my story...

[ur_real_guy Member Find all posts View Profile Close ur_real_guy]

Dude, I think you may be clinically depressed, if it has caused you so much trouble to the point that you became suicidal, socially withdrawn, cannot live a normal life, or have a stable job. You are so focused on the thought that you are small, where in fact you are on the average with a good girth. It is totally messing up with your psyche. You have to re-wire your thinking, maybe see a therapist? Believe me, it's all in your brain. You have the tool to make a woman orgasm, so don't feel intimidated with your size. Remember, the G-spot is only about 2 inches from the vaginal opening, and the vaginal canal is only sensitive in the first 2-3 inches as well, beyond that, they don't really feel it. Also, you can make them moan and cum with clitoral stimulation and you won't even need a dick!

Maybe another factor that contributes to your lack of confidence, is that you don't date much. Sometimes when I have been single for so long, I think I have lost it, and I become shy with women again. You should go out more often, even for casual conversations and friendship, or if you get lucky, you'll end up having a gf. Before you know it, you have become an unstoppable sex machine.

The size of a dick is not the be-all and end-all of a man. Having confidence will go a long way. But if we are not satisfied with our dick? We can always have an upgrade without surgery. Control your dick, don't let it control you. It's do-able, just stick around, there's a lot to learn from this site.

PS. Don't compare yourself with others. Stop watching porn.

[sandiego27 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sandiego27]

I too think you might stand to gain from some therapy if you haven't already gotten some. Being driven to the point of suicide multiple times is a serious sign of deep depression, and it may have nothing to do with your penis size or your friend. Some people are clinically depressed, it has nothing to do with their environment.

You could stand to gain some confidence and self respect though and the best way that I know how to do that is to lose weight/get in shape, and grow your penis larger. When you look and feel great on the outside, it reflects on the inside too. Seriously man, start a simple workout routine it will keep your mind off things and you'll look and feel great in no time (I would advise against getting a Gym membership because with your fragile ego, you may just get more depressed seeing all the bodybuilders hooking up with the hotties at the gym).

If your unhappy about penis size, change it! I used to believe that penis enlargement was a big scam to get my money, but I took the plunge and have already seen results in a few months.

Therapy
Gym membership or better yet just Diet/Exercise (jump rope/running/cycling/swimming)
Penis Enlargement

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Grab your cock and be a man!!!!

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

Dude! No more gloom and doom! I'm new to PEgym but I've been PEing for 4 months and it works man! Get yourself in shape, grow your dong, and go meet some women. There is no sympathy in the world for men.

i'm hoping it will work. i don't want to really use devices either. i'm keepiing my options open mostly to pills if there are any and exercises and techniquies. the only improvement i've made lately is losing with in that area and and shaving

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

it seem like it might be but i'd still like to add like half an inch or more

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

and also dude, a 5.5 girth is good, and is pretty much the beginning of the "thick" categorization.

it seems decent but i'd like to add at least half an inch

[ivioca Banned Find all posts View Profile Close ivioca]

5.5" girth is excellent. it's a pretty thick shaft.

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

i've actually measured again and the length is actually more like 5.75 when full too

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

I honestly think men put more emphasis on dick size than men, so you're probably feel like the most important thing in the world (like I do) when it isn't. The great part is you CAN enlarge your penis, and as much as I say size doesn't matter THAT much, it has given me an incredible confidence boost and helped with everyday life. It sounds like everything about you is good for bed, you have sex experience (I've had none), and you're determined to please a woman which is more selfless than the norm from what I've heard from guys and women.

Luckily, this forum is actually extremely friendly and it would be rare to find someone that would judge you for your looks. For the record, the average length is 5-5.5 and the average girth is 4.9 ....so you actually wouldn't be considered small. Try not to compare yourself to others in terms of success, there are going to be people better and worse off than you, but you sound like a nice guy so keep your morals because you believe in them and eventually you'll find the right girl, and not because of a large penis after PE.

I'm not sure what drugs you're on but if it's something not prescribed by your doctor (weed, meth, cocaine, etc) then get off it and do it soon. People resort to drugs because they're depressed and all it does is make you more depressed. Find a hobby instead, doesn't matter what, try drawing or learning an instrument or game design etc. Staying off drugs are going to help you maintain consistency with your PE which is probably the most crucial aspect of PE. Also stick with PE it works trust me. Even if you have slow gains, stick with it periodically and you won't be sorry.

ANYWAYS, welcome to the gym! I'm fairly new here but I've made a ton of annoying posts and everybody has been more than kind in trying to help. Again, try to get off the drugs as quickly as you can. Make your body healthy in general and it will help you enjoy your penis more. Exercise might be a good alternative to drugs. If you're feeling down, go workout. I find lifitng weights/cardio gives me a huge endorphin release (makes me happy) on workout days AND puts me in a better mood 24/7. It's helped me play video games less and it's something interesting to research and learn about, just like PE.

[Unforgiven Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Unforgiven]

Great post! Unforgiven

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

i've actually measured again and the length is actually more like 5.75 when full too

And I bet that is without pressing in the ruler. Your probably 7" BP. When you factor in girth your way bigger than me.

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

yeah that 5.5 IS BP. it's small and it's been screwing me up for years. Just tonite i've gotten real depressed because i was hanging out at my friends place and his gf made a comment about his big d**k and how awesome it was and they'd just got talking about the fantastic christmas they're going to have and i just wanna die. Of course my solution to make me feel better for the night is a couple of oxy neos but it's not stopping me from crying. You know what my christmas is going to be? either at my parents or home alone with no job, no dinner, no gf, no kids and my small penis as it's been for every year as an adult. it hurts so much when i see his life and i get stuck with mine. All life seems to be is luck. It's so stupid. Seriously, why do some men get stuck with crap like this while others get it so good and just have it handed to them? Why is it like this for us? I hope to hell something on here works but yet i feel like giving up and that there's no hope. I hope to hell something on here works...

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

so where do i start? i don't really know what i'm doing and i don't know any techniques tho i've looked up jelquing and i've tried practicing it a little bit but i don't know how i should be doing it or for how long or anything. and someone mentioned some other word that started with a k or something; i'll have to go back and see it again.

[jasonjanes Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jasonjanes]

oh and in actual fact i was way off somehow, it's only like 4 and a half or 4 or and 3/4 roughly. i must've been looking at it wrong somehow but that's what it is. why do i bother...fuck it then, i give up. this is my life, that's how she goes as they say.... oh well, i guess i'll have just to have to get used to the suffering or OD. and to think i was starting to get my hopes up over this only to be brought down again. and even if it could get bigger it doesn't do me any good to sit around waiting for years til i'm like 40 or something. i'm just fucked. oh well, life isn't fair...but it is to my friend

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

First off read jp90 exercise routine, then do it without fail. You will gain in length and girth, next get over your self pity. It is what has pushed women away from you. Get yourself together you are a victim of your own thoughts. When you get past your pity you can become confident in your self, and that is what women look for. Think positive be positive get positive. Take control of your life, be the master of your future.