8 Dating/Sex Questions Women Really Want to Know from Men

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hey Fellas,

Are you up for answering some sex/dating questions about men that a great many women have been asking me lately? If so, please know that there is no need to answer all of them, just the ones that pertain to you. Ready? OK, here goes…

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?

SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?

[Salingo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Salingo]

Hey Fellas,

Are you up for answering some sex/dating questions about men that a great many women have been asking me lately? If so, please know that there is no need to answer all of them, just the ones that pertain to you. Ready? OK, here goes…

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?

The depth of the girls personality, how loyal she seems, how honest she is.

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?

To let me know she's interested she will let me touch her, and talk to her about anything. She should never flirt with another guy near me, and she should never ignore me.

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?

Loyal, Honest, Loving, and Understanding, also someone who takes care of themselves Physically.

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?

Doesn't matter too much. Although I would treat a virgin differently in terms of the pace we take things.

SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?

I just think about dominance, my favorite position is me on top her on bottom (missionary) I also think about pleasing the girl too so there is usually a lot of foreplay before/after.

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?

There is nothing to worry about, and I have no idea what woman worry about during sex so there is nothing specific I can say they should stop doing.. Just enjoy it, because we are.

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?

Ummmm.. I'm going to have to say wrap their legs around my lowerback while i'm on top, I hate when girls are just lazy and let their legs droop and make me do all the work, I like when she keeps her legs busy.

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?

Look you in the eyes.

20 Year Old Male

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Thanks so much Salingo...wonderful answers, btw.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hey Fellas,

Are you up for answering some sex/dating questions about men that a great many women have been asking me lately? If so, please know that there is no need to answer all of them, just the ones that pertain to you. Ready? OK, here goes…

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?

Honesty
confidence
considerate

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?
General flirting works
she should never act as if she has me at her whim

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?
Faithfulness, fun loving and spontaneous

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?
If I really like her it would not matter at all, but at my age I would maybe be a little afraid

SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?
Her body and trying to be good for her and myself at the same time

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?
Their body

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?
lay there and think they are awesome for being there and breathing or the other end of the spectrum, trying to hard to sound like a porn star

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?

Show me vocally that they are enjoying it because they are, not because of acting and maybe a bit of dirty talk, telling me how they like this or that or to do this and that. If she wants it tell me.

A very short list, I could go on but that is what comes to mind quickly.

[Salingo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Salingo]

Thanks so much Salingo...wonderful answers, btw.

You're very welcome, if you have any more questions just send me a message, or post another thread I love answering questions.

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

Dating
1. First i need a lady that i can actually argue with. I dont mean that i like to argue i just mean that if i say something shes not gonna concede right away and agree with me right off the bat because then there can be no growth and things can become quite boring. I like a strong woman. Second they can take jokes without saying that i am being insulting. I cant stand a lady who cant take a joke and takes it to heart everytime. Lastly they have to be attractive to me. Thats a given as most people choose people that they are attracted to.

2. This one i dont really know all my relationships just happened there is nothing special they should do other then flirt and make it known that they are flirting. Not saying be all in your face but a casual flirt.

3. I don't really make expectations on my own. If im really serious about someone setting an expectation from them before i know them can not only set yourself up for disappointment but also make you miss out on a potential great relationship.

4. For a long time this was important for me. I didnt like to think about the fact that my SO had been with others. But recently i have come to realize that even though someone has been with others does not make them lesser in any way.. Of course any statement has its limits. I cannot do it if there list is way up there my mind couldn't take it.

Sex
1. I think about how much i wanna please her and make her feel good. I think about how i love her face when she is cumming lol and about how her skin feels. I basically think about everything my senses pick up and surround all those things with her.

2. How they look when they are riding you. The need to shave every single day. Like a few days i dont even see or feel a difference but she says i didnt shave and if she does not say anything i will never have known and still dont see a difference after i know.

3. Hmmm never do? I dont have an answer i dont think things i want i have never had.

4. Hmm getting so turned on that shes begs for it or just tells you (take me how you want me) or just tells me what she wants it. Ne-Yo's song "Say it" says it all. When a woman is vocal about what she wants it turns me on

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Have any of these surveys helped you with your site. I would love to see an article on what you discover here one day. Maybe I would be afraid, lol

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Dating:
1. Kindness, social ability, intelligence.
2. Be straightforward about it, if you're really interested in me, dont play hard to get. I might think that you're not as interested in me as i am in you.
3. Honesty and straightforwardness(is this a word? lol). I think its mentally exhausting when girls beat around the bush, if you're upset with me or did'nt like something i did or say, just tell me.
4. It does not matter at all, it just proves that she's not promiscuous which is a good thing. However I would hope that she would be willing to lose her virginity with me. I'm ok with taking things slowly, but i wont wait for an eternity.


Sex:
1. I'll think about pleasing her, trying things and getting little ques. I try not to ask her what she likes during sex as it may kill the mood. But sometimes when i dont feel like im getting a good reading, i'll ask.
2. Am i looking good? - Yes you probably do since you're naked in my bed.
3. Experiment, instead of asking what I like, try things out instead. If i like what you're doing, you'll notice.
4. Be confident, go crazy and make me crave you.

Hope this helps.
- 23 year old male

[Jake Woods Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jake Woods]

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?
-Personality
- Looks
- Laidback/relaxed - Moaning really annoys me haha

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?
- Just tell me
- Never flirt with other men, even if it's just to try and make me jealous, because then when she flirts with me, I'm not sure if she likes me or is just a flirty person

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?
- Someone to be caring, kind, compassionate, honest, reliable, spontaneous.

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?
- I'm still young so I would prefer to be with a virgin seeing as I'm a virgin too, but seriously If I liked the girl I wouldn't care if she's been with other guys.


SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?
- I'm a virgin so I wouldn't know haha

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?
- Women often worry to much about not getting their boobs out, and when you can tell they're not confident in their own body it kinda makes things more awkward.

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?
- ANAL!

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?
- Fondle the balls whilst tossing the tip ;P

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Seeing that I dodged your last thread about whether or not male or females are the biggest players, because it would have taken me all day to tease out my opinions on the matter, I feel I should fill out these less controversial questions haha.

Dating:
1. Sense of humour is number one without a doubt! As corny as it may sound, without this, her ass would be out the door. No. 2 would be confidence. I know this is often a trait that women ask for in men, but I like nothing more than a confident and chatty woman. No. 3 would upfront-ness (or directness), there is nothing worse than being played around with by a woman. "Treat em mean, keep em keen", no, sorry baby, you treat me mean and your bag will be packed at the front door (true story).

2. i. Well flirting is quite apparent if a girl likes you, lots of eye contact, smiling, chatting, their body language and so forth. Is this what you mean? Innuendos are one of my favourite "tools" of making it clear I like someone or vice versa. More than just friendly conversation. There is a sexual edge to our dialogue.

2.ii. As I mentioned above, I HATE this b.s. of treating someone with disrespect/not answering texts etc, I know from discussion that this approach works with younger people or perhaps people who are a little masochistic, but I don't like it at all. She should never play games if she doesn't want the same to happen to her.

3. Loyalty would have to be the cornerstone to this. Honesty, directness, and integrity. There should never be any worry in a relationship that someone might stray if you are with the right person. I had an ex in the past who demonstrated her own insecurities by never trusting me when I was not in her presence, without any reason to be (I was 100% loyal). So, mistrust should only rear its ugly head if it is genuinely warranted.

Phew...

Sex:

1. I hope I don't cum too quick. I hope I can keep it hard, I drank nearly a bottle of whisky tonight. Fuck this feels good. What position will I do next. Damn, I love her. [These are either general or with someone you like]. With an ex in the past I used to always think about other women during sex because I detested her so much.

2. If they look sexy enough. If you made my cock hard darling, you look fine to me

3. Hmmm, biased here, a lot of girls I have been with were open-minded enough.

4. I love it when they don't try to look or act sexy, when they are just lying back and enjoying themselves and you can see their eyes going all drunken-looking from the pleasure rather than trying to force it or fake it.

My work is done for the day, now for some lunch.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Have any of these surveys helped you with your site. I would love to see an article on what you discover here one day. Maybe I would be afraid, lol

Hey BigO,

Yes, these surveys and questions I ask are incredibly helpful for the readers (both women and men) of my blog. I've just been very busy altering the format and style and I will be adding additional features where you may actually see one of your quotes! But don't worry, your name will always remain anonymous.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Is this pass/ fail or will I get a grade?

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Is this pass/ fail or will I get a grade?

Yes Cusp...this is a pass/fail exam and it will be graded...but just yours though

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Haha love that smiley TPW, that is like me when I have to grade exams

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hey BigO,

Yes, these surveys and questions I ask are incredibly helpful for the readers (both women and men) of my blog. I've just been very busy altering the format and style and I will be adding additional features where you may actually see one of your quotes! But don't worry, your name will always remain anonymous.

You can use my name, and give Cusp a C+, he tries hard, lol