How many guys on here I spoke with when they wanted to kill themselves or their girl left them of their total lives and in the toilet; yes people can be helped. Now with the very nature of this site, the fact that it's a penis website, some folks may just hold you up to ridicule because of what the theme is here. Oh what are you doing on a dick site? Or you a pervert? Etc. Oh yes that can happen and I'm sure if a guy or even a girl wants to keep it private than that is in the back of their minds.

We, all of us, do many a good thing for others here and because of the title that often goes unnoticed. No Miss A, nothing wrong with being a bit private so it's not thrown back at your face when you nt only help others but help yourself a bit at the same time.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I'm a mushroom irl
4 rlz

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

I can understand not wanting to tell everyone in your life about the "dick site" your on. However, if you spend a considerable amount of time on here it would be reasonable to expect that you would share it with your spouse. Especially if you are here to work on your relationship and much less help others with theirs. This would be the same as never doing any of the PEgym exercises and then getting on here and advising others on what they should do different.

Okay, I'm gonna go feed the bosses and be right back.

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

I'm a mushroom irl
4 rlz

That's a fungus right?

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

I keeps it reull!

Seriously though, I am quite the same. At least that's what the people I've met offline say. Not from this site, I'm on several other forums much less clandestine and controversial.

I've been told I use big words too often in conversation and it comes off as arrogance, or snobbishness. I suck because I can't think of the smaller words when I need them. "Noisy" doesn't come to mind before "cacophonous." it's sometimes embarrassing lol!

Been told I'm Funny but I just say I'm funny looking and leave it at that. too hard to pretend to be someone else when you jump behind a computer screen. I do notice it brings the bravery out of some people, but anything I say online I say in person and anything I don't say online I wouldn't say in person.